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1. I know you were upset by the gift, that is understandable, but in his own way, he probably thought that he was helping & doing a nice thing. You had a problem, and he provided a practical solution. He knew you were stressed about putting on weight, and that maybe one day you would like to start a home gym, so he got you an exercise bike.

   It's not what you asked for, but you were upset about something, and he tried to fix it.

   As for planning the trip, not everyone is a natural born planner. Some people really struggle when it comes to things like that. As for his reasoning, he may have thought that he was being considerate by giving you a chance to work out when you are free.

   People are not mind readers, so if you have an expectation, communicate it with him. You expected him to plan the trip without any input or help from you, but never told him that.

   And if you want your husband to understand how upset you are, you are simply going to sit down & have a face to face discussion where you explain it to him. Don't just say “I'm hurt” and expect him to understand. Explain it in detail. What it is that he did, how it made you feel, and why it made you feel like that. Explain your thought process.

   For example, “I am really hurt & disappointed that you still haven't planned the trip. It makes me feel like I am not important to you, because you couldn't put in the effort to plan it. This is something that is important to me, and if it is important to me, it should be important to you. It makes me question how much you care”.

   Give him a chance to process what you have said. Encourage him to ask questions.

   The reality is that he thinks differently than you do, so the challenge is getting onto the same page as each other.

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