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Have you guys ever asked specifically what they are doing when they've said that they are busy? Because it almost sounds like your parents don't want to come. In which case, why? Are your children poorly behaved? Do they not like your wife?
I think you should go talk to your parents alone. Ask them, truthfully, why they never come.
Here are the options: A.) Don't have sex with her B.) Wear a condom. You can try multiple kinds to find one that feels the best. C.) If you don't want kids ever, vasectomy D.) Take the gamble and become a father within a few years. She can track her cycle to add more protection, but if it's irregular, that goes out the window.
Note: Hormonal birth control is not an option at that age without major and highly likely effects. I stopped at 34 because I was already getting high blood pressure from it.
Him watching porn has literally nothing to do with you. He’s probably been doing it since he first got on the internet. Most people (especially men) do it, including those who are madly in love with and attracted to their partners.
It’s not about you. From his perspective, you’re making your problem his problem. You’re taking your insecurity out on him and actively taking away something that he enjoys and that relieves stress.
what are the ways I can get her to admit she’s wrong?
You cannot get anyone to do anything.
You've already said she has minimized her physical violence while shifting the blame to you. She's then gone out and spread that revised story to all your friends and family. She traumatized your child.
My advice is to concentrate on what you can control. You are probably feeling extra vulnerable now because of your job loss, but try to set that aside.
How would you feel if you went to the same people your wife told this story to and said:
Lisa picked up Zoe early from daycare and I did not know she was going to do that. She never told me. When I got home, there was another shape next to her, under the blanket and in bed. I immediately assumed she was having an affair and, rather than check it out, I picked up a lamp and threw it at her. Thankfully it only hit Lisa. The bulb was shattered and Zoe was hysterical, so Lisa made me leave the bedroom while she cleaned up the glass and comforted our daughter. Can you believe she did that? Why would she pick up Zoe without clearing it with me first?
You really don’t know what you’re talking about. First of all, there are people on police departments who volunteer to go to training provided by NAMI for people in crisis. There are whole teams of crisis negotiators who know what to do if responding officers aren’t trained. There are people on call 24/7. There are criteria that need to be met, but they will baker act people who express homicidal or suicidal intentions. And 99% of the time, it isn’t even the police who are making assessments. Once officers have made contact and confirmed there are no weapons, paramedics/EMTs are called in and they handle it unless the person becomes violent.
You should just shoot her straight. Tell her you’re intrigued by her, she’s cute, seems really nice and you’d like to take her out to dinner sometime if she’s interested. It’s really as simple as that. If she’s been scoping you out as well then she’ll say yes. If not, oh well you’re onto the next one. You never know if you don’t ask. Also, it’s all about confidence.
Yeah, leave. Seriously- he's eyeball fucking every woman in the room. He's beyond obvious. No, not every guy is like this and I would never, ever settle for being paid attention to ONLY when I was the only woman in the room.
I know this was a long time ago, in 1995, but my wife and I attended a friends wedding with our week old son tucked in a bassinet under the table.
Worked out fine for us. I went the extra miles to make sure my wife did not have to do anything more strenuous than walk around. Since she did all the work of having the kid!
I know not every pregnancy/birth would accommodate that and if my wife had not wanted to do it we wouldn't have done it and sent our best to the bride and groom.
As others are saying, this is your day and while its reasonable to make a best effort, you will never be able to accommodate everybody.
Next time you go down on her, get her close to an orgasm then button mash her genitals and when she complains say “I hate women who care about their orgasms.”. If you still wanna fuck with her after that remind her that only a male orgasm is needed to reproduce and keep our species going. If God didn't care about women's orgasms why should you?
I am happily married 11 years to a younger man. We got married at 23/31. 11 years and 3 kids later, still happily married. It just depends on how mature his is. My husband is the breadwinner and a natural leader.
I really appreciate getting perspective from someone else with a similar issue, (not to call it an issue at all, I'm just really bad at wording things and I do apologize). He is the best, and I almost feel selfish for not understanding what he feels better than what I do. I'm deeply emotional and I love extremely naked with everything in me, and I will do absolutely anything for someone I love, and hearing it is just hard to grasp. He has mentioned smaller things about it, I should've gathered more of it sooner, but I also just sort of assumed he actually felt that way about me, and assumptions on my part do cause a lot of our arguments.
Good for you! Glad to be of assistance in your healing journey. I wish you the best and that you find that good person immediately after you finished healing. Godspeed
Have you guys ever asked specifically what they are doing when they've said that they are busy? Because it almost sounds like your parents don't want to come. In which case, why? Are your children poorly behaved? Do they not like your wife?
I think you should go talk to your parents alone. Ask them, truthfully, why they never come.
Here are the options: A.) Don't have sex with her B.) Wear a condom. You can try multiple kinds to find one that feels the best. C.) If you don't want kids ever, vasectomy D.) Take the gamble and become a father within a few years. She can track her cycle to add more protection, but if it's irregular, that goes out the window.
Note: Hormonal birth control is not an option at that age without major and highly likely effects. I stopped at 34 because I was already getting high blood pressure from it.
Him watching porn has literally nothing to do with you. He’s probably been doing it since he first got on the internet. Most people (especially men) do it, including those who are madly in love with and attracted to their partners.
It’s not about you. From his perspective, you’re making your problem his problem. You’re taking your insecurity out on him and actively taking away something that he enjoys and that relieves stress.
I agree with platic_venus. Mind your own business.
i’m not NOT saying that…
what are the ways I can get her to admit she’s wrong?
You cannot get anyone to do anything.
You've already said she has minimized her physical violence while shifting the blame to you. She's then gone out and spread that revised story to all your friends and family. She traumatized your child.
My advice is to concentrate on what you can control. You are probably feeling extra vulnerable now because of your job loss, but try to set that aside.
How would you feel if you went to the same people your wife told this story to and said:
Lisa picked up Zoe early from daycare and I did not know she was going to do that. She never told me. When I got home, there was another shape next to her, under the blanket and in bed. I immediately assumed she was having an affair and, rather than check it out, I picked up a lamp and threw it at her. Thankfully it only hit Lisa. The bulb was shattered and Zoe was hysterical, so Lisa made me leave the bedroom while she cleaned up the glass and comforted our daughter. Can you believe she did that? Why would she pick up Zoe without clearing it with me first?
You really don’t know what you’re talking about. First of all, there are people on police departments who volunteer to go to training provided by NAMI for people in crisis. There are whole teams of crisis negotiators who know what to do if responding officers aren’t trained. There are people on call 24/7. There are criteria that need to be met, but they will baker act people who express homicidal or suicidal intentions. And 99% of the time, it isn’t even the police who are making assessments. Once officers have made contact and confirmed there are no weapons, paramedics/EMTs are called in and they handle it unless the person becomes violent.
I’m not into bondage, domination, sadism or masochism
And a cream pie is something I did for 20 years with my husband who was very loving
It’s not even a little bit degrading
Only reason to not do one is if there is STI or pregnancy risk
Seriously. Regular sex is not bad. Are you like catholic or something?
You should just shoot her straight. Tell her you’re intrigued by her, she’s cute, seems really nice and you’d like to take her out to dinner sometime if she’s interested. It’s really as simple as that. If she’s been scoping you out as well then she’ll say yes. If not, oh well you’re onto the next one. You never know if you don’t ask. Also, it’s all about confidence.
And I'm sure he learned that mindset and behavior from the people who raised him. Vicious circle.
Yeah, leave. Seriously- he's eyeball fucking every woman in the room. He's beyond obvious. No, not every guy is like this and I would never, ever settle for being paid attention to ONLY when I was the only woman in the room.
You can do so, so much better than this.
I know this was a long time ago, in 1995, but my wife and I attended a friends wedding with our week old son tucked in a bassinet under the table.
Worked out fine for us. I went the extra miles to make sure my wife did not have to do anything more strenuous than walk around. Since she did all the work of having the kid!
I know not every pregnancy/birth would accommodate that and if my wife had not wanted to do it we wouldn't have done it and sent our best to the bride and groom.
As others are saying, this is your day and while its reasonable to make a best effort, you will never be able to accommodate everybody.
Next time you go down on her, get her close to an orgasm then button mash her genitals and when she complains say “I hate women who care about their orgasms.”. If you still wanna fuck with her after that remind her that only a male orgasm is needed to reproduce and keep our species going. If God didn't care about women's orgasms why should you?
Narcissistic thinks he is the best man ever to exist. While look what he had done to her.
I am happily married 11 years to a younger man. We got married at 23/31. 11 years and 3 kids later, still happily married. It just depends on how mature his is. My husband is the breadwinner and a natural leader.
HE should have respect for HIS wife.
You got paid to get laid.
I really appreciate getting perspective from someone else with a similar issue, (not to call it an issue at all, I'm just really bad at wording things and I do apologize). He is the best, and I almost feel selfish for not understanding what he feels better than what I do. I'm deeply emotional and I love extremely naked with everything in me, and I will do absolutely anything for someone I love, and hearing it is just hard to grasp. He has mentioned smaller things about it, I should've gathered more of it sooner, but I also just sort of assumed he actually felt that way about me, and assumptions on my part do cause a lot of our arguments.
Good for you! Glad to be of assistance in your healing journey. I wish you the best and that you find that good person immediately after you finished healing. Godspeed