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I would recommend just writing down what you are afraid of. And just take some time to reflect and do some introspection and ask yourself what you really want.
It can be a bit scary to confront your fears, but it does help.
This is definitely cheating and no, it's not normal. I would kick him to the curb. He's already gone there once, he is likely to do this again and again. You deserve a better partner in life that is exclusive to you.
Get a vasectomy NOW. You say you'd be ok, but how could you be ok with a child your wife forced upon you with zero regard for your feelings. You say she's not mentally unbalanced, but I disagree. Her insistence on suddenly acting like you guys are in your 20's again and demanding you “give her a baby” without regard for practical reality screams crazy to me.
She sounds cruel, selfish and manipulative. She'll try to trap you with another child for sure. Don't let her.
Have you considered moving on and just explaining to her you want different things and letting her pursue her baby fantasy alone while you go on about your life? If you're well off you could walk away with enough to start a nice new life with maybe a new, exciting girlfriend who wants to travel etc like you do. No need for hatred. People grow apart.
Yes this is a huge red flag – he disregarded your boundaries not once but multiple times in various ways. He behavior is showing you what he thinks of you. Imo you don’t owe him an explanation, but if you want to offer one I wouldn’t say more than “I didn’t like the way you treated me and I don’t want to see you again”. This is him on his best behavior – he is never going to treat you better than he’s treating you now. It only gets worse from here.
Hang on a minute, your wife is leaving to go fuck people whose name and address you don’t know? Something about that does not compute. Why would she keep that info from you, if for no reason other than her own safety…. Seems suspicious.
I’m sure I’ll get downvoted but this 100% is just a child who hasn’t had boundaries laid yet. He’s not atypical. He’s fine. You just have to keep on with the boundaries. No tablet for a week. No TV. He will eventually pass out and stop crying. Then you have a talk the next day. It’s ok to walk away when they are throwing a fit and then decide on a consequence later.
Ryan’s world is the worst show. That turd makes millions of dollars a year. Makes me sick.
Some genuine advice? You don’t give a shot about your marriage or your wife. You’re willing to hurt her for people you don’t even know if they want to be friends with you. You’re living in the past and thinking it’s some mythical ‘subconscious’ thing when really you’re just being incredibly immature and self-sabotaging.
Do us all a favor and go through with this so your wife will leave you and find someone who values her love in the present more than living in the past.
it’s the fact that he did it twice. he fucked up twice. i already reminded him that i never got the contacts before with him yet and then he tells me he loves blue on me when i’ve never worn blue but my cousin did? like that’s fucked up. and i was alr thinking abt how i can forgive him after him fucking ME up like that. but he came to me afterwards and told me it was unfair for me to feel that way like what? i get if it if you mixed it up but i have the right to feel upset for being confused with my COUSIN who’s a big ass male
OP this person is using you. She does not care for you, she’s just very comfortable now. She can use the depression excuse to get out of chores and to have you to pay for trips. Meanwhile she is not searching for treatment or offering you ANYTHING in return. She doesn’t help at home, does not give you support or even love.
Is this what you want in life? She will not change.
I haven’t read your post. Only saw the title but as a teacher I had to comment that: Please for the love of everything you deem holy pick medical school!!!
You are young. Boys will come and go but your education will serve you for life! Never ever chose a guy over your education!
Please! It breaks my teachers heart when I see young people who give up their studies just to stay with some guy. I have had brilliant students who end up not going to college just because of a guy. Always makes me sad seeing them. Don’t be like them! Go get your education please!
Honestly, OP, you’re using her. Change the arrangement or break up with her, so she’s not a bangmaid anymore and can find a man who appreciates what she’s doing.
You can’t. That’s the thing. She either is or isn’t. She isn’t. You can only change you. You seem to think she just “doesn’t understand”, but that’s not the issue. She’s being mean and she knows it. You’re trying to get her to understand how her being mean is mean, like that will stop it. It won’t. Her treatment of you is a feature, not a bug.
I know, but I truly love her. Like I care so much for her, but i’m so emotionally and mentally exhausted trying to live! up to every standard. I try to be fun and happy and have a great time around her family, then later on in the day when we finally get to rest she will tel me everything I did wrong and how to fix it. If I bring her flowers or coffee or lunch and not her whole family she will be upset with me saying I don’t value her family, I’m just so confused.
