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Firstly please don’t talk about my friend that way, he’s a kind person and is extremely shy and I know he wouldn’t be the kind of person to do that.
Secondly I don’t want to hurt anyone or any relationships in our friend group sure we may act childish but we all do care for each other a lot.
Yeah, that works!
this. If it were a cis man of woman this thread would be all about how this is borderline SA, but OP isn't allowed to feel violated because her bf lied about being trans. I don't get this thinking
It's not transphobia it's dishonesty and bomb dropping that's the problem.
You can dm me.
Your responses are contradictory.
Specifically, in your responses, you felt that he hid his attraction to men, and that is the source of your issue.
But in your posts, you clearly state that you don't want him sleeping with men, and the thought of it turns you off. Yet you get to sleep with women.
That is hypocritical.
Do not have a child you don’t want. You and the child will be miserable
You don't see it, but your husband is right. Your kid isn't safe there.
Legitimately just ask him not to use it if it bothers you that much. I feel like until you do that it's nude to tell what other advice to give you. If you think even just asking for what you want will upset him to a degree you're this stressed out by, there's nothing we can really do to help.
Your fiancé did not know he had a child. Do not punish him for one of his exes actions.
With this being said, it’s ok to take time to process the situation.
What issues are you having with the situation?
What is an OF mom?
She needs help desperately for this ” She also had a few lines about killing herself”. She could have been serious or saying this to manipulate you, either way she needs professional help.
Yea for the people attacking you lol ignore them they think no one is allowed to get uncomfortable for something they don’t normal see or have gone through but hey the ones who want to claim you need therapy and “come to Jesus moments” lol don’t pay attention to those comments. I love how some people think havin insecurity automatically means you need help/therapy no it doesn’t. If you were manipulative, let your insecurities affects you life, or trying to control things which you have displayed none of those qualities you just displayed the normal human of emotion of being uncomfortable.
That information got to me after the comment. The only information that we had that it was semen beforehand was that there was something on her face and pillow that she knew was semen. I know I'm being dragged a bit here, but without that extra information it's a legitimate question of how do you know that's what it is.
I grew up in Oklahoma so maybe i'm upside down on this but
“I also have not come out to them so I guess they know now.”
Way to bury the lead my brother.
Why do you think your sister will get angry?
My mom went through the sudden shift too. She LOVES babies, like really loves em, talked about more then eventually went “I don’t want more” i was like ???? She just realized she was tired. Didn’t have the energy to do it all over again. She likes that her last is almost a teen. She has the freedom she wants to go on random cruises and drink wine during her days off lmao She likes babies when they visit, but shes done having her own.
I don’t think OP’s wife was being shady or anything. Probably sat down and thought and realized the fantasy won’t be the reality.
That's horrific, and it sucks that she still feels like her dad deserves to be a part of her life after that.
A+ comment.
He had been complaining about his mental health very often lately, and I've truly tried to be supportive. I'd constant try to ask him about it, get him to talk it out, do stuff to distract him but it was never enough.
I've been through a nude phase too, but he says I don't care about him enough (? Whatever that's supposed to mean). It's just naked to help someone who doesn't want to be helped and get blamed for it.
Too late? Why? You’re 31. Your wife has disrespected you on multiple occasions and you keep going back…for who? I’m sorry but at the beginning of this month she was verbally abusing you and so she cries a bit and the year of torture she’s inflicted on you and your kids means nothing?!
If you can’t find the self respect to leave for yourself, then leave for your children. You’re showing them that it’s acceptable to allow yourself to be treated like shit. You’re providing them if their first example they will have of how you can treat someone like shit and there will be no consequences. Take your rose coloured glasses off and realise that all she can provide you with is a miserable existence. If you’re willing to on-line through that for the facade of a “family unit”, why? Why is it easier for you to be with someone who has no respect for you, than it is to be alone?
All that would absolutely be a deal breaker for me.
