22 thoughts on “G I G I – A T L A N T A is horny!just look at this sight”
Lmao ok so you are the beta, white knight, nice guy type. So she knows you will be there every times she screws up as long as she has a sob story. Well if you are willing to tolerate it, then you deserve it. Grow a backbone and kick her to the curb, or accept the crap she throws your way, do to your weakness.
Yeah, people here are harping on the age thing too much. Like, if he was 25, do people honestly think it would be less likely that he was trying to get in her pants?
You need to just cut the crazy while ur still young. Unless ur like horribly disfigured and she’s a 9/10, but even if ur personality is as invigorating as a wet dishrag you can still do way better than some crazy bitch that calls her ex to complain about her current bf.
This sounds like a schizophrenic episode to me, and if her husband just died that could’ve been a trigger for it. If there’s any family history of severe mental illness such as this , this could likely be a cause of her odd paranoia and delusions. If there’s family history of dementia this could also be at play but to have such a quick decline at a fairly young age I highly suspect more at play here.
>>I just feel a lot of pressure about pleasing him
Why? Is he a god-man? Is he a Marvel Mutant? Is his dick made of gold? Is he a biilionaire whose riches you may trade for? Why do you feel you must please this one little man so much that you do things you don't want to and are subject to his pathetic negging about the women who would do?
Sex is a topic which couples must discuss. It’s essential. It can only improve if there is clear communication. There’s ways to breach the subject gently.
I mean…if he’s not washing his ass properly and scratching around in there all the time and touching his beard to the point it reeks of his ball sack, I can only imagine.
Never entertain being with somebody that abuses you ever ever ever. You will never have a healthy relationship not only that, but the bar will be Lowered for what you take from a man. The men will get seedier and seedier.
If lying is actually a boundary for you like you say, then yes. This relationship is tainted and over. I think you should confront him about the issue and earnestly hear him out, but also remember your boundary.
My (23f) boyfriend (23m) and I have that classic fairytale story that people read about.
I'm not sure I ever read a fairy tale about some dude pretending to be a prince who actually is a selfish cunt who has an on-line sidepiece, but then again I'm not the most well-read man on the planet.
I caught myself saying, “Whoa” aloud. I generally sense people's energy and sometimes things move faster than “normal”, but daayyyuuummm. Whoa. Slow down!
It makes me uncomfortable for you just reading it.
I'd halt things, personally. My husband and I said we loved each other rather quickly, but not that quickly.
How the fuck is it an excuse? I said it's bad enough as is, but you don't understand the psychology of this generation. It's still absolutely cheating. Get real, you seem really convinced on some bizarre stuff (especially misreading other people)
I don’t think he’d provide anything that could be given to hr to get him fired. You know it’s not his first cheating rodeo. He doesn’t care about anyone but himself.
You’re trying to talk yourself out of something your gut knows but your head doesn’t want to know.
I confronted my ex WW AP and he lied without batting an eye. I had proof and he just dismissed it as made up crap. The AP didn’t want his world effected.
He knows if he gives you real proof he’ll get fired. Wouldn’t you use it against him to his HR? You have no leverage to force him to give you any proof. What if you tell him, if he doesn’t provide you proof you’ll go to his hr? Or his SO?
Did you ask him about the wedding specifics on WW’s affair? I know this will suck but ask him to provide details only AP and WW would know. They went back to his room? They planned it ahead of time. Those are the types of things you can use in the conversation with your wife to get her to come clean, if she thinks you know everything.
If you haven’t contacted a lawyer you need to. She’s going to lie, deny, blame shift and gaslight you. You know she’s been extremely shady. You don’t have to put them on retainer, but you need to know the laws in your area. There are places, if you sleep with you SO after confronting them the law considers it acceptance and forgiveness of the affair. Some areas allow you to sue the AP for spousal alienation. One mistake and you could be paying your cheating wife spousal support for life.
Lmao ok so you are the beta, white knight, nice guy type. So she knows you will be there every times she screws up as long as she has a sob story. Well if you are willing to tolerate it, then you deserve it. Grow a backbone and kick her to the curb, or accept the crap she throws your way, do to your weakness.
Yeah, people here are harping on the age thing too much. Like, if he was 25, do people honestly think it would be less likely that he was trying to get in her pants?
