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She is crossing the line. Very inappropriate. She needs help.
He put his hands on you, it’s over, dudes like that get and stay away from them.
As an adult my partner doesn’t tell me what I’m allowed to do. I am not their child nor their pet.
Let her have her alone time. If it is bothering her bc or antidepressants at that time of the month help but those are very personal decisions
Your idea is plenty. I also could suggest getting him a cute date day with you, like getting snacks for a movie and tickets/netflix password, and a little gift card for coffee after.
There’s womens shelters that will give you a safe place to stay & help you get on your own feet. He will do it again , and it will escalate. Educate yourself on the abuse cycle, is addictive and will draw you back in.
What about becoming foster parents? Maybe take on some not as young children in need. It could be very rewarding, although giving them back could be quite painful.
This sucks. I'm LITERALLY in the same boat. I'd say stick it out til after the holidays? But yaknow that could be worst after exchanging gifts and all…who knows maybe it's not meant to be…maybe it is? With my partner, I've been going through a lot lately maybe it's stressful being in this relationship. I think as young adults we put to much pressure on ourselves to find the one. I don't think it would hurt to take a step back from one another.
Call me insecure I don’t really care but Respectfully I wouldn’t be with a girl that close with an guy that was literally inside her and saw her nude ?
Gotta pay the troll tolll
I think things have run their course. Your desires are too diverse at this point to continue the relationship in a form that both of you will be happy with. The age gap may have contributed to making her feel she hasn’t fully explored her sexuality.
Once you break up her finances will be none of your business so if she needs to take “massive loans” to get through school, just focus on how much your financial support has saved her till this point. I’m assuming her school has housing or she can use one of her new loans to get an apartment share.
You have nothing to worry about she will be fine and you will be fine just not together
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Something tells me that if the roles were reversed and your partner was constantly hanging out in a locker room full of nude women you wouldn't be this nonchalant about it.
You're an amazing story teller, but that's all this is: a long, bloated, outlandish, exaggerated story.
If this isn't a troll post then yea
You are in the wrong MAJORLY.
You cheat on your lady and get mad when she fucks around with someone else ? Then commit battery because your ego is fragile ? Yeeeeeeeesh.
I don't think you need to try an explain it to her because as you mentioned she'll try and counter your reasons or manipulate you in another way. Just say “this is something I'm doing because I think it will be good for me. This has nothing to do with you or our relationship, but it's what I need right now”
How often is your mom right? I made the mistake of not listening to mine time and time again until she finally stopped giving her opinion. That’s when I learned how much life experience had formed her opinions and how much she was looking out for me.
Best case scenario is she sincerely intends to get more gifts. But OP, she obviously isn't holding herself to any kind of timeline for any of it. Her birthday will come and go before you see your shitty generic slippers and some ice cream you're allergic to.
I told him the same thing, that I wanted to be treated like a girlfriend and not like a mom, he said that he’s trying to get over the traumas but he told me “not everybody can pick themselves up after they fall as fast as you”. I feel like threatening to throw him out and make him go live at home makes me an asshole because then I’m actively forcing him back to a place that gave him traumas.
why should she apologize – it seems OP is misinterpreting platonic love for erotic or romantic love and projecting her own insecurities
Good luck.
It took me 4 years and that included 3 rounds of ivf and 7 embryo transfers. I was 22 when I started trying. PCOS is awful.
You shouldn't try to control their behavior and your reaction was over the top, you handle itby doing what you did at the end, breaking up. I don' there is anything wrong with not wanting to date a partner that's into going clubbing if you don't yourself. A few years in your 20's means a lot in terms of where you are in life, I was clubbing when I was 23, but by the time I was 25 I wasn't as much and only really going to bars with mates. I couldn't ever date someone who is really into the clubbing scene, but that's more to do with the stages in life I am and what I value personally.
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I’m going to go ahead and say you do since you dodged the question instead of answering it head on…
We had a heckle about it and she blocked her ex out of rage and told me that she did it because she can make me alright. I felt it was not natural and I forced her into doing things so that I could feel alright.
You're not a victim, here.
It feels that I am affecting my mental health by overthinking. I need help, I tried to talk about this with her and I feel that I am bothering her. I am literally not sure how to proceed with this. I am just seeking advice.
Oh my! Do I detect a poor, dejected Sad-Sausage?
My advice is to stop being an insecure, overbearing, controlling asshole. This isn't about your trust issues. This is about talking responsibility for your own dramas and not expecting other people to manage your emotions.
This guy sounds comically toxic. Like almost made up. Is this really a question? My thoughts are (if this is real) never speak to this person again. Simple.
Have you read Romeo and Juliette?
I read your comment where he says that the pleasure of it's the most important aspect to it for him. While maybe he had a fantasy of rape or at least having sex with someone who could not stop him from doing whatever he wanted. Obviously he did not use any kind of lubricant and or unless he sodomized you. Or both. But in any case he didn't forget. He just was the selfish bastard, either was super horny and didn't give a crap that you were passed out or saw his chance to do whatever he wanted and took it. He probably figured you wouldn't remember in the morning if you woke up cuz you were so drunk. You should probably get a medical exam just to make sure everything's okay and possibly see a therapist for a few sessions just to get out any residual feelings you have or will have later on all of this especially if you end up breaking up.
You're married to a rapist. It's nude, but you can't go back.
What consequences?
And i am not proposed to her till now because i am waiting for her to get her divorce first
He’s 46. You are not his mother. Take your phone back. It’s his responsibility as an adult to keep his phone in working condition and deal with the consequences of not having one. Seriously.
Honestly, sounds like self sabotage to me. She can’t believe that you would be so nice to her, she doesn’t think she deserves you and is cutting you out because it’s too nude to be around you when she clearly has feelings for you but simultaneously doesn’t think she could ever be in a relationship with you. It’s less painful to lose you now than when she thinks you will inevitably break her heart.
I suspect she has been rejected a lot in her life and has very poor self esteem and self worth. It’s easier to put up a wall and assume everyone is fake and using her than to admit to herself that you care.
If I had to guess I’d say it’s ruined with the new girl unfortunately
If I had to guess I’d say it’s ruined with the new girl unfortunately
Did he say he thinks you’re gross? Or that he feels gross? Those are different. If he said he feels gross, he may mean he feels like he must have a problem if he caused you to have a buildup of bacteria that caused such a problem
Reading this honestly makes me sick to my stomach. My boyfriend and I have been together almost 2 years and we have the exact same disagreement about motorcycles as OP and he keeps insisting he’ll get one and I’ll never tell him he can’t but it is so incredibly dangerous and the “I’m a good driver” argument is clearly not enough. I just wish he’d realize that ?