I mean the issue here itself is not that bad. It's not like you're underage or something, it's just a year younger than what you actually are. But the fact that you continued to lie for so long is a big concern. He might be wondering what other things you're lying about and he might have trust issues believing anything you say now. If you're capable of lying to him straight faced then you're not really that trustworthy. The only way you can dig yourself out of this self made mess is to come clean immediately. And I really mean immediately like today itself. Don't further lie or try to manipulate him, just say what you said here. That you messed up and it's your fault and you're begging for his forgiveness. It will be alright. Coming clean now rather than getting caught later on will show to him that he can trust you to say the truth after messing up. And as I said before, the issue itself is not that bad. He's not going to leave you for this. Hope this helps. Good luck.
leave it be.
yeah i know, and if he isn’t genuine about changing his ways i know for a fact i would never leave my kids alone with him and can just see that argument already. before this question even came up i was dead set on having kids with him, and now i’m just confused. i don’t want to leave him, i want to work through this, i just know he is stubborn as hell. and this is his only real problem too ? he’s usually pretty good about taking criticism but for some reason he is just so adamant on this topic.
and the biggest part that keeps getting to me is how happy he looked seeing my reaction. he has never looked like that before when i get emotional, he’s usually immediately ready to help me and comfort me so it was so odd
This is not a good idea. If the women in his life are accepting of this bullshit, he will likely see that as validation of his opinions. When women external to his family don’t put up with it, he’ll be more likely to see that as confirmation of the shit Tate is spewing.
Someone who can only make himself feel big by making you feel small is not going to change. He's telling you who he is and what he cares about. And it's not you.
Yep she should keep cooking, meals that are healthy for her. If he doesn't want them, he can pick up his own cooking.
Your boyfriend definitely unblocked him and didn’t want to explain why he did it so instead he spazzed out over his own insecurity over the subject of your ex.
This is exactly it. I think he feels like he works so nude and mine was handed to me but I HAVE worked naked for what I’ve made for myself as well. For you personally, is there anyway your boyfriend could make you feel better or it just is what it is?
She’s gonna crash and probably end up hospitalized with rhabdo or some type of deficiency. Since your child is very young I’m wondering if this is the way she is coping being a new mother.
She’s gonna crash and probably end up hospitalized with rhabdo or some type of deficiency. Since your child is very young I’m wondering if this is the way she is coping being a new mother.
Man, you're a disrespectful piece of a guy. You're not just disrespectful you're mocking her additionally “Hurry up and finish it then”. You're lucky she hasn't left you already. That's pathetic.
My friends don't like my girlfriend because when we started dating I stopped hanging out with them as much compared to in previous relationships there's never been a change. Out of the 8 guys, only 2 of us are “lucky” with women and have had relationships so I literally don't care about what they think regarding love and dating.
Yeah man, just evidence you're ignorant af.
Me too. Often I had more than one point to make, but then other times
You don't get a grab genitals once free card. Sexual assault is literally grabbing someone's genitals without consent. Not grabbing them until they say no.
?????
Hitting is never ok, unless it's in self defense. Your GF is way out of line. You didn't follow through when you told her you would breakup. It's time to get the hell away from this person.
To piggyback off what the guy above said…
“start by deciding you deserve it”
This is really important. From what you’ve said, you are focused on making your girlfriend happy. You’re even willing to consider an open relationship to make her happy. Why isn’t she as concerned about making you happy? Why is she ok with continuing to ask about the open relationship when your initial response wasn’t 100% excited agreement?
Please open your eyes to the way that your girlfriend has treated you. Somehow, I don’t think this is the first time that she has put her own needs first. A good relationship will have a much more equal give and take. A partner who really cares about you will want to make you happy, and not want to hurt you through words or actions.
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As someone that left a mentally abusive marriage by contacting a Women's Shelter – YES.
Either this is fake or he’s right and you are heartless.
She may not be cheating but you guys are definitely growing apart. You got married too young and now want different things. I’m sorry.
“all her Disney 'crap'”.
There you go again. You're so dismissive of it. This is a thing she loves.
And aim on!!
Which is what marriage tends to lead to, welcome or not?
9 times out of 10 listen to your friends about an SO. If they all feel a particular way and they’re good friends, they’re right.
This OP!! He bought her a Valentine’s Day present then lied about it. That’s obscene. That goes beyond the “work wife” label completely. He has some serious making up to do or you should just cut your losses and find someone who wouldn’t dare disrespect you like that.
You in danger, girl
It’s been a “couple months” and he goes off like this?
Nope. Nope. Nope.
He is not the one. It will escalate. It will get worse.
Okay but honest advice though.. 4 children under six is A LOT.. especially if she has no outlet, while you at the very minimum get to go to work. (I know that sounds silly, but trust me.. it's still an escape and a chance to not get touched constantly and have adult conversations -touched out is very much a thing and is almost undoubtedly how she feels). If you truly want to improve your sex life it is absolutely necessary that your wife has an escape too, and feels like you're helping out with home/childcare. You need an escape too so take turns with the odd “day off” from kids, and if uou can afford the childcare, priorize date nights.
