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Yes tell him she is complete trash and a street Walker.
I agree. The fact that they’d get their kid to sleep with them when the partner wasn’t around means they were doing it for their own sakes, not the child’s. It’s weird.
She stated this literally the only thing that irks her, so clearly she has thicker skin then you
Absolutely appalled with the responses. Breaking up after an argument if you don’t mean it is extremely immature. If she wants to get back together you need to seriously consider this. I get that she has a lot of hormones going through her but Jesus not a simple critique on her part and everyone telling you to be a man.
On the other end, you can’t make someone want to be with you. I doubt this just happened randomly because wanting nothing to do with you probably just doesn’t happen randomly. If it did, you’re better off away from that.
000 call the police. They have resources for you. They will have an officer that works in domestic violence and will be able to help.
lmao they def fucking
When my parents start needing help, I'll be around 40 and financially able to support them. My own children will be a little less dependent.
I really hate to say this because it does come off as victim blamey but you’re dead on and she needs to hear it. At some point you need to hold yourself accountable and stay out of those types of situations. The fact is we live in a world where this happens. That doesn’t mean it’s her fault but you can’t just shift the blame to other people when their is a clear solution.
I think you've handled that well, particularly the ultimatum… But I don't think it's something that is just going to go away, particularly if she is refusing to follow through with her own ultimatum… Did she explain why she's got the marriage bug now?
It sounds to me like your communication with your mom is purely because you care about her, and hers to you is purely to make use of you. You don't have to keep being bothered, especially in such a way that it can affect your studies.
I know it's hot, but ultimately it comes down to “if you don't stop putting pressure on me for something YOU want then I'm just not going to talk to you at all.'
I'm going to tell you something you don't want to hear: you're acting like a child.
I will not make a Santa list for my own spouse. In my opinion, if they don't know what to get me after all this time, then don't bother.
This is you saying, “I know you want to get me a gift, I know it's next to impossible for you to think of what I need. I have a method of ensuring that we're both happy – and I'm stubbornly refusing because I expect you to be a mind reader”
I've been telling my spouse for years I wanted a kitchen aid – this year he got me one. I sent him a direct link to the perfect coat for my birthday, he bought me the coat. Why? Because when he wings the gifts, (because his brain works differently than mine), he screws it up. So I protect us both from disappointment, I tell him what to get me, and I'm thrilled that he went out, spent money, and paid attention to what I'm asking for. There's no games or drama. Your spouse has executive dysfunction as a result of ADHD, they love you. Stop punishing them because they can't do exactly what you need them to do exactly the way you need them to do it. Accept them for who they are.
they said, “I HAVE to go out today.” I knew what they meant, that they needed to go get me a gift. Because of their whiny tone, I replied what I knew they wanted to hear, “Don't bother.” And they didn't. I got nothing.
They told you they needed to go buy you a gift, they asked you to help them make it a priority, instead of supporting them in making time for this, you specifically told them not to bother. And then you're mad you ended up with nothing? This makes no sense.
I'm sorry to be harsh. I am. But you are part of the problem here. If you know they have ADD. If you're aware that gift giving is YOUR love language, not theirs. If you understand this is a recurring issue. That its not intentional, that they just cannot do it your way. Do you know what the solution is? It's to stop expecting them to be you. It's to start appreciating all the wonderful ways they do love you and help them overcome this issue with the path of least resistance. Which, as much as you may hate it, is to pick out or at least schedule time to discuss gifts.
My fiance isn't romantic. The guy wouldn't know beautiful flowers if they smacked him in the face. I stopped expecting surprise flowers a long time ago. If I really need some, I buy them for myself. And I look forward to all the ways he loves me. You have a spouse that loves you. Sure it's not romantic, but they love in other ways other than gift giving, so just help them overcome this one issue and you guys will be okay.
I am mad because my friend did something that was none of my business and didn't tell me. The only reason you have to be mad is if you still have feelings for your ex and he knew it.
Yes
Did the mom admit to flirting to get free drinks while on a ski trip with the in-laws’ family?
I can’t imagine why my daughter would be upset if her mom did that… /s
How did you get to a stage where you are engaged and have sent out wedding invitations and not realised the person you are with doesn’t care about you. You would normally notice this early on in a relationship.
Mean clowns at that.
Then you should leave instead of cheating. That would of been the right thing to do first but now you’ve created this mess. If your unhappy then leave. You can still be a parent if leave your partner.
She gets to make you confused, possibly ruin your female friendships and mess with your head.
Stop taking to her.
Tbh I wouldn't still have your items if I were her so it's possible that she got rid of it and has decided not to speak to you again.
I mean, I asked him so many times why he just didn't just texted me before that he wasn't into me anymore. Made me move and cry like that. Was like almost he enjoyed doing it.
Why don't you trust your boyfriend?
Can someone redeem himself from this disgusting act that crosses every single line
Why would he ever change when you'll take him back no matter what? He probably thinks he could fuck your mom and you'd still date him. I mean you've caught him lying, he didn't even bother to tell you the truth. Why do you think he'll just magically change when he had zero reason to change. If he actually cared about your feelings he wouldn't have lied to you for years.
He said he “crushed” his son in every game. That's not competitive language?
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I tried studying too when I was a SAHM but ultimately it was my way to get my foot in the door back into the workplace and I dropped out of the course shortly after as I didn't cope with raising a family, studying, cleaning the house and full time work. Didn't help my husband started his own business shortly after, so I still had to carry the household for the next 5 yrs. Keep trying to find that job that you're studying so hot to achieve for and things will work out once things settle down.
