You and those people are entitled to your opinions, of course.
I'm just saying, like… I'm naked multiple times a day and I'm celibate. Nudity =\= sex. The bf can still be uncomfortable but it's not like his girl is doing a strip tease specifically to turn other ppl on. Plus she didn't try to hide anything from him. Seems innocuous to me.
Personally I believe in bodily autonomy. Maybe your SO doesn't like the content to which you spank it, but they don't get to (in my book) tell you not to wank.
I was dating someone back in the day whom I told I was going to shave my head. They were like, “I don't think I'm going to like that, you shouldn't do it”
I told them, “oh I wasn't really asking for your opinion or for permission; I was just giving you a heads up” and I feel like this situation is no different.
I think a healthier outcome would be something like, the couple has a conversation exploring why a) this doesn't feel like a violated boundary to her as b) why he feels insecure about this situation, and where each of them falls in the nudity\sex connection spectrum and find a comfortable compromise. Maybe he should skinny dip with them all.
Ppl bathed and swam in the naked for a long time before there was ever a bathing suit to wear. But to each their own.
Sounds like its giving you the ick… completely reasonable response.
You're seeing him and to hear the guy constantly bring her up, can be a turn off. Would even lead some to believe this:
I did tell him that I did not want to come in between them if they had something going on.
Anyways, unfortunately I don't think you really have a say in the matter. You two are casually seeing each-other. If you were in a full blown relationship, sure you could be more combative on it.
Also, him telling you she was moving in for a bit, seems like an appropriate thing to communicate. It would be far more concerning if it was a hidden fact.
This is all on you. You can only control your own actions… If you want to check in or check out.
Ugh, they certainly do. I burn really easily, so skinny-dipping during the day would be out of the question in any situation, but at night? YES.
You and those people are entitled to your opinions, of course.
I'm just saying, like… I'm naked multiple times a day and I'm celibate. Nudity =\= sex. The bf can still be uncomfortable but it's not like his girl is doing a strip tease specifically to turn other ppl on. Plus she didn't try to hide anything from him. Seems innocuous to me.
Personally I believe in bodily autonomy. Maybe your SO doesn't like the content to which you spank it, but they don't get to (in my book) tell you not to wank.
I was dating someone back in the day whom I told I was going to shave my head. They were like, “I don't think I'm going to like that, you shouldn't do it”
I told them, “oh I wasn't really asking for your opinion or for permission; I was just giving you a heads up” and I feel like this situation is no different.
I think a healthier outcome would be something like, the couple has a conversation exploring why a) this doesn't feel like a violated boundary to her as b) why he feels insecure about this situation, and where each of them falls in the nudity\sex connection spectrum and find a comfortable compromise. Maybe he should skinny dip with them all.
Ppl bathed and swam in the naked for a long time before there was ever a bathing suit to wear. But to each their own.
Sounds like its giving you the ick… completely reasonable response.
You're seeing him and to hear the guy constantly bring her up, can be a turn off. Would even lead some to believe this:
I did tell him that I did not want to come in between them if they had something going on.
Anyways, unfortunately I don't think you really have a say in the matter. You two are casually seeing each-other. If you were in a full blown relationship, sure you could be more combative on it.
Also, him telling you she was moving in for a bit, seems like an appropriate thing to communicate. It would be far more concerning if it was a hidden fact.
This is all on you. You can only control your own actions… If you want to check in or check out.