Furthermore.. her hormones are probably SO out of wack from constantly going in and out of pregnancy. This takes years to recover, and she likely won't feel horny until that happens. She can help out the process by working out/eating healthy.. maybe go visit a specialist.. but that's on her if she wants to do that.
At first I felt the same, but I think we both see it as more of a neutral arbitrator than anything. We both have trouble communicating clearly in the heat of the moment with each other, the therapy helps.
And honestly, we share the perspective that therapy is a good idea even when things are going well. I'm mature enough to know I could have walked away at any time, but we both want to make this work. Sometimes you just need a little extra help.
how sure are you that this is actually something “wrong” vs just what it is that you don't like?
What you're describing is not a “somewhat serious situationship”.
My advice is that you need to stay on a permanent break because every time you travel, he will want company and isn't shy about hooking up with anyone. My next comment is to get tested for STD's because you can catch whatever he gets from others.
These were differences in politics, wanting kids, and marriage.
If you're contemplating a long-term relationship, those are pretty big differences.
Y’all are so toxic together. She was bold enough to joke about being with you and other men at the same time. You won’t ever unsee that. Move on and be single. This is a mess and zero chance to ever be a healthy and functional relationship again.
Why did it require a promise to take it to the grave? Seems super odd.
Normally if you make a joint decision to do somthing it doesn't require swearing on unless one party is reluctant or the other is desparate in some way. A simple “do you want to keep this between us? Yes or No would be more usual.
Did she help you or use you to help herself by taking 1000 “look what a good gf I pretend to be” pictures she took for her Brand?
The people you meet at bars do be like that though. Deep down bars/clubs are there to make money by providing a place for people to hunt for partners. Mostly casual partners.
If you want to meet someone who doesn't want the party lifestyle I suggest you avoid party people. Instead of clubs/ bars take dance classes, join a book club, get a dog (if you have been meaning to), start rock climbing or anything else that lets you socialize with new people.
You could try on-line dating if you're inde of the top few percent who will get any matches. Women complain a lot about f-ckbois and the lack id men who wants a serious relationship. But on-line dating us known to be a harsh experience
Cheating is a choice and you both made that choice. Its very hot but I think you should block her and forget about her. If you are a worse person with her around, stop keeping her around. Plus for any long term relationship, your partner should be your #1, not some friend.
You are 19, you’ve been dating since you were 15. So the girlfriend who cheated on you was 14/15.
He is showing you his true colours. You are just getting to the time where opinions are being developed. He doesn’t understand that you can be attracted to both male and female and still be dating a male.
He’s upset you took his money and didn’t even thank him. Yes, what you love about him is called love bombing.
The world should be ashamed. Wtf did i read. Nobody waiting For the right Person?
Not really possible to “quietly leave” when we're married with four kids. I can't just walk out with four kids, we'd have nowhere to go. I can't just walk out without them, they need me to care for them.
Yes.. Before “release” a man’s head has a sexual fog that interrupts everything.. Once the sweet, sweet release, all of a sudden everything that isn’t sex works better.
He is so lucky to have you!
Take a class or something and learn how to massage her then whip out the coconut oil and go nuts bro. Turn it into a +
If you don't tell him.and he finds out on his own, he will assume you are hiding shit from him, and that could lead to suspicion and lost trust.
Op hasn’t tried to control anyone though. She’s trying to ask what to do. She hasn’t even tried to get him to stop watching it.
Op hasn’t tried to control anyone though. She’s trying to ask what to do. She hasn’t even tried to get him to stop watching it.
These are consequences for past behavior. It happened. Make good choices.
These are consequences for past behavior. It happened. Make good choices.
it sounds like you're constantly pulling him in directions he doesn't necessarily want to go, and at some point it's gonna snap back like a rubber band. I really think you would be better off cutting bait with this and finding somebody that is less… work.
UpdateMe!
I do think it's crazy to be bothered by the fact that someone wears a popular clothing brand just because their ex is the one that made it.
I don't think he even thinks about it, because if I put myself in his shoes, and thought “fuck, I could be dating a billionaire right now” every time I wore them, I'd be unhappy when I did.
Obviously he doesn't think about her in that way.
If she can’t be in a partnership due to her other responsibilities maybe she shouldn’t date until does. Partnership includes financial contributions.