She sounds like one of those borderline personality disorder people. It's always push/pull with then. They want to push u away to see how much you will beg them back etc. They get really pissed off if u do a 180 and stop caring.
Realize your GF’s behavior is toxic af. She wants to spend the rest of her life with you, then blocks you? Sounds like she needs a therapist more than a BF…and you need someone who doesn’t act one way on a given day and the polar opposite the next. Seriously, can you imagine spending your life with someone who plays those sort of games?
Well the burglars in this story didn’t attack anyone and OP apparently trapped one of them in a room and then beat the everloving fuck out of them in a blind rage that only stopped because the girlfriend made him.
This ain’t about protecting anyone. OP saw an opportunity for violence and revealed his true colours.
No wonder she’s terrified of him. She’s probably crying to her friends about how scary it was to have two intruders in her house and then how much worse it was that her boyfriend savagely attacked one of them after they tried to flee and she had to be the one to stop him from killing them.
I understand that your gf has trauma, but… she needs to seek therapy, is she receiving therapy? Cause this could have gone about a million different ways. I’m not bashing her, but you did what you had to do or something worse could have happened to her and you. Maybe wait for her to contact you and receive some therapy yourself. Her reaction wasn’t your fault, it was the result of past trauma. I believe just wait it out, update us when you can.
A relationship goes both ways, while these are your funds she seems to expect this relationship to last. Do you have any reason to believe she will “control all my spending?” Is there a precedent in your relationship that gives you that concern? If so, then that is an entirely different issue that should be worked on separately from this house.
It seems to me that you are quite independent and proud about the fact that you've worked hot gotten these funds and are ready to buy a house by 25 (congratulations btw.) But understand that she rightfully so feels like you guys are a partnership (2 years is a while to be together) and while I doubt she thinks your gonna chose her route entirely she would like the ability to guide her future.
No offense but your coming off incredibly indignant about this whole “my money, my house” and I would absolutely walk away from any relationship if my partner started acting like this.
What should be the best approach to this situation, how can I say no without her flipping a lid?
Hire a lawyer and get an agreement in writing as determined by the laws of your jurisdiction. You don't have to say no, she will get what she is entitled to and that's it.
She cannot leave and also have your full support; that's life and she will adapt. You may choose to go above and beyond in the future for the benefit of your child, but you will determine how best to do that so she doesn't take those benefits from her.
You aren’t doing anything wrong. You aren’t the problem
This guy is already showing his colours as a controlling freak and I'd be really careful about getting in any deeper until you are sure it's what you want and you can cope. You have done absolutely nothing wrong and shouldn't be apologising for anything. I mean…. shall we have fish or steak for tea. I haven't made my mind up yet. But you have to know exactly right now or how can I trust you to makectea! Really, you wann live your life like that?
…i think so
Fortunately OP's not the dumb one here
I wear a wedding ring, even my engagement ring was not a deterrent. A child is not a deterrent. Having a partner is not a deterrent! Take the number, smile, get away and hope you never see them again. I'm not even that attractive and I've been in this situation multiple times.
Man, I take care of my nephew a lot, hes not even my child and I would never date a man who thought he was more important than my little nephew. Nephew ALWAYS comes first.
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He’s not only depressed, he’s manipulating you. And I suspect the ex and son are manipulating as well. Why exactly do you want to be in the middle of this circus?
James needs to focus on getting better without anyone else interfering. Leave him alone and let him do that.
He would laugh it off and 2-4 weeks later he would beg me for just one date the next time he saw me.
i am a woman and i also think OP is a cunt. a jealous cunt
Rehome you husband.
I'm shy so I haven't asked him tbh ?
Even beyond that, him needing “release” might be valid but he doesn't need to watch porn to masturbate to achieve this release. He's perfectly capable of taking care of himself without porn but he's using his “former addiction” to justify his horrific behaviour. He's definitely a half step away from sexual assault.
Besides all that… OP is also acting as his maid and manager by taking care of all the bills, laundry, and cooking. It doesn't seem like he's bringing anything to the table other than abuse when she won't be a sex doll for him.
Definitely bad news and needs some heavy reconsideration.
Yeah. Sure. Have some rough patches, be unhappy… surely the solution must be to rush into marriage.
Maybe then you guys can work on a joint red flag collection, instead of two individual collections.
He can always rent a room in someone's house. You are not responsible for him. You've already carried him long enough. Don't set yourself on fire to keep someone else warm.
Wow so many lies that you caught her in and your giving her the benefit of the doubt. First she wont do the polygraphs. Try setting it up. She will make excuses. But best right now have her sign a post nuptial agreement. Of she is honest she will. If she wont then she aint
Time to communicate.
Also, ask him if there’s a particular problem with the sleeping arrangements. Maybe you move too much lol.
Uh why are you holding onto the past especially with an ex while in a relationship? It’s unhealthy! No one in a relationship, feeling secure or insecure would want to see ur pics together with them or seeing u saying “I love you” to each other. It’s called having respect for your significant other! The hell is wrong with you? If you like to relive those moments maybe stay with you ex or single and don’t get into another relationship until you’re ready??
first red flag here, she has verbally said she doesn't wanna be with you but yet is still with you. it could be because you are financially caring for her and she knows if she leaves she will have nothing and will have no option but to work. also she doesn't seem to be bringing anything to the table and your relationship is one-sided. my personal opinion is you should leave.
Both are to blame. She got involved with him for months knowing he had a live in girlfriend that was paying for his ass due to him losing a job for something sketchy. She’s as bad as he is. Jenna deserves some sweet revenge.