Why is he your fiancé? You shouldn’t have said yes to a proposal until you worked this out. Now he thinks his overbearing insecurities are the norm.
If you're on the fence it's probably better to wait. Still a pretty young relationship
You need to just cut the crazy while ur still young. Unless ur like horribly disfigured and she’s a 9/10, but even if ur personality is as invigorating as a wet dishrag you can still do way better than some crazy bitch that calls her ex to complain about her current bf.
Its a huge red flag
This sounds like a schizophrenic episode to me, and if her husband just died that could’ve been a trigger for it. If there’s any family history of severe mental illness such as this , this could likely be a cause of her odd paranoia and delusions. If there’s family history of dementia this could also be at play but to have such a quick decline at a fairly young age I highly suspect more at play here.
>>I just feel a lot of pressure about pleasing him
Why? Is he a god-man? Is he a Marvel Mutant? Is his dick made of gold? Is he a biilionaire whose riches you may trade for? Why do you feel you must please this one little man so much that you do things you don't want to and are subject to his pathetic negging about the women who would do?
Or one from today where the bf leaves piss all over the toilet and literal shit on the toilet SEAT
Also him wanting to live! together 6 months in while ostentatiously pretending to be wealthy? This has scam written all over it.
Sex is a topic which couples must discuss. It’s essential. It can only improve if there is clear communication. There’s ways to breach the subject gently.
I mean…if he’s not washing his ass properly and scratching around in there all the time and touching his beard to the point it reeks of his ball sack, I can only imagine.
I kind of don’t even want to think about kissing my husband now, lol. And he takes 2 showers a day.
Never entertain being with somebody that abuses you ever ever ever. You will never have a healthy relationship not only that, but the bar will be Lowered for what you take from a man. The men will get seedier and seedier.
Strongly disagree that it’s normal. Most people would be upset to find their partner hoarding momentous from exes and keeping in contact.
Assuming he's married
Dude is 30? WTF? Way too old to be this dumb.
“Lying is absolutely a boundary for me.”
If lying is actually a boundary for you like you say, then yes. This relationship is tainted and over. I think you should confront him about the issue and earnestly hear him out, but also remember your boundary.
So good, love this.
My (23f) boyfriend (23m) and I have that classic fairytale story that people read about.
I'm not sure I ever read a fairy tale about some dude pretending to be a prince who actually is a selfish cunt who has an on-line sidepiece, but then again I'm not the most well-read man on the planet.
I caught myself saying, “Whoa” aloud. I generally sense people's energy and sometimes things move faster than “normal”, but daayyyuuummm. Whoa. Slow down!
It makes me uncomfortable for you just reading it.
I'd halt things, personally. My husband and I said we loved each other rather quickly, but not that quickly.
How the fuck is it an excuse? I said it's bad enough as is, but you don't understand the psychology of this generation. It's still absolutely cheating. Get real, you seem really convinced on some bizarre stuff (especially misreading other people)
I don’t think he’d provide anything that could be given to hr to get him fired. You know it’s not his first cheating rodeo. He doesn’t care about anyone but himself.
You’re trying to talk yourself out of something your gut knows but your head doesn’t want to know.
I confronted my ex WW AP and he lied without batting an eye. I had proof and he just dismissed it as made up crap. The AP didn’t want his world effected.
He knows if he gives you real proof he’ll get fired. Wouldn’t you use it against him to his HR? You have no leverage to force him to give you any proof. What if you tell him, if he doesn’t provide you proof you’ll go to his hr? Or his SO?
Did you ask him about the wedding specifics on WW’s affair? I know this will suck but ask him to provide details only AP and WW would know. They went back to his room? They planned it ahead of time. Those are the types of things you can use in the conversation with your wife to get her to come clean, if she thinks you know everything.
If you haven’t contacted a lawyer you need to. She’s going to lie, deny, blame shift and gaslight you. You know she’s been extremely shady. You don’t have to put them on retainer, but you need to know the laws in your area. There are places, if you sleep with you SO after confronting them the law considers it acceptance and forgiveness of the affair. Some areas allow you to sue the AP for spousal alienation. One mistake and you could be paying your cheating wife spousal support for life.