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Yeah sure they aren’t cheating?
You have done nothing wrong though. There’s nothing for anybody to get over. Except for his ego issues.
You are not the problem, he is. Although you are being unkind to yourself by accepting this treatment and not making it clear that his mindset, views and expectations are sexist, misogynistic and unreasonable.
It sounds to me like he was curious to see if he could land himself a hotter girl friend while also keeping you around. I think you should set him free to find himself and satisfy all his curiosity
Bruh she literally said to your face you were her Plan B ☠️
Feeling bad about breaking up with someone or wanting to give them time to change to be “fair” to them are not reasons to stay in a relationship. Life is too short! You both deserve to be dating someone who is crazy about you, if you don’t feel that way and don’t see that changing then there’s no point. If he isn’t the right person for you, maybe it will make the breakup easier that you haven’t seen each other in a while. Also, if you want to do it, I wouldn’t wait until after the holidays. I would feel so betrayed if my SO broke up with me right after xmas, after we exchanged gifts etc and I realized it was all pretend. Better to let him enjoy xmas focused on his family.
Enjoy your party and let him enjoy his. Test him happy new year at 12:00
Maybe it's due to my own experience, but why exactly is he texting her? Especially after a messy break-up you should stay away from your exes life. To me, it sounds as if he found the perfect pretext to reach out to her. And I totally understand why she's confused about it. She can either ignore it, or text a short “Thank you” back. If he then texts again, you know that it was not just an “I'm happy because you're happy” text.
I feel like woman really can’t take rejection
You can’t keep putting yourself in a situation knowing it will happen especially with past experience and claim you are a victim. You aren’t protecting yourself and then crying that u did what you did to yourself. It’s basically cheating at this point leave her
If you’ve communicated your concerns to him multiple times and nothing’s changed, heavily consider exiting the relationship. From your post, it seems like he’s gotten way too comfortable in your relationship and is no longer giving you the same energy as he did when he was trying to pursue you. It’s okay to walk away. I guarantee you won’t miss someone who forgets your birthday, cancels on you, or is just plain rude to you for long. Remember that a man who truly loves and respects you would move mountains for you without you even having to ask. And if he won’t, someone else will.
Truth doesn't care about your feelings. Her idea of “Rapist winning” is by not recklessly doing drugs and alcohol until she has no control over her own inhibition. But not the fact that they're taking advantage of her, that isn't rapist winning at all…
Plus, not doing drugs and alcohol is not really a loss for anyone. A gain if anything.
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Yeah, honestly there's really no discussion here to me. He said horrible things and they are things you don't just make up in anger. These sound like what he actually thinks and now he's probably shocked he said them out loud. Maybe if he'd just blamed the cookies for his kids not coming over, but everything else is exactly what he thinks and did. I'd be gathering my important stuff right now and immediately going to my parents and filing for divorce. Just be glad you aren't pregnant and don't have kids yet. He's not worth it and OP is still young.
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You’re a grown ass woman you could have stopped this in it’s tracks long ago. You deserve the fall out from this.
Shame on him. I’m so sorry you’re dealing with a selfish man child.
I would tell everyone he's a predator. Not every person will ask for the name of the victim but most will listen when someone says that. Plus you could probably find evidence of him being convicted of that to go along as evidence. And YES tell your brother yesterday. Like this is so important, i would skip work to tell my sibling if I was in your position. He could be a victim too or is about to be.
What is there to see? Did you not read the whole thing.. like?
So what? You still do not 'sneak away' for a blow job. Grow up.
This would drive me crazy. Like, if I wanted to take off the time I'd do it!
I can't quite figure out what is happening here. You and your sister are both adults. Are you still seeing her frequently? Do you live together or something?
Soooo what im getting is when he went to this other date she didn’t wanna have sex with him so he came looking for you… once he got what he wanted he reversed everything towards you… block him girl, he’s on to the next one.. and by the looks it may seem he has sex with most all them on the first date so also get tested to be safe !!!
Sorry he played you ? you deserve better !!!
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Thanks for the perspective!
Yeah in every other sport or game, “crush” implies more than just winning. It's emotionally crushing your opponent as well. Like, putting them in their place. So that definitely is a different understanding of the word than you meant, and I think where a lot of the distaste for you is coming from. So that's just a really unfortunate misunderstanding.
As for your actual question, my guess is your wife is being coy. She's telling you something that is technically the truth, but implies something different to mess with you. Like if she says, “I am absolutely playing to the best of my ability,” but doesn't specify what that ability actually is, she may not mean the best of her professional chess ability, but the best of her ability to make her son love the game, or best of her ability to match his level, things like that. I can totally see why you'd feel lost. Maybe instead of talking to her about it from a, “it's ok if you don't want to crush our son yet” perspective, you talk to her from a, “I can't really explain why this bothers me so much, I know you're probably just trying to be silly or playful or something, but I really don't like when you intentionally mislead me like this. It makes me feel like we aren't on the same team here, and that hurts.”
Idk. This would be my guess at what she's doing, and if it is, hopefully telling her that this is hurting you, even if you can't really explain why, will help her see it has moved beyond fun teasing and into actually upsetting you territory.
Good luck 🙂
Okay, well this space absolutely needs definition.
Its space… not a break up. That doesn't open the door to new people. This is a time for self-reflection and improve yourself for the relationship.
So, in the worst case scenario… he comes back and reveals something unfavorable… the relationship is good as over. That is dumping a massive train wreck of an issue on something that is already unstable.
I think he's been experiencing relationship burn out.
And how this is playing out, the lack of contact… is obviously hard. But if the end goal is to take genuine space and improve things for the better… then I think you should try your best to get through it.
I think this would also be a good time to utilize for some therapy sessions yourself. You're in obvious pain, and being able to combat that pain by dealing it by yourself, will benefit you.
There is going to be a long nude conversation when he comes back, so prepare yourself for that. Start focusing on your personality differences and try to sort out ways to better balance it.
And start thinking about the missing pieces in your relationship that you want restored. A year without sex… the romance is gone. That needs to come back and space could be a way for it to happen.
Ultimately… if nothing changes as a result of this space…. I think it may be time to throw in the towel.
You did what you did, and he would be perfectly reasonable if he never gave you another chance. Would you want to give someone another chance to hurt you like that?
Think before you act next time. Some things can’t be taken back.
A person is not a hoe because they failed to realize how depraved men are
Ask yourself, what could he possibly do, in a perfect world, to make you feel better about your marriage? If the answer is nothing, then you know you need to divorce. If there is something he can say, express, work on, go to counseling. Flush it out, and use counseling to make the ultimate decision on to work or end the marriage.
That's called being absurdly petty and mean while hiding behind the (fundamentally incorrect) inherent morality of truth.
Unless you genuinely think your art is technically perfect, pointing that out serves no purpose other than to demonstrate that he feels entitled to belittle you.
Wth is wrong with you throwing DATES around. Do you NEED to go on a DATE before it's official? He asked, she agreed. Isn't her word enough to make it official? How old are you?
This should be the happy in love period. Think about that.
I deleted the girl’s number. I was kind of frozen in place and after she gave me my phone back she left.
I was confused and surprised by the attention to be honest. Nothing like this has ever happened to me and I literally didn’t even flirt with the girl.
gross
I feel like most of the posts on here today are fake !! If not the world is in trouble.
Sounds like he a liability as both the one y'all should follow and a liability for something… I'll just say it. . liability for getting married to
I’ll say: not in bed. She needs to stay far tf away from bed with this nasty dude. This needs to be a frank conversation. I’m baffled that so many men are so disgusting. Not only for other people.. how can you live like that?!