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Now that it’s out there you have to commit to the ultimatum. Otherwise you solidify yourself as a doormat and he will never go. He was never going anyway, so now you’ve given him the best reason to go. Plus, you are not ready to give up on the relationship which gives him a chance to do the right thing. What happens often is the woman is done and tells him to get out and there is no way to reconcile. I say again, commit to the ultimatum.
Nothing you said is optimistic about this relationship lasting. I would be careful and do what is best for you, your current bf and the dogs. Not much reason for dragging things out when trust is lacking and you are feeling “super betrayed.”
I think your reaction is pretty extreme tbh but it is what it is, your feelings matter and it doesn't seem like either of you are ready for something so serious as shared dogs & apartment.
You’re welcome! I think sending out one message or one phone call/voicemail to her sister and just kind of generally ask how she’s doing (and you could consider throwing in a “do you think she’ll ever talk to me again”) is perfectly reasonable.
If her sister ends up asking you to stop calling or tells you it’s totally over, there wouldn’t be much else you could do. Which would no doubt be very hot for you, but you’ll have to respect that boundary if it gets set up.
Yeah, like that's the first place his mind went?? To her putting her fingers in her mouth. Pretty sure this says so much about him, but I'm not entirely sure what!
Thank-you for saying that, I wasn’t sure if I was overthinking it or maybe I was too persistent, but I’ve come to realise I gave him a lot of space while still trying to find out what was wrong.
That's probably why she's not telling you, because you have a history of trying to tell her how she should do things instead of letting her deal with them herself.
I wouldn't stay in a job where a boss felt comfortable doing that, and nobody felt they could or should speak up in the moment. That's not a job worth keeping and it wouldn't matter how the aftermath was handled.
Do not risk your first time with someone who lacks sensitivity. That can be trauma inducing. Either talk to her again if you think she's worth the risk or move on.
why do some women just ignore what people say and do, then try to write their own narrative instead of simply just accepting what someone does as the reality?
why ask generalized questions of males, when you are specifically talking about your guy? how about r/askmen since you really aren't asking for advice, you are just trying to generalize something.
I was curious as to where this would end honestly. I was hoping she had the brains to immediately clear her name but I guess not. Instead, she had to think about it? Sounds like she had to think of more lies. If you meant so much to her, it took her a long ass time to come to that conclusion. Happy that you stood your ground and kept your boundaries, you'll find someone that will equally respect you someday.
Yeah that would give me the ick big time. Does she acknowledge how fucked up its is to say that or is she just blowing it off? The way she said “sorry, I guess I’m. It supposed to say that” sounds incredibly condescending and almost like she’s saying you take things too personally.
I wouldn’t say this is divorce worthy, but I wouldn’t get over that any time soon either.
Now that it’s out there you have to commit to the ultimatum. Otherwise you solidify yourself as a doormat and he will never go. He was never going anyway, so now you’ve given him the best reason to go. Plus, you are not ready to give up on the relationship which gives him a chance to do the right thing. What happens often is the woman is done and tells him to get out and there is no way to reconcile. I say again, commit to the ultimatum.
Nothing you said is optimistic about this relationship lasting. I would be careful and do what is best for you, your current bf and the dogs. Not much reason for dragging things out when trust is lacking and you are feeling “super betrayed.”
I think your reaction is pretty extreme tbh but it is what it is, your feelings matter and it doesn't seem like either of you are ready for something so serious as shared dogs & apartment.
You’re welcome! I think sending out one message or one phone call/voicemail to her sister and just kind of generally ask how she’s doing (and you could consider throwing in a “do you think she’ll ever talk to me again”) is perfectly reasonable.
If her sister ends up asking you to stop calling or tells you it’s totally over, there wouldn’t be much else you could do. Which would no doubt be very hot for you, but you’ll have to respect that boundary if it gets set up.
Yeah, like that's the first place his mind went?? To her putting her fingers in her mouth. Pretty sure this says so much about him, but I'm not entirely sure what!
You know men and women can be friends right? It's not an insane concept.
If you can't trust your partner to be friends with someone, don't date them.
Post to /r/survivinginfidelity
There is nothing upsetting about it.
It’s just life.
Couples therapy. You both want different things. If you can't come to an agreement then maybe you both need to seperate.
Super annoying. I have ideas about how I’d handle those things but it would take some effort, locks, yelling….I’d make her life kind of miserable.
Too soon, suspicious hamster. Maybe in a few months I will find it funnier.
Sounds like she fucked around and found out.
Good job walking away dude. No one needs that level of mental
I wonder what he'd say if she replied: “So does this mean that instead of a divorce attorney, I'd have to call a hitman when we split?!”
I'm so sorry, I'm really glad she was honest with you.
Take things slow, talk with your doctor, maybe go together so that you both can be very careful that you don't catch it as well.
Wish you the best OP, hope things work out for the both of you.
Thank-you for saying that, I wasn’t sure if I was overthinking it or maybe I was too persistent, but I’ve come to realise I gave him a lot of space while still trying to find out what was wrong.
You're not at a loss. You know what to do, it's just very hot to do it because you don't want to hurt him or go through the loss; BREAK UP.
This is a good script.
Facts op lowkey a r ? , she finna stir up drama
No problem, best of luck don’t be too paranoid but watch out for yourself
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That's probably why she's not telling you, because you have a history of trying to tell her how she should do things instead of letting her deal with them herself.
I wouldn't stay in a job where a boss felt comfortable doing that, and nobody felt they could or should speak up in the moment. That's not a job worth keeping and it wouldn't matter how the aftermath was handled.
Not unpopular!!!
15 minutes grace is totally A Thing in Manhattan. Traffic, subway, general city chaos. 15 min late is totes on time!
Not just you. Every alcoholic. I did the same thing. Turned into a person I'm not. Drove everyone away. Couldn't hold a job. Destroying my body.
Do not risk your first time with someone who lacks sensitivity. That can be trauma inducing. Either talk to her again if you think she's worth the risk or move on.
That’s not what I asked.
If by some twist of circumstance you were in Vegas with your friends and your wife was not invited, would you cheat on her?
why do some women just ignore what people say and do, then try to write their own narrative instead of simply just accepting what someone does as the reality?
why ask generalized questions of males, when you are specifically talking about your guy? how about r/askmen since you really aren't asking for advice, you are just trying to generalize something.
she threw it all away
Quite literally, in the trash can.
I was curious as to where this would end honestly. I was hoping she had the brains to immediately clear her name but I guess not. Instead, she had to think about it? Sounds like she had to think of more lies. If you meant so much to her, it took her a long ass time to come to that conclusion. Happy that you stood your ground and kept your boundaries, you'll find someone that will equally respect you someday.
This is such good advice and a perspective I wish more people had.
This is a grown-ass man fully capable of making choices. No man can be “stolen” unless he actively chooses to be stolen.
He needs to choose differently.
Yeah that would give me the ick big time. Does she acknowledge how fucked up its is to say that or is she just blowing it off? The way she said “sorry, I guess I’m. It supposed to say that” sounds incredibly condescending and almost like she’s saying you take things too personally.
I wouldn’t say this is divorce worthy, but I wouldn’t get over that any time soon either.