You don’t want this for the rest of your life. You are enabling at this point just because you haven’t left her. Divorce for your kids. You don’t want them thinking that this is what marriage looks like. Hopefully she’ll get help because she’ll have to after the divorce. Either way, it’s time.
have you ever think about how immature girls can be?
The amount of disrespect people bring to their relationships at times never ceases to amaze me.
Sir, please move on. Find someone else who won't pull this shit.
And by “pull this shit”, I don't mean being gay or bi, I mean not respecting the fact that you're not ok being an option instead of the only one.
Please, don't waste any more time with her.
Yeah it’s wild that people say the boyfriend is at fault for jumping to cheating when all of the signs lead to it. Also people saying his only concern are wild when he literally called her
If this is a deal-breaker for you, the only possible way to change her mind is to tell her exactly that – and then be prepared to follow through. It's probably not too soon for you to lawyer up and start talking about divorce and child custody, if she is determined to go through with this terrible plan.
If you married with the assumption of monogamy, you absolutely have a right to insist that she remains monogamous if she wants to stay married to you. She voluntarily chose to limit her own sexuality and restrict access to her body, when she took her marriage vows. Don't let her try to accuse you of anything more than reminding her she's married.
You can't. Simply state you will be a monogamous marriage or will not be marriage at all. You can start divorce immediately, you suspect something us already going on.
Why were you dating a minor when you were 21 years old?
You’re an idiot. You don’t get to date someone by starting out as friends. You’re just as dishonest because you’re not really her friend. You have a ulterior motives.
How about go pursue women like a man rather than being the male orbiter?
Thank you!! Yes def need to work on being less dramatic with these things haha
No that’s my perfect girl , doesn’t drink so no sickness , headache . Having to baby her No temptations for drugs or other men
You can have fun date nights together
My ex hated partying and planning fun stuff made the relationship
Bro my jaw was on the fucking ground reading the OP and this Women post. I guess to some people dick and pussy is a great reason to ruin a relationship with your children ??♂️
Nah, I’m 6’1 and my gf is 5’1 and it’s not that big of a deal. She loves/hates it when I lift her when I hug her thou
Everything was going great up until he lost his job in the beginning of this year. I have also been trying to hold us down financially because he currently does not have any source of income.
This here is the problem he's having mentally. He feels emasculated by being dependent on you financially and this is the source of his resentment. Bring that up with him, and stop holding up HIS end of the financial obligations but instead ask if it's alright if you contribute towards it. He may or may not be emotionally aware so he might not have recognized it – as men, this isn't an area many are developed at that age. Ask him if he wants to work things out, like counselling.
Everything was going great up until he lost his job in the beginning of this year. I have also been trying to hold us down financially because he currently does not have any source of income.
This here is the problem he's having mentally. He feels emasculated by being dependent on you financially and this is the source of his resentment. Bring that up with him, and stop holding up HIS end of the financial obligations but instead ask if it's alright if you contribute towards it. He may or may not be emotionally aware so he might not have recognized it – as men, this isn't an area many are developed at that age. Ask him if he wants to work things out, like counselling.
That's exactly why I cut off my children. That 5 year old know that cookie was mine.
See how ridiculous that sounds? Because context matters!
Committing tax fraud, committing fraud of a multi billion dollar corrupt company that doesn't pay taxes, and much more I would consider those people trustworthy in my life.
Would I ever hire them or ask them for financial assistance? Fuck no.
Would I cut off a core peice of my family (father) due to his involvement with fraud? No, as long as it had no impact on myself, my family, my friends, etc. At that point he's broken trust.
Some people would easily hurt others with no empathy whike in the same breath protecting or being available for their family. I don't agree with those people but I wouldn't cut them off as they aren't a danger to me or those around me I care about.
Thank you, i will take this and use it help me
You have a good friend. He is right. There is a reason older people date people who are half their age. The best man you've ever met is dating someone who he can manipulate.
Honestly? Still debatable. I'm letting him believe I've forgotten about it and then check his phone to see if it's the same. He deactivated his account as soon as I told him to (I told him in a rage, I know I shouldn't have done that) but with no question he did it. So idk, I'll have to see where this goes and what I find
And she’s need follow up for the miscarriage. Retained POC is no joke and at almost the 2nd trimester I’d think they’d want to do a f/u US.
I hope this is fake. It’s a big ol mess. I feel sorry for OP but he also needs to get some help.
