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Tell him “bye then!”
I’m asexual, and I only recently came to that conclusion.
Decent partners don’t force sex.
You might find you have better options.
Hmm the rational side of me knows this, but what should I do?
I'm banned on Tinder and unfortunately Badoo and Bumble doesn't have anyone interesting for me
The reason why this controlling, 40 year old, insecure twat of a man is dating someone of your age, is because there's not a woman his age with a shred of self respect who'd put up with this kind of toxic bullshit.
Tell him to take a long walk off a short pier then block him on everything.
Well if he can't pay rent, you ask him to leave.
Don't be so soft.
Get him to sell everything he owns or get out.
Get a timer and set it for 10-15 minutes. If he can’t get to the point (or the end of his story/monologue/droning on and on) by the time the buzzer goes off then he’s being rude or mean or oblivious towards you. He might benefit from some counseling to help him develop tools to improve his communication skills. Good luck
Omg I am so sorry for your loss. How long ago was this? If it was recent I think he is processing in a unhealthy way. Sounds like he is stuck in the anger stage. Angry at himself, you, god, everyone and everything that reminds him of what he lost. Losing a child breaks a lot of couples up because dealing with that pain is to much for one or both to deal with. Get yourself out of there get some therapy and let him know you are there when he is ready to talk. Give each other space to heal. Once again I am so very sorry and sending you a long hug.
Can you donate plasma?
He's a cheater. He is cheating on his girlfriend with you. Guess what he will do to you. Cheat on you with the new girl he finds next week.
Doesn’t have a wife. His bby mama and him have a good relationship but they’re not interested in being together. Also I have his IG so I can see all that
She felt like the past 8 years have been nothing but lies and I trapped her by being someone I am not.
Well, she's not wrong. Have you asked her what she wants to do next? Or how she sees your relationship continuing, or ending? What does she want?
What do you hope to achieve by telling his wife? If he's really getting divorced, she already knows they're over.
He's almost certainly been playing you, though. “Doesn't want her to know he is in a relationship” = no intention of getting divorced.
Leave him and move on with your life. He's not worth it. And if the wife is still with him, eventually she'll learn what he is.
Start home workouts. Not everyone likes a gym or machines. YouTube home workouts you both can do for 20-30 minutes. Look up Zumba, they have Disney sing along workouts, try beginner options, etc.
No not at all. I love her as a whole, that’s why I’m with her. It’s strictly her face because the new colour is just so prominent. I’m completely aware it’s wrong of me to change how I feel over something so small, it’s just the colour is so harsh I find it’s the only thing I focus on and it doesn’t fit my taste
I think you’re trying to equate how you’ve felt in certain situations into his current situation. If he’s not given you any real cause for concern then you’re kind of overreacting.
Unless he’s not happy, let it go. Just keep open communication about his feelings and trust him to know when something isn’t right with himself.
You come here for advice and then get upset by advice. Got it. Immature on all fronts.
Let me clarify this, I didn't get “good morning” texts until they were separated. We were all friends before they got divorced. But his wife was much more interested in closing down bars at 2am and never coming home. Not to say that he was completely blameless in their marriage, and there are way more things as well. But we were legit just friends until they separated. And even after that really.
Is there any indication of his mood getting worse? Or are you just noticing his weight increasing?
Do YOU want to be become a mother NOW? Are you able to financially sustain your child? These are the questions you should be asking yourself.
Even if your bf reacts favourably, you don't really know him and you cannot decide if he is the right parent for your child
See, that's what I thought to start with, but the crying and the sex thing made me think again. What she be gaining from doing that.
The gender pay gap is almost entirely due to mothers.
A SAHM falls significantly behind in her career, but even “working moms” suffer because of time off from pregnancy appointments, giving birth, breast feeding, and because they are almost always the ones taking kids to school and extracurriculars, taking kids to doctors appointments, staying home when the kid is sick, etc.
All of this adds up over time, and working moms get passed up for promotions, while working fathers – who typically do none of this or much less – are unaffected.
Childless/free women do not experience the gender pay gap remotely to the same extent.
So yeah, especially where kids are involved, the mother deserves the alimony she receives in the vast majority of cases because of her unpaid labor and the sacrifices she has made for her earning potential, all of which enable the husband to increase his own earning potential.
Dude get some self respect.
Being a therapist means nothing.
I work in a female dominated field, so this’ll definitely be a hurdle in the future. I’ll try to speak with her about this and have a discussion. I just needed to ask, cause I didn’t think this was common sense as she verbalized
That poor victim. And you and your kids. Just think of you and your kids.
You should not be protecting the person doing something wrong.
Elaborate negging? Bail, just don't respond and block him there too. If you really want to respond say something like “I wish you well, but I don't want to pursue this or keep in touch. Take care.”
All first (and most second) dates from internet dating should be in a public place- unless ending up dead or in the sex trade is on your list of life goals (probably not?). Then, after you know their first and last name – you check OTIS and the Sex Offender Registry. Not a bad idea to check local court records too – I did this with every guy I dated including my (now) husband before they got to know where I lived.
Speaking of life goals- if you're looking for something serious, and the other party is looking for a hookup: don't go out with them. It's perfectly reasonable to make sure you have similar objectives for dating in general before you actually make plans, it's not enough to just like the way someone looks and think you get along okay.
Don't feel bad, sad, or ugly. He could've been diplomatic and say “I don't feel like this is a good match, let's go our separate ways”- instead he gave you half baked criticism of an “ick vibe”- that doesn't mean anything tangible. It's more likely that now you feel badly about yourself (his doing) he's going to come in and try to boost you up just enough so you feel more inclined to sleep with him, but not enough of an ego boost to where you think you can do better then him. Negging is gross, but it's a tactic some guys use.
Yup.
I was married for about nine years. Different relationships before and after that.
Not once did I ask for a blowjob or to otherwise be pleased without expecting I would also please them.
Sure, there have been times they've offered and I've accepted. Maybe they're on their period, or time is an issue, etc etc. then again, I've also gone downtown with no reciprocation on their part.
But I'm generally of the opinion that the default should be mutual pleasure, and anything one way should be instigated by the giver not the receiver of pleasure. Thought I'd totally understand it's okay to sometimes ask, if my partner was clearly not thrilled about the scenario then I'd figure out something else… not keep doing it
Trust the intuition. There’s NO explanation or reasoning to why he should have those nudes in the first place. ^ and to the underage comments it’s true. If she is a even 18 it’s WEIRD asf.
No you are not in the wrong. You simply can't put out as much as she would like. She is wrong for acting like no sex for a day (or any length of time) is an insult, or for acting in such a way that you think that's how she feels. She also shouldn't be putting you in the position of forcing yourself to perform more often than you can enjoy.
One thing you may want to consider is expanding your definition of sex. If you bring her to orgasm without penetration, would that fulfill her needs without making you feel used?
You're allowed to say no to sex for any reason, but especially due to being too tired, or simply because your body/psyche can't keep it up. She must accept your answer without making you feel guilty, or making you feel like you're failing her. She needs to ask you what you need in order to increase the chance of a “yes” at any given time, yet accept your answer even if it's a no. She can masturbate if she really needs to.
If she truly “needs” more sex than you can give her, then she needs to find someone who can. The current situation isn't fair for you.
This woman is sexually taking advantage of you, knowing that you’re super young.
This is not a can of worms you want to open. Stay away