Until she can articulate and understand WHY she gave into temptation, I wouldn't trust her. I (shamefully) cheated on my former husband 18 years into our marriage. I felt like garbage about myself and yet I continued to do it without even understanding why, even after i got caught. It took a lot of soul searching and time to understand why I sought the affection of someone else. We ended up divorcing amicably. She needs time and space to figure out the reason she is doing this to you. Until that happens she will likely continue to do it, at least that was true for me.
I was first to tell my (now) husband that I loved him, he didn’t say it back that day and said it the next day. Much later he admitted he just didn’t want to hurt my feelings, but he didn’t actually have that realization and start meaning it till a couple months later. He also said the same thing “ive never been in love before so I didn’t know what love looks like, but if that was it, then I guess I was in love”
In retrospect, if I had known that, I would not have wanted him to say it until he meant it.
OP, just give it time. It can bruise your feelings and your ego in the moment to not hear it back, but do you want him to just say it to spare your feelings, or do you want him to be completely sure and mean it?
I felt hurt when I heard that, but I just got over it and moved on. We’re married now, the dude loves me, it’s all gonna end up fine. As long as you handle it with grace.
I love my partner a lot. Like a lot a lot. But he can be a bit too much. He is really affectionate. Loving. He is definitely a giver. And I love him for that. However sometimes I need a bit of space. Solo time to focus on myself. It helps me a lot.
I’m going to use a metaphor, which I know is not the best one and I apologize in advance. If my partner and I were dog he’d be a Boxer (really affectionate, high energy, really extrovert in his ways to show love), I would be an old mutt that sometimes just want to sleep and it’s not as hyper.
So my suggestion is having solo time to decompress
I would recommend just writing down what you are afraid of. And just take some time to reflect and do some introspection and ask yourself what you really want.
It can be a bit scary to confront your fears, but it does help.
Why was it denied? Which one did you apply for?
But he didn't tell her he is sociopath, she made that up. He just looks less emotional or having troubles understanding his emotions.
I think if you post at the wrong time of day on this sub you get crap like this?
maybe you should split up. they don't respect your feelings.
This is definitely cheating and no, it's not normal. I would kick him to the curb. He's already gone there once, he is likely to do this again and again. You deserve a better partner in life that is exclusive to you.
Get a vasectomy NOW. You say you'd be ok, but how could you be ok with a child your wife forced upon you with zero regard for your feelings. You say she's not mentally unbalanced, but I disagree. Her insistence on suddenly acting like you guys are in your 20's again and demanding you “give her a baby” without regard for practical reality screams crazy to me.
She sounds cruel, selfish and manipulative. She'll try to trap you with another child for sure. Don't let her.
Have you considered moving on and just explaining to her you want different things and letting her pursue her baby fantasy alone while you go on about your life? If you're well off you could walk away with enough to start a nice new life with maybe a new, exciting girlfriend who wants to travel etc like you do. No need for hatred. People grow apart.
Yes this is a huge red flag – he disregarded your boundaries not once but multiple times in various ways. He behavior is showing you what he thinks of you. Imo you don’t owe him an explanation, but if you want to offer one I wouldn’t say more than “I didn’t like the way you treated me and I don’t want to see you again”. This is him on his best behavior – he is never going to treat you better than he’s treating you now. It only gets worse from here.
It may take a while for your coworkers to warm up. Good luck!
Hang on a minute, your wife is leaving to go fuck people whose name and address you don’t know? Something about that does not compute. Why would she keep that info from you, if for no reason other than her own safety…. Seems suspicious.
I’m sure I’ll get downvoted but this 100% is just a child who hasn’t had boundaries laid yet. He’s not atypical. He’s fine. You just have to keep on with the boundaries. No tablet for a week. No TV. He will eventually pass out and stop crying. Then you have a talk the next day. It’s ok to walk away when they are throwing a fit and then decide on a consequence later.
Ryan’s world is the worst show. That turd makes millions of dollars a year. Makes me sick.
Some genuine advice? You don’t give a shot about your marriage or your wife. You’re willing to hurt her for people you don’t even know if they want to be friends with you. You’re living in the past and thinking it’s some mythical ‘subconscious’ thing when really you’re just being incredibly immature and self-sabotaging.
Do us all a favor and go through with this so your wife will leave you and find someone who values her love in the present more than living in the past.
it’s the fact that he did it twice. he fucked up twice. i already reminded him that i never got the contacts before with him yet and then he tells me he loves blue on me when i’ve never worn blue but my cousin did? like that’s fucked up. and i was alr thinking abt how i can forgive him after him fucking ME up like that. but he came to me afterwards and told me it was unfair for me to feel that way like what? i get if it if you mixed it up but i have the right to feel upset for being confused with my COUSIN who’s a big ass male
Did u see the edit? She told BF about the trip, but not that it was with the Ex…
This Convo won't go well when BF hears the part she left out.
OP this person is using you. She does not care for you, she’s just very comfortable now. She can use the depression excuse to get out of chores and to have you to pay for trips. Meanwhile she is not searching for treatment or offering you ANYTHING in return. She doesn’t help at home, does not give you support or even love.
Is this what you want in life? She will not change.
Misandrist spotted.
I haven’t read your post. Only saw the title but as a teacher I had to comment that: Please for the love of everything you deem holy pick medical school!!!
You are young. Boys will come and go but your education will serve you for life! Never ever chose a guy over your education!
Please! It breaks my teachers heart when I see young people who give up their studies just to stay with some guy. I have had brilliant students who end up not going to college just because of a guy. Always makes me sad seeing them. Don’t be like them! Go get your education please!
Honestly, OP, you’re using her. Change the arrangement or break up with her, so she’s not a bangmaid anymore and can find a man who appreciates what she’s doing.
You can’t. That’s the thing. She either is or isn’t. She isn’t. You can only change you. You seem to think she just “doesn’t understand”, but that’s not the issue. She’s being mean and she knows it. You’re trying to get her to understand how her being mean is mean, like that will stop it. It won’t. Her treatment of you is a feature, not a bug.
I feel like this post was made up by ChatGTP…
Divorce and find someone who is actually into you/women.
I know, but I truly love her. Like I care so much for her, but i’m so emotionally and mentally exhausted trying to live! up to every standard. I try to be fun and happy and have a great time around her family, then later on in the day when we finally get to rest she will tel me everything I did wrong and how to fix it. If I bring her flowers or coffee or lunch and not her whole family she will be upset with me saying I don’t value her family, I’m just so confused.
Sure does because she refuses all kinds of intimacy, that's why I'm fed up
Ma’am you posted a year ago in a comment that you were 15. Your story needs work, kid
Until she can articulate and understand WHY she gave into temptation, I wouldn't trust her. I (shamefully) cheated on my former husband 18 years into our marriage. I felt like garbage about myself and yet I continued to do it without even understanding why, even after i got caught. It took a lot of soul searching and time to understand why I sought the affection of someone else. We ended up divorcing amicably. She needs time and space to figure out the reason she is doing this to you. Until that happens she will likely continue to do it, at least that was true for me.
You a gymnast? Cuz you’re jumping to conclusions lmfao
I was first to tell my (now) husband that I loved him, he didn’t say it back that day and said it the next day. Much later he admitted he just didn’t want to hurt my feelings, but he didn’t actually have that realization and start meaning it till a couple months later. He also said the same thing “ive never been in love before so I didn’t know what love looks like, but if that was it, then I guess I was in love”
In retrospect, if I had known that, I would not have wanted him to say it until he meant it.
OP, just give it time. It can bruise your feelings and your ego in the moment to not hear it back, but do you want him to just say it to spare your feelings, or do you want him to be completely sure and mean it?
I felt hurt when I heard that, but I just got over it and moved on. We’re married now, the dude loves me, it’s all gonna end up fine. As long as you handle it with grace.
I honestly get him
I love my partner a lot. Like a lot a lot. But he can be a bit too much. He is really affectionate. Loving. He is definitely a giver. And I love him for that. However sometimes I need a bit of space. Solo time to focus on myself. It helps me a lot.
I’m going to use a metaphor, which I know is not the best one and I apologize in advance. If my partner and I were dog he’d be a Boxer (really affectionate, high energy, really extrovert in his ways to show love), I would be an old mutt that sometimes just want to sleep and it’s not as hyper.
So my suggestion is having solo time to decompress