We all have our shit – I (32f) wouldn't think that much of it. You want to see her, try
President Clinton?
It is not easy for me at all, I don’t feel proud of cheating on him and I do still love him.
You need to stop that kind of talk. No 4-yr-old should be saying stuff like that.
Next time she does, wait until she calms down, and tell her that the word HATE is not allowed in your family. Tell her it's okay to be angry with you. You can be angry with people you love, or even not like them sometimes, but no matter how angry we get, we still love each other
Your last relationship has caused you to drop your expectations way too low. Your new bf is controlling and self-centered. It's a different kind of abuse.
But the thing is, he's not good with it, he's just accepting it because he doesn't want to go through any type of battle with her.
Your brother in law is disgusting and a creep. He disrespected you, your late husband and his own wife. Alcohol is no valid excuse, i can assure you he was not drunk when he told HIS OWN wife that he wanted to fuck you.
If i were you i would talk to your father and mother in law, explain what happened, how that made you feel and back off from the trip. Try to do something one on one with your daughter, she will be disappointed yes, but imagine what kind of message you would be teaching her if she were older.
Under no circumstances should you put yourself in an uncomfortable and possibly sexual harassment situation to please others. This is not the kind of man that you want near your DAUGHTER or playing a father figure to her.
are you rich? Hire a PI lol
Lol, omg. Get a new mom. She’s daft.
If money is the only thing holding you back I would say who cares. Me and my husband were pretty poor when we got married. Didn’t have a huge wedding but it was great. Not sure all the stuff your preparing for in marriage that costs lots of money. You don’t need a house right away or kids. You work towards those things together as a married couple. If it’s that your not sure about marriage to her then I would say she’s probably not the one. You’ve been together 5 yrs I would think you should know by then if she’s the one you want to marry, if not be upfront and let her go find someone else.
This is exactly what I thought of! This is the most adorable post I’ve seen in quite some time and I hope OP just goes for it.
Seriously? You need to be told?
You hang out a few times.
You approach him at his work to discuss a personal problem.
You cry at his place of employment.
Then you still go to his work, to play childish games of ~ ignoring him~
And you want to know why? The why is because you are 25, not 15.
Getting divorced was one of the best decisions I ever made.
I think you’ll feel similarly one day!!
i asked him to go hiking after spring break! i don't really know how i'll initiate anything romantic but i'll try my best!
thank you for sharing valuable advice, i'll make sure to use it wisely!
No matter the genders in a relationship, most people at your age aren’t in it forever or with someone you consider ‘the one.’ This is more likely a breakup than a break. Don’t let someone play you or keep you around for a ‘what if.’
It’s practical to realize that your first long term relationship or first love or even first sexual partner isn’t realistic as a ‘one and only.’ People want to experiment with chemistry and experience/experiences. I did the same at 22. Realized two years into a relationship that I didn’t want to marry my partner and didn’t want it to be my only same-sex experience. The journey is different for everyone. You might also benefit from this time apart (with other people) in the long run.
After reading your comments and post you are a trash person. I hope your “friend” ditches you as you’ve clearly shown what you think of your friendship. Also anyone who 3 weeks out from separation hits up one of their partners friends to hook up is most likely the problem and a trash person also.
It's because you guys didn't do the work. Non-monohsmy is more than signing up for dating sites, it takes months of reading, therapy negotiation and being involved in the community.
Your husband jumped the shark badly and your feelings are natural because you guys haven't done any if the work to unlearn monogamous views and paradigms.
You both fucked up, which is exactly why it's too soon for either of you to actually start dating.
You leave. Split the assets and the debt. You can actually monitor that the money is going into the principle. I promise you 10k in debt is more manageable than shoveling money into the furnace that is your wife’s spending habits.
As for your wife, she already is abusing the partnership you have in your marriage. She’s not working to be a partner or working on problems as one. She can learn to take care of herself. She’s just trying to lean in as nude as possible to make herself look completely helpless as a tactic so you don’t leave. You have to understand two things: 1) you are not responsible for her, you were supposed to be a partner, not her parent and 2) her choices after your split have nothing to do with you. She has to learn. Any actions she takes are her own and this attempt at manipulation is abuse.
Honestly it doesn't sound like you made the wrong choice. Regretting a break up is a normal part of the process, stay true to yourself.and your reasons.
Given you've already been contacting her with no response, she doesn't want to speak to you right now. Just leave her be.
