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  1. You are on the right track, OP…..but I wonder if you know why.

    The single greatest damage that porn does is to instill unrealistic parameters for how a typical Human Being expresses themselves Sexually, including Behaviors, Emotions, Cognitions and Beliefs. Many of these bits are absorbed almost subliminally and do not express themselves until you review your comportment in Hind-sight. Often, by then, the damage is done.

    Oddly, its not as though your partner will suddenly start demanding that you perform, or submit to, some aberrant activity….though that Has been known to happen. Rather, an individual begins to frame emotional (see: affirmations) and intellectual (see: validations) feedback to their partner in inordinate and variant ways. Further, even if the Partner is grounded enough to observe and provide feedback on this comportment, a person taken with porn tends to discount the need to respond their partner's thoughts, needs and positions. Its a simple matter of backing the calendar down then, to where the partner feel sufficiently devalued in the relationship to bail.

    Most people submit to the tyranny of porn because…honestly….

    the Human experience is pretty mundane by comparison. The truth is

    revealed when it is finally time for porn to deliver on its promise and it can't.

    But by that time the producers have their money and could care less.

    And your relationship is in the shitter.

    Your partner is aware, on some level, that everything I have written is

    the truth and he continues to disrespect you and the Bond.

    If you think you are some kind of Relationship Hero by giving him

    chances, enduring his lies and submitting to his disrespect……..

    Your Not. FWIW.

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  3. Honestly I’ve tried but Im yet to meet one who I actually vibe with. We never have the same interests or sense of humour, none of my friends are alternative and I wouldn’t say my personality/music taste etc is either really I just love the style! I do try though as I know everyone’s different but the men I always have a connection with are not alternative. You’re right though, it would make things a lot easier.

  4. Well, first of all, you need to take responsibility for your part. You're not losing a good friend because you had a crush on her, you're losing a good friend because you cut her off when you found out she had a boyfriend. She was probably more confused than you, because she probably had no idea why you just stopped talking to her. Also, if your inclination was to cut her off when you found out she wasn't single, I don't think you actually see her as a friend.

    If you want to reconnect as friends, you're going to have to be honest with her. You got your own hopes up here, she never even knew you liked her so it's not like she shot you down or anything. From her perspective, she had a good friend who just stopped talking to her for seemingly no reason, and if you want her to trust you again, you need to tell her why that happened. If you don't think you can be just friends with her without expecting more at some point, then I think you should let it go, because that's not fair either. As in, if you're only waiting around for her to break up with her boyfriend, then pretending to be her friend in the meantime when you may just cut her off again for getting with another guy would be dishonest and you don't want to start a relationship like that anyway.

  5. You’re quoting something that was never said. You’re just flying into assumptions to fit your narrative.

  6. I did think that could be the case so I asked her if she had met someone, she said no, and the high quality of our communication makes me believe she is telling the truth, but I might be wrong

  7. he said to me he wanted to show her the photos, that’s why I know he took some. I know I can’t tell him to remove them.

    Yes, you can because this is your boyfriend of four years. Why would he take it upon himself to take photos of another woman without her knowledge unless he was trying to flatter her?

    This is absolutely not okay no matter how many times you try to make yourself feel completely normal about it.

    You have put up with too much by watching this happen right in front of you and not saying anything about it. This behavior of his needs to stop or I would end the relationship because this is going to continue to eat away at you if it doesn’t.

  8. Jesus Christ. If you are being honest with us, are faithful and have never done anything he's accusing you of, fucking run.

    The relationship is absolutely not “good.” It's objectively terrible if not abusive.

  9. I agree with other posters. She may be playing you a bit. Like a stripper trying to get close to you so you pay for a lap dance. She may be trying to get a sugar daddy.

  10. Yeah im going to his house now to collect my stuff , just don’t know why he would fool around with me and spend all night with me and the next he’s asking some random person for nudes

  11. Talk to her about your concerns. Of course, she'll likely have a cover story. Her intentions are sex-on-the-side, and it's working.

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