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Talk to her openly and tell her your concerns. It is up to her to decide if this incident is something she wants to postpone or cancel the wedding over. It should be something you talk through together and not you making a decision for her and just never giving an explanation.
Also, you need to learn to stand up for yourself. If it’s true that you lied about the lap dance, then it’s time to grow a backbone and be honest about things you don’t wanna do. Also consider if you wanna keep people around who’d push you into something like that.
If she is willing to call off the marriage because you are concerned about whether you can afford the wedding, then you should be having neither. There is a lot more talking to do, to figure out if you have the same vision for your future together.
Lass, I just want to give you a hug from reading your post. I'm really saddened about how your mum has been towards you over the years. I hope she does reach out to you. I wish I could offer some advice to help.
Don't begrudge her for who is. You seem incredibly emotionally mature for your age, a rare thing indeed, and I hope she recognizes the person you're growing into despite her own shortcomings.
Big hug and I hope things work out.
So in other words you’re only concerned about what you’ll get out of it without any thought as to what they might want. I think 99% of guys assume that the girl is actually interested in them sexually. I think if he would find out the truth, you would hurt him very bad. It would be humiliating for him
You have a choice whether or not to stay married. I would leave as she clearly no longer cares for your opinions.
You should never trust her to even go shopping at this point.
I think your better off with a lawyer
And she has to comfort him about it, repeatedly?
I honestly think you need therapy. You can offer it to your daughter- but the only thing you can control is yourself.
It sounds like you are close with family. What do they say?
If she is undressing for other guys I know it’s for swimming she is still actively choosing to do it. It doesn’t matter if my SO places down boundaries or not I would never strip hot in front of guys. And who’s to say she hasn’t done the deed with them.
Yeah I think showing up and smiling and thanking them and participating to the best of his comfort is the way! And while you think it’s a party for the two of you, it’s really for you/your family (and their local friends) because your fiancé didn’t ask for it. I’m not saying that to be harsh, but it’s kind of like the designer purse my MIL bought me. Is it nice and expensive? Yes. Did it make her feel good and proud? Also yes. Is it my style or what I asked for? Nope! ? But I said thank you and hugged her and smiled. She doesn’t need to know it’s living in the back of my closet ?♀️
It’s not healthy to have one friendship without which you will “collapse”. You’re making her an unwilling participant in your own self-torture.
Why?
I'm willing to go through hell
You wrote it here. It is in stone. Enjoy hell lol
Yeah there’s something really weird to me, about someone who loves to watch someone fuck and someone be fucked. Really awkward to me. My ex told me his phone was filled with porn. Like downloaded onto his phone. He said he needed to “clear out his phone” when we got into a relationship bc I voiced it to him that porn made me really self conscious and I don’t like my partner consuming it. Instead we made our own videos, and he told me that as long as he had our pics and videos he didn’t need to watch porn. But the dude was definitely a sex addict. Or porn addict or both because I think he would just lie and watch porn anyways and just hide it from me 🙁 I never went thru his phone one time. Never even tried. Never wanted to. But yeah. He had them downloaded. Like you’re a true addict if you have to have it downloaded into your phone. I really hate to think too that our generation is so saturated with porn consumption that it has become something “normal” and nearly a form of entertainment like watching a show on tv. And if you’re against it then you’re uptight and selfish and controlling.
You’re worried about being cruel but you’re going to marry a man to whom you are not sexually attracted? That would be cruel. You know this man holds sex in high regard and you already know you don’t want it. Move on not just for your sake, but for his.
Is it that you were hoping sex wasn’t a big deal to him so that you wouldn’t have to endure the sex very often? Did you hope and pray that he has a low libido? What was your plan for having sex with him? Grin and bear it?
Her best friend came to me and told me
I wonder why. It seems like an out of the blue thing to do (I guess maybe she was changing phone and saw the video).
In the video I can clearly see my wife making out with a guy and his hands were on her breasts, they were in a rooftop party and everyone was drunk
Yeah that would be a no bueno for me. One thing that sticks out is that the only thing that she admits to is stuff that she was caught doing.
she is adamant that they did not have sex. They just made out and cuddled but no sex.
It sounds like it could be trickle truth, she admits to what she was caught doing and no more. Remember this, there is no credit for telling the truth because if it wasn't for the friend being honest she wouldn't have confessed. It might help to draw an actual timeline and get her to be very specific about what happened and where, also an open device policy (although any message could have been deleted by now). Personally I couldn't believe someone that lied to me, regardless about what it was about.
My first instinct was to file for divorce but we have a 6 yo and I dont want to see her every other week
The thing about this is that your daughter will notice if you guys aren't ok and if you can't genuinely forgive then this will come through. I would consult a lawyer and maybe push for 50/50.
Good luck and I hope she is telling the truth finally, but I am jaded from reddit and liars XD
If she's capable of lying about her age…repeatedly…she probably is capable of doing stupid crap like telling people (who care about this issue) that you're dating her when you know she's a teenager. Or try to smear your reputation (not that you get in trouble with the law, she is after all legal-at 18), but these days there are many people who would look down on someone mid 20s dating a 'barely legal' partner.
So I hope that you at least have on text that she claimed she's 20 going 21 on evidence, just in case, stupid scenario like above can happen…when you do confront her and you guys end up not continuing the relationship anymore…
What the hell is a rep gap?
Look the hygiene thing won't change. I learned that the hot way with my ex. He NEVER washed his hands ever, and showered less than once a week even if I begged him. I would tell him soap turns me on, try to get him into the shower for sexy stuff. It got worse and worse and caused many fights and ultimately resentment on both sides. Accept his level of personal hygiene or don't and leave. This is something even therapy often cannot change.
The chores thing you have more hope of changing, when I linked my partner to an article I loved on the “mental load” he really took that onboard and he's probably better than me at chores now, I often come out to do them and they're done.
Honestly I'd leave on the hygiene alone. My fiancé is so clean he's possibly cleaner than I am…and if he brought up a hygiene issue with me I'd move mountains to change for him and his comfort….but guys tend to not think this way in my experience. They're either hygiene conscious or not.
I wouldn't ultimatum I would just break it off. These are things he has to grow up about in his own time. If you don't want to break it up try counselling, if it works woohoo, if it doesn't well you can feel better knowing you tried. It's much better than an ultimatum.
Have you considered the possibility that your parents see some red flags in Blake? Sure, they’re prone to blind spots as much as you and your sister, but they’ve also got an extra 20-30 years experience. Have you asked if they have any specific concerns or see any red flags?
I’m not saying they’re right, as I know nothing about any of y’all. I’m just trying to explore an angle most of the other comments haven’t gone over.
Lie detectors are fake so not really.
My goodness… there he trolls again!
Strangers don't know your face!
Strangers won't be thinking “uhuh, there she goes who has sex issues and has been sexually assaultet. Poor/ whatever adjective/ thing.”
STOP being deliberately stupid, it's really annoying!