Mom is weird. She's always been weird. She'll always be weird. Your (petulant) girlfriend demanding that you get into a pointless fight with your mother is absurd. Just explain to your gf that staging dramatic confrontations with people isn't the way to make them behave differently. Tell her that being this competitive with the person who gave birth to you isn't going to glean the results she wants.
Not a huge difference between 18 and 26 TBH. Also, what kind of 18 year-old woman wants to sleep with a 33 year-old man? These sorts of comparisons are always one-way. They were both adults.
Even in anger or frustration, you never bring up the things you know your partner is insecure about or the things that you know will hurt them most, there’s no going back from it.
There’s no definite line between how men and women handle/process hurtful comments and their emotions. Everyone takes things differently. If what someone says hurts someone else, it’s immediately wrong.
I think that it’s time to sit back and start thinking about how far you want this relationship to go. If he is not willing to change his ways, apologize for his words, and treat you kindly from now on, he’s not the one.
I read your previous post, you absolutely did the right thing. This guy was controlling as it was and the abuse was only going to get worse. You're only 22, you'll be okay. You'll meet plenty of other guys who are much better for you
Maybe the guy liked you but wasnt ready for a relationship yet back then but is now. If you decide to go out with him set a rule of the both of you neing completely honest with eachother and have regular discussions about your relationship
I think it is very dangerous. I also think that no amount of training or prep makes you ready for domestic violence.
Not sure why but my comments won’t show up
If people wanna be friends, they will be friends.
If people don't wanna be friends and they want to spend time with other people, it will always feel like theft to those left behind.
It does sound childish lol. I wouldn't mind it if I were you
Right.
That is not your problem. Tell her to go to the UK.
I think I know why he's divorced and I bet it's not because of the cheating!!!
Mom is weird. She's always been weird. She'll always be weird. Your (petulant) girlfriend demanding that you get into a pointless fight with your mother is absurd. Just explain to your gf that staging dramatic confrontations with people isn't the way to make them behave differently. Tell her that being this competitive with the person who gave birth to you isn't going to glean the results she wants.
Not a huge difference between 18 and 26 TBH. Also, what kind of 18 year-old woman wants to sleep with a 33 year-old man? These sorts of comparisons are always one-way. They were both adults.
Even in anger or frustration, you never bring up the things you know your partner is insecure about or the things that you know will hurt them most, there’s no going back from it.
There’s no definite line between how men and women handle/process hurtful comments and their emotions. Everyone takes things differently. If what someone says hurts someone else, it’s immediately wrong.
I think that it’s time to sit back and start thinking about how far you want this relationship to go. If he is not willing to change his ways, apologize for his words, and treat you kindly from now on, he’s not the one.
Why tf would I make passive aggressive comments. Agar ever assumption you have about me is wrong
I read your previous post, you absolutely did the right thing. This guy was controlling as it was and the abuse was only going to get worse. You're only 22, you'll be okay. You'll meet plenty of other guys who are much better for you
He’s abusive. Why can’t you go to family or friends? You need to beg for help from whoever is in your life. You need to get away from this man.
Maybe the guy liked you but wasnt ready for a relationship yet back then but is now. If you decide to go out with him set a rule of the both of you neing completely honest with eachother and have regular discussions about your relationship
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