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  1. It's just media. The fact that women with bigger breasts than you exist and appear in TV and movies isn't a personal attack to you. I can understand the insecurity of like pornos focused on women with big boobs or something, but like.. even clothed boobs? Boobs on bras? You're being very unrealistic.

    He's right, you should practice what you preach. If it's not okay for him to watch scenes like that and it shouldn't be a big deal, then you would have no issue doing the same. But you DO have an issue, because you know it's a ridiculous expectation. You need to address your own insecurities, putting that on your boyfriend is childish.

    And I say this as a fellow small boob woman who hates nudity in media. I literally check parental guidance for movies and TV shows before watching them to see if there's nudity involved, because it just bugs me and ruins the whole thing for me. It sucks, but there's a lot of stuff I can't watch because I just.. don't like it.

    But you know what? My husband can watch it. He's a big boy and he can decide what he wants to watch. He has to accept that I am not interested and don't watch stuff like that with me, but if I'm not in the room, go for it. He's an adult. He still loves me. He hasn't left me for Scarlett Johansson yet.

  2. The only thing I will say is:

    Why is doing drug and getting blackout drunk the only way to “have fun with friends” or “not let the rapists win”?

    If her friendships hinge on being high and drunk then 1) not good friendships and 2) you likely have self image/personality issues if you believe the only way you can be fun or interesting is to be hocked up on a cocktail of substances. Thats a completely separate issue from any trauma she may carry.

    If you stay, know you can't force a change in her. She HAS to choose to change and that could very well NEVER happen. (As in don't fall into “I can change her” or “I can save her” mentality. Sometimes the onky thing you can do is let them fall and pick themselves up on their own)

    She's constantly putting herself in high risk situations and if you either dont put the boundary down (shock her system into realizing what shes doing isnt healthy) and follow through with it or leave right now, you could very well be getting a call that she's OD'd from mixing drugs and alcohol. Worse yet she's been assaulted and/or attacked because she was an easy victim (for attempted rape & murder, kidnapping, trafficking, etc).

    Only you know how much you can handle, but personally, I wouldn't be able to be with someone who (soundly or not) chooses to place themselves knowingly into high risk situations after they KNOW what will likely happen from previous experience. Once was a mistake, 2nd a bad choice but more than that is a level of (for lack of a better way of expression) self flatulation I can't deal with. If they want to continue, fine, but I take the mentality of “I won't watch you spiral/get yourself injured/killed”

  3. After having as traumatic an experience as you did I would suggest you shouldnt be in a relationship with anyone right now, especially someone who doesnt understand or seem to care what youve been through. If you arent in therapy presently I would suggest you begin and give relationships a break until your therapist feels your ready once more.

  4. It’s crass to be an ass to someone trying to find a solution to a real problem and being kind about it.

    Of course some people are so far up their own asses that they don’t recognize this, so I can understand how it might not be obvious to you.

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  6. Second this. Would recommend looking into some emdr or brainspotting. Great techniques for processing trauma and moving you out of the stagnation.

  7. You can cook for yourself and decide not to eat them. If she’s comfortable consuming food that’s been kept that way then let her eat it. Really nothing in your post seems like you’re doing this for her benefit. Especially your last comment about her gaining a few makes me feel like you’re in the wrong. Grow up and do for yourself. Let her do the same.

  8. To be fair to her, they seem to be messaging a LOT less now, and we've spoken about boundaries a few days ago. She still wants/needs to be friends with this guy since they will need to work with each other for the next few years and doesn't want anything to be awkward – I get it. She asked me what I wanted her to do – I told her that I want him to know that they're just work friends, nothing more. And also that she needs to make it obvious when something is said that she's uncomfortable with.

    She's very convincingly told me that she doesn't like this guy, just down to the type of person he is – a dirty, drug-using womanizer. She has assured me that just doesn't fit her criteria lol – but again, what is truth?

  9. Mmmm, honestly no. I would be pretty pretty defensive, because dude are you really doubting me?!

    I’ve never cheated in my life. But I value trust a lot. An implying comment on “perfume in the master bedroom”, which awfully sound like an accusation would get me pretty mad.

  10. Sometimes it happens. Some people in the comments are assuming malicious intent on your girlfriend’s part, but I’ve known women in your girlfriend’s position who had kids in their late teens/early 20s and genuinely believed that they wanted to have another child once they were older/more financially secure/in a stable relationship because, hey, they already did it once when they were in a much less well-off position so being in their mid 30s meant they were better equipped to do it again…..and then the reality of starting over with a new baby at 35+ set in once it was actually time to put up or shut up. Conception is more difficult, pregnancy is often higher risk, being sleep deprived hits a lot differently in your mid 30s, and it’s tough to look at your teenage kids and realize that they’re almost out of the house while you’re thinking of going back to changing diapers. I think it’s entirely possible that this doubt didn’t really start creeping in until a few weeks ago for your girlfriend and I’m glad that she’s being forthright about it, but it’s understandable if this is a dealbreaker for you. if you genuinely feel like you won’t be truly fulfilled unless you raise a child, then you should tell her that and brace yourself to end the relationship

  11. I just want to tell him I like like like him ?? your words, not mine. That was AFTER your found out he was married. You’re still going on like after finding that out.

  12. No way it was Clorox or he’d be way more concerned about the chemical burns on his junk than if he was smelly…

  13. No no fr i appreciate you! I'm an over thinker too so it's nice to feel validated. He was like that before, but now he's so isolated to everything and pretending things aren't bad. Idk how to get through to someone like this, but I want to help him. He's been there for me on bad days…

  14. You have been already living with your gf, and want to stop.

    OP whether this is correct decision for your growth, I do not know, but it will destroy your relationship. This I am confident about.

    Make this choice, only if you are willing to end your relationship over it.

  15. She's asking to cheat on you with your permission. Doesn't matter, girl or boy, it's cheating. At 22, I was curious to, but I didn't need to cheat on my bf to find out.

  16. Hey there, it sounds like you're going through a really tough time with your mom. It's never easy when someone doesn't believe you, especially when it's someone you care about. It's understandable that you got upset and lashed out, but it's also important to try and keep your cool in situations like these. It's good that your stepdad intervened before things got too physical.

    As for what to do next, it might be helpful to take some time to cool off and then try to have a calm conversation with your mom about what happened. It's important to try and communicate your feelings without getting defensive or attacking her. It's also important to listen to her perspective and try to understand where she's coming from.

    Ultimately, it's up to you to decide whether or not you want to try and resolve this issue with your mom. If it's something that's been happening for a while and is causing a lot of tension and stress in your relationship, it might be worth seeking outside help from a therapist or counselor. They can help you both work through your issues and improve your communication skills.

    Remember, it's okay to set boundaries and take care of yourself in situations like these. Don't be afraid to reach out for support from friends, family, or professionals.

  17. A safe you’re not allowed into?! You’ve been together for 4 years and there’s a safe you’re not allowed into?

  18. You should always be the first pick for who you're with. No one likes being second choice, and you should never allow yourself to be second pick.

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