Do you think he’s capable of change? Honestly, based on what you know of him, do you really think he would be devastated to learn how his actions make you feel, and then work his ass off trying to change his ways? Is that likely?
Also: I absolutely understand that it’s “not black or white.” No relationship is. All couples have disagreements and days where they feel less connected than usual. But it’s not part of the normal ups and downs to be plagued with self-doubt 50% of the time(!)
It was at a hotel because I’m white and they’re fillipino so it’s obvious who the white guy is accosiated with
Do you think he’s capable of change? Honestly, based on what you know of him, do you really think he would be devastated to learn how his actions make you feel, and then work his ass off trying to change his ways? Is that likely?
Also: I absolutely understand that it’s “not black or white.” No relationship is. All couples have disagreements and days where they feel less connected than usual. But it’s not part of the normal ups and downs to be plagued with self-doubt 50% of the time(!)