Yes! I was a house cleaner and the mirrors and windows were all tinged yellow in the house where many people chain smoked. I'm not one to talk about trying to sell your house, I believe you should make it liveable for you, but this isn't easily undone
>> I don't actually know who he is. I don't even know his first or last names, only a generic middle name, and I've only seen a couple photos of him from years ago.
>>My boyfriend “D” (21M) thinks I've lost the plot. He used to be friends with E years ago before they had a massive falling out
If your bf used to be friends with E, how is it that you currently know nothing about E?
I(24m) Saw partner (27F) dancing with a stranger
This 1000%.
OP you realized your mistake and apologized, we do stupid things as teens. A 45 year old woman trying to get revenge for what you did as a teen is unacceptable.
she sounds exhausting and only cares about material items. What do you get out of the relationship? My husband makes a lot of money and not once have I ever demanded a $4,000 bag! I don’t expect him to buy expensive shit for me. Tbh if I want something I buy it with my own money. I would rather my husband show his affection for me in other ways and not though gifts. She sounds vain and shallow and not to mention immature.
Sounds like your ex-best mate has some serious issues and should be left in your past.
Interesting take. So you're suggesting I start ignoring her? I've thought about it tbh but I think it's only going to make it worse.
Agree, i staring to think she is a germaphobe or she has some sort of ocd
Oh dont worry I’m SO done this time. I feel amazing. I blocked him on everything, blocked his family, he’s in jail, I’m getting a restraining order tomorrow, and my whole circle is going to know. The abuse was extremely bad and I need to value my life or else he will kill me
I agree with your husband. If his sister had concealed her sexuality all these years, it is because she knew the likely strong parental reaction. It was so unfair to her partner to set her up for this nasty drama. And unfair to do a bait and switch on her parents. They deserved a heads up. Change is stressful.
Thank you
Thank you
Some people can’t have a conversation without putting both of their feet in their mouth. Chances are, he’s just a buffoon. I wouldn’t give it any more thought. (Changing tires isn’t helped by fat. It’s helped by strength. He didn’t think the skinny girl would be strong enough. You look substantial enough to be strong.)
sexual compatibility is important in a relationship, and it sounds like this could be a fundamental incompatibility.
if you're not willing to wait for her — that's okay, but you might not should be with her waiting for her to change her mind. that'll only build resentment, and what if she doesn't change her mind ?
So don't date him and talk to a doctor about your options.
For next time, don't have unprotected sex with someone unless you've talked to them about the possibility of getting pregnant and are sure you're both on the same page about what would happen should that happen. That way you don't end up in the same scenario again.
Oh so you DO mean that if you have to choose between traumatised young daughter and wife you’ll choose wife.
Dude.
I assume the gyno also checked that her hymen isn’t causing this issue? They come in different shapes and thicknesses and some pose a problem for penetrative sex.
That’s an understandable insecurity she might have, but the way she’s expressing it is a giant red flag. Putting you down, laughing at you, dismissing your feelings, deriding your judgment. She is abusive and someone who loves you doesn’t treat you like that. They don’t hold you back and try to make you feel bad about yourself.
The people he is claiming he is with say he is not there. What more do you nee?. You having sex with him while you wait to prove it?
That is not at all the same thing as expecting someone to do a sexual act that they don't enjoy or feel good doing just because they've done it in the past.
Only really abusive parents lose custody (assuming they want it). If cheaters weren't allowed custody there would be a whole lot of children without homes. Why would anyone want a child being cared for by relatives or a nanny instead of a loving caring parent? A job involving overnights isn't like a normal job, you can't just hire a random babysitter or ask anyone to help out a bit.
Call it off. Seriously, stop doing this to yourself. You're unhappy, you resent him and he's making no effort to sort his shit out. Just cut your losses and find someone who doesn't drive you crazy.
I don’t know where this fear is coming from? Is it instinctual or is it just made up in my head.
but when you do that stuff it makes me feel bad
Why? Is she guilty for not helping clean?
Can you reply to how he complimented me?
My friend’s husband told her that he didn’t want to have sex because he was fat and tired.
She didn’t believe him, and made it all about her and how much he loved her, or not.
Then he lost weight for his daughter’s wedding and BAM now he wants sex more than she does.
Because nobody knows how to communicate these days. It’s actually mind boggling……
She is way wayyyyy to focused on people’s outward appearance. This is super shallow! I wouldn’t want to be with someone that could so easily write someone off because they don’t find them attractive
People show the nicer version of themselves to the people they’re dating