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Yeah what? That sounds like the obvious and only answer .
Op starts going out with his friends again
That's what I find strange about this whole thing. We've discussed in the past that when we live! somewhere with more than one bedroom, I'm most likely going to sleep seperately from her because I'm not good at sharing a bed. She was a bit upset to begin with but after thinking it over, she actually came around to the idea and thinks it would be good for us because we go to bed and get up at different times. We're also the sort of couple that schedules sex (it's very rarely spontaneous), so nothing would change in that department either.
When it comes to this issue, if we already had another bedroom, she'd have no problem if I slept there instead. The issue seems to be based around the fact that I'd be sleeping in a different house to her, but I'm struggling to understand why that makes any difference at all, because it's not like I'm moving out and we'll never see each other. I plan to keep things exactly as they are now, apart from I'd go to my parent's an hour before I want to sleep.
This definately sounds like a HER problem. Have you discussed this with her and sat her down and talk about how her attitude and behavior is grwatly affecting you and probably the kids ?
Personally, I dont think marriage counseling wilk fix this. Your wife may need therapy sessions alone. Does she suffer from depression? I knly ask because i use to be this way. My SO stop being supportive and would say shit like ” your always tired” when i said i was tired. If i was complaining he just like ” your always angry . Nothing makes your happy” and it was a few months of this. At first i was pissed off and even nore angry but than i had to look in the mirror and address the avtualy issues within myself. Ot all changed after that. I dont find myself complaining or whinning im tired.
I would suggest you talk to your wife. Go in depth about how you are being affected and tell her, you love her to death but your not going to support her negative behavoir anymore. Just be real and up front. Ask her what is really the issue. Is she happy with herself her life and if not, push her discover what will make her happy !!
From the first source.
“From 2016 to 2019, HIV diagnoses from heterosexual contact decreased 13% overall.”
I don't know how old you are but I assume you're not talking from experience
Fair enough. If that works for you, then great. I just know I couldn’t. Zero judgement here but I just couldn’t.
Interesting. I wonder what it was about this situation that brought out the stubbornness. I know I can get really stubborn after drinking so maybe that was all it was.
I mean, you were both saying you wanted to do something that the other person didn't. You both felt unheard and tried to exert your choice on the other. It seems like his motivation could have been “fine, if that's what you want to do, then do it. I'm going my way.” Then he thought better of it and came back to find you. When he did, you felt scared and abandoned so lashed out.
It's a sucky situation all around but it seems like you instigated it, which is weird because you created a worse mood than the one you were trying to avoid in the first place.
Why doesn't this reasoning apply to the sister, though? She hid important information from her past from her partner and thus deprived him of the right to make an informed decision about whether he wanted to continue the relationship.
People should be kind to others and show some grace for past mistakes, but not to the point of allowing a person to continue to lie to or hurt someone else. It's more important to do what's right than to worry what people say about you
Oh my dear friend forgave his cheating, and they went on to have a beautiful wedding and a gorgeous baby and he cheated again. If you think you can’t trust him now, it will only get worse.
Cheating is who he is, he’s also a liar if you hadn’t noticed. You’re way too good for him, run and be the one that got away instead of sticking it out for another decade so you end up with the little kids and a POS that gives you an STD.
The only thing worse than having to co parent apart from baby mama is getting into an unhappy marriage and creating an unpleasant and stressful home life for your kid. IMO at least.
You have no loyalty.
Please explain how a co worker's feelings are more important than your intimate partner of 4 years?
That she is on par tells you what you need to know.
Break up with your gf and move on the your shiny object.
Also that crack about its easy to judge with no emotions. Yes it is. This is real black and white. The only nuance is you ate disloyal and stumbling over yourself to have both of them.
Disloyal. And weak.
Having hope that the future is going to get better is far more important than the state of the present.
If you set reasonable health goals for eating good food, exercising frequently, sleeping consistently etc and are meeting those goals then it won't matter as much what your current weight is because it's likely to get better. It will be obvious to your bf and yourself that things are improving.
i wish i could give you an award. Amen
He may be having an affair. She may be snooping after he has gone to work.
So…….nannycam – bedroom and wherever they are working out.
