Only if he wants to change. Odds are he liked the situation and wants it to stay that way.
You’ve changed a lot because you were a new adult when the relationship started. He was beyond fully grown and had decided who he was going to be in life when he met you. He was his fully formed self, you were not. Expecting him to change is not realistic.
She needs to report it, at least if you’re in the US. And at the time, she should’ve insisted. A security guard tried to deny my (also diabetic) friend access to an NFL game; she calmly told him it was medically necessary. About 7 times before he finally got his boss and they let her in.
That’s just some advice. As for you, of course she doesn’t want you to go. They actively discriminated against her. She most likely feels like you’re letting her down/taking their side.
Society has nothing to do with my bedroom or my marriage. You sound like a 80 year old man who is done with life or happiness. No one deserves to be an unhappy marriage or relationship. Yes, I have given it all with zero return. You get to a point where you can't give anymore and the vows work both ways. I don't feel loved and supported through thick and thin.
She’s definitely trying to baby trap you! Oldest trick in the book.
Only if he wants to change. Odds are he liked the situation and wants it to stay that way.
You’ve changed a lot because you were a new adult when the relationship started. He was beyond fully grown and had decided who he was going to be in life when he met you. He was his fully formed self, you were not. Expecting him to change is not realistic.
She needs to report it, at least if you’re in the US. And at the time, she should’ve insisted. A security guard tried to deny my (also diabetic) friend access to an NFL game; she calmly told him it was medically necessary. About 7 times before he finally got his boss and they let her in.
That’s just some advice. As for you, of course she doesn’t want you to go. They actively discriminated against her. She most likely feels like you’re letting her down/taking their side.
Also a good plausible solution. Thank you.
Society has nothing to do with my bedroom or my marriage. You sound like a 80 year old man who is done with life or happiness. No one deserves to be an unhappy marriage or relationship. Yes, I have given it all with zero return. You get to a point where you can't give anymore and the vows work both ways. I don't feel loved and supported through thick and thin.