I(29m) just found out my girlfriend(27f) cheats on me with girls
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I 29M have been with my girlfriend Serenity27f for 3 years. I’ve never went through my gf phone until a few days ago and I found abunch of text from girls. Flirting, talking about their sexual encounters. When I confronted my girlfriend she says it’s not really cheating because it’s with a girl and she doesn’t have intercourse, just oral. When I ask her why she just says because their better stuff it then I am. She didn’t even seem upset. I’m at a loss I’m so upset. I love my girlfriend, we online together, have 2 cats together. Advice?
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Ok so make them 20-21. Shes had 9-10 years to tell him. Still not acting in the best interest of the kids.
Imagine how she would treat her own children when they adopt views that are different from hers.
I didn't know it was possible for a grown adult to be this pathetically self centered ?
I know everyone is telling you to tell the husband but please be careful if you do.
Just ignore it and stop stalking your ex.
If you guys were still in your 20s, I'd say playing the emotional mental health card is valid as that's when your young and still trying to figure out yourself. But by 42, you should have figured this out or at the very least gone to therapy by now…
If this is a real post, which I hope it’s not … I’d certainly not be planning to marry you.
So you’re saying it’s acceptable to ask her how her night out with her single friends was? And that doesn’t come across as searching or anything
Mate
I feel for you and am wishing you the best. Glad to see you looking to take care of yourself somewhat here.
That said, feels as if you're (perhaps unintentionally) avoiding the question about exactly how involved religious leaders in the faith community are. Regarding the decision to get married, her treatment plan, and what's best for her.
It's possible that you don't know, I'm not suggesting that you should know everything. Surely you're not at all of her therapy appointments or every conversation, but the nebulous involvement of religious authority figures as she struggles massively with religious issues is a major variable that isn't being addressed meaningfully in your responses to this point.
Get out of this relationship. He clearly sounds like someone who could manipulate you and make you feel like the wrong person for their actions.
She’s asked me to go on her honeymoon with her in just under 2 weeks and I’m not sure if I should go. I just took 2 weeks off from work and would be using all of my leave. But it’s also a free international holiday to country I’ve never been to
Where is her daughter going to stay during this time? How comes the husband just “lets” your friend have the honeymoon? Are the tickets etc. all transferable?