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1. Honestly just sounds like he's not especially good at conveying what he's thinking/feeling into words. At face value I understand what you mean. I also have quiet BPD so I'm inwardly very very hot on myself and always questioning my value/worth so I may have initially taken it that way too. But I really feel like he means he's had a naked time letting others in so he's self sabotaged in relationships by putting up walls and pushing people away. But that didn't deter you, so your commitment to learning about him, breaking down those walls, etc. really captivated him. You may have done a lot of emotional work others weren't willing to and sounds like you may have encouraged him to do the same.

   I'm only an outsider though so I recommend taking a moment to yourself to remind yourself of your worth with or without his input. Then calmly and casually ask if he can elaborate. Did he feel that others gave up on him easily? Did he feel you were trying much harder when he wasn't being the easiest to let others in? It's likely just a miscommunication and you'll feel better. If for some reason he really feels as he said, then I understand being hurt, but remember that he doesn't decide your value as a person. You can decide what to talk about or do from there.

   I wish you well!

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