Yeah no this is def a scam. Obvi find out what your husband is up to but yeah. Ignore these ding dongs
thank you, I really appreciate the advice
It is unfortunate that I am not surprised by this.
She wanted you to open up in her way. Or not at all.
She is not the one for you, or anyone. Please, save yourself from this vampire.
I'd lie if I'd say there was never attraction between us. I just didn't act on it. In fact there was a time in which the tension was so thick that as soon as we were a little inebriated we made out and even had sex multiple times.
More important than that, I'd lie if I'd say that I didn't feel a bit jealous too when she dated someone else. But we always had the maximum respect and never dared to interfere.
My friends had the exact same concerns as yours, I thought a lot about it. But in the end she's my best friend and she's really proud of her independence she worked so hot for, and certainly doesn't lack guys trying to date her. I think my heart is safe with her. I trust her to do the right thing, if at some point she won't like me anymore or realises she doesn't actually like me, she'll let me go.
She’s a delusional user.
I make a lot more than my partner and I’m happy to treat him but I have my own expenses.
As do you.
She can plan and pay. She just sounds intolerable.
Your much older cheater boyfriend is an asshole? Colour me surprised.
100% he is lying and cheating on you. He has another family fosho
Lmaoo he was right tho. OP wrote in his update that she went to dates with 2 other guys in that time but they made her miss him and thats why she wants him back.
So a pretty, younger, best friend that you have a ton in common with and hangout I assume often and you dont think lines will eventually blur and dont get why 90% of women are going to have problem with that? I mean could be you both have solid boundaries but idk in a general sense this just is a bag of cats to build any relationship on.
He really wants this baby. You don't that's an impass that you cannot really soften at all, so You are just going to have to say it: “I am not ready to have children right now. I've scheduled an abortion.”
This is a decision that is very probably going to end your relationship, if not immediately, then in the very near future, but it can't be helped.
Stop accepting his gifts. Let him know it makes you feel awkward or uncomfortable. It's a sweet gesture, but you think it's giving him the wrong idea.
or – When he says “I love you”, you can say “Thanks, you're a great friend.”
or – If you think he may react aggressively, you may want to be in a public place. Tell at least one of your other friends that you're concerned he's got the wrong idea about your 'relationship' and that you're going to be talking with him to clear the air. This way he can't later turn it around to your friends if things go badly.
this could end up negatively with any choice
This simply isn't true. There are possible negative consequences to inviting the step mom, versus guaranteed negative consequences to refusing her entry. OP knows best which is most realistic. He should counsel his sister accordingly.
ultimately, it's about her
Hogwash. It's about joining two families, and leaving out important members of one family simply isn't cool. Parties and ceremonies are group affairs. If she wants something that's just about herself she can meditate.
That’s a no then
Normally fetishes are a red flag if they involve a power imbalance that you lean into. Reflect and think carefully about why you get off on feelings of complete and immediate power of life/death with romantic partners. This is absolutely a topic for your therapist.
That's the sort of fetish that makes people question if you should be/should ever be in positions of power, if you're capable of taking pleasure from such an extreme example of power plays.
A fetish on its own doesn't make you a bad person, but leaning into something like that sure can.
“Monogamy is the construct of the patriarchy, designed to limit women's sexual freedom”.
This is hysterical because women today (in the US at least) can sleep with anyone they want, orgy all the time, it just doesn't mean you get to have a boyfriend simultaneously if that isn't something he wants. I do agree that traditional marriage has a cruddy history of oppressing women, but we can also choose to not get married or create a marriage with non-traditional roles now.
Anyway, your girlfriend wants to go explore some stuff. Sadly, you can't control what she wants to try or get her to go back to her previous thinking, you can just continue to tell her it isn't for you & let her go.
Is this person actually your girlfriend? Like, did you have that discussion about your relationship status?
Because she seems more like a friend you just spend a lot of time with.
That man is a gas chamber. Gurl, dip and quick!
Are you Jerry Seinfeld? This is silly.
Not to mention naive to trust a stranger with that.
But you've made sweeping judgments of me, so it's amusing I'm so “baaaaaad” for returning the favour. That's far from healthy, to assume positive vibes from others no matter what. Shows a very limited social comprehension and engagement for an adult. I feel you are spoilt, hence why you like to “warm” to people this way without seeing how you're to blame. Or you're arrogant asf and not with it.
Check out his comments. He degrades and sexualizes her in his “joke”.
You aren't giving anything to go off of, so my thoughts are he is indifferent and wants to just have FWB, after you, perhaps with furries.
Wtf is wrong with you
She said it all. She wants a provider, not a partner. Even though this guy is already covering expenses she can’t afford.
She cares more about titles than people, and all of her problems stem from classism. It’s pretty gross. The guy deserves a lot better. Hell, I have a professional degree and I’d kick someone to the curb if I caught a whiff of this attitude/behavior. Bet she treats servers like shit too.
In the beginning i found him being a little dumb cute.
He was always this way. It’s your opinion of him that’s changed. Not that there’s anything wrong with that. It’s how the process of dating is supposed to work.
So end the relationship if this is a deal breaker for you, but don’t pretend you didn’t know this about him going into it.
Lmao. Where are you from exactly? Because in the US that's not really the case.
You need to talk to a therapist about this.
I’ve decided i’m going to be firm and tell him that i want a break from the sexual stuff. if he doesn’t respect my boundary this time then i’ll break up with him. Thank you!
There are SO many posts on reddit about husbands wanting to open the relationship, wives agreeing to 'save' the relationship, and bitter regret and pain afterwards, usually ending in divorce.
Read through the backlog of posts in this forum and you will find them.
Your husband is basically telling you he wants to cheat. That's all this is. I don't know if that means your relationship is already over, or not.
You’re really overreacting here. He’s concerned about your safety and wants you to loop him in about international travel. That’s really basic common courtesy in a relationship. You’re concerned about losing your individuality because of potentially not doing a one-day volunteer trip?! Maybe you need to reevaluate your priorities. One-day volunteer trips are performative. This looks like you wanting an ego boost to reinforce your perception of “who you are” rather you wanting to actually help orphans. You can make more of a long-term impact by skipping the trip and providing financial support instead. Weighing all factors, I would consider you the red flag in this situation, not him.
Yeah I’m still processing the part about the Clorox wipes.
Do not move on with this man. Learn what a good relationship looks like and what a bad one looks like. Learn about red flags, learn about abuse. Do not entertain a man who is verbally abusive- ever. Do some work on your self esteem.
Nah protect your peace girl he‘s not worth it.
A year?? A year?? A year??
or in her bathroom D: where the window was opened
He sounds selfish, like he wants things his way and he doesn’t care if it seems weird. Also dropping you home and then paying for an Uber to come over is beyond weird. His language is very guild trippy and I wonder if he is trying to turn you into a nanny for his daughter.
I'm gonna disagree with people here. If she's hearing from a reputable (to her) source then she has reason to be concerned and ask you about it. How many cases of divorce do we hear of predicated on not really knowing who the other person was bc they hid a massive part of themselves or their life?
However, addressing this once, fine. Addressing this more and not disclosing her source or why she thinks it could possibly be true and that you wouldn't be honest with her is the real problem. She either needs to trust you, or disclose her source and get to the bottom of the accusations with any kind of proof she thinks there may be other than someone else's word. If she continues to keep you in the dark as to the accusations, details, and where they're coming from then yeah I'd say put up or shut up and get out bc I'm not wasting my time with someone that doesn't trust me.
It's 100% about property. You seek the father's approval and if he agrees you trade him a few goats for his daughter. Absolutely nothing about that tradition is checking with a 3rd party to ensure you aren't missing red flags (who apparently didn't care enough about you to say something before he was asked for permission).
She had her friend there too, I mean, right there. My girlfriend is very immersed at her phone at times, sometimes she’s completely in her own thoughts. Happens from time to time. My gf is recovering from very awful things atm so I don’t blame her for not focusing into that. But I’ll ask her more tomorrow. She’s currently sleeping. We do not have much of a history, we saw a couple of times in the past, but since I moved back here, I thought we’d see again. I mean she and my gf get along very well.
My gf was very dumbfounded when I told her after we started to go. She couldn’t believe it, and quite frankly, I didn’t either. But as I showed her the marks, she was very much as confused as you and I. I just can’t believe what happened. Still can’t. Thank you for your support! Means a lot!
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