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oh god, was the open marriage his push – and you merely agreed but not fully.
And despite this he is still cheating on you 8000 times whilst you lie in bed next to him?
OP – you dont deserve this. You deserve so much better. Anyone does.
And the part of this post that makes clear that you partially think you maybe do deserve this level of disregard and disrespect, and this is possibly okay on any planet – is sad. Your husband is happily cheating, even after seemingly pressuring you into letting him sleep with the world if he's truthful – he's still found a way to cheat on you – in the first bloody year of marriage!!
:/ agree with the other – so kind, curious gentle therapy is likely what you need. This guy ain't it.
Its best to just get divorse. How would you feel when you see him dating and sleeping with other woman, since he dont love you anymore, while you stay at home taking care of his children?. Being married and stay at home, he should be giving you alimony and the house and other assets belongs to both of you. I suggest to get a lawyer and get your family to help out as well.
Then you begin to resent him over time because you never wanted him to watch it in the first place. How is that fair to him? Or to you???
Please break up with this person. You both deserve better.
You can always untagle things. But it's your choice
So you've known him for a week and he's already wanting to move in and rush things? Red flags hun. Spend Xmas day with him if you like but I wouldn't buy something for a guy I'd literally known a week. Usually when someone is rushing a relationship, it doesn't end well. If he gets defensive then trust your gut.
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Well, that’s complicated.
My read, as a total outsider, is that your friends might have wanted to save you from more post-breakup heartache if the separation was messy. Since you went no contact, that’s what I have to assume. Additionally, your friends were probably thinking (about your best friend): “Well, that’s your shitshow, girl.” I wouldn’t be surprised if they left it up to your best friend to tell you, because it’s “her” business. That’s not great friendship, imo.
It’s also worth asking then how much they knew. Relationships don’t just solidify in a day outside of Vegas. If it’s just two friends hanging out and supporting each other (at first), which then turns into more, your friends would have to balance the privacy of your best friend and your ex’s (individually) with your own. Especially if they didn’t known exactly the severity of the “relationship” at any given time. That might cause unnecessary friction within the friend group if the details are hazy. No one wants to be the one to cry wolf.
If your best friends and ex were bed wrestling in the first week after your breakup, though, and your friends group knew, well, that’s fucked up.
What’s more fucked up is the silent ultimatum that has been delivered. If things aren’t good, then it’s clear someone is going to be forced out of the friend group. Your best friend called shotgun and has lumped that pressure onto your shoulders. If you still have a foothold with your friend group, you could make a pretty good case they tell your best friend to take a hike instead. It’s very “her or me”-sounding.
Frankly, I have a friend group where I wouldn’t be surprised if this happened to me. Many of them went to the same local high school and have known each other for decades. They’re rides or dies. So, those bonds run deep, deep, deep. I came along after all that. They might not feel as bad about it if you’re in the same pool as I am.
Overall, it feels like a very complicated betrayal. You can ask your friends why they kept it from you, but you don’t have to accept their answers. If you end up super pissed and want to go full bridge burner, consider that they kept a secret from you. You probably know just as many secrets about them. Junk food for thought.
It sounds like it’s just ignorance and miscommunication. Just sit down and tell Him how it made you feel.
I’m not saying my life is a romance novel. I have dealt with my failing marriage for years, for my son. We are legally separated and in the process of divorcing. By no means did I want my child to have to go through his parents divorcing, but in this case, it’s better for him to online in an environment where his parents aren’t constantly fighting and can work together to coparent. Staying together isn’t always the best option, and I have stayed for years trying to make it work to keep my family together, despite tolerating things I never thought I would. This post didn’t talk about my son, or his therapy or whatever it is I’m doing to help him through this, because that’s not the point!!!
I am so sorry for the situation you are in. It is so hot losing a loved one. I am glad that you have so many people in your corner for support but it’s heartbreaking to hear that the one person who should support you the most completely ignored you even when you were asking for help. Not only that he doubled down on that after you brought it up. Are you okay being in a relationship where you can’t rely on your partner for support through the hardest times and it seems like has no empathy or compassion for you? What would you tell a friend in the same situation? Personally I couldn’t art in the relationship you described in your post. Emotional support and care are major for me and a lack of them would be an incompatibility. It seems like this is a difficult time for you already so take your time in deciding but you deserve better. Think of what you would do if the roles were reversed. Don’t make excuses for this grown man’s putrid behaviour. I wish you all the best. Don’t be afraid to lean on your friends because they seem to be there for you
There's nothing wrong with it, so I don't really see why there would be a problem. It's a harmless hobby and obviously something she really enjoys doing. If you can't at least accept that it's okay for her to do it, then maybe rethink things before going any further.
I’d ask him to set better boundaries with Alyssa, and if he can’t do that, it may be best for you two to break up since her feelings will be a point of contention.
I am Canadian and disabled. I would be eligible for more income if I was single. I am only eligible for CPP. If I was single I would also be eligible for GAIN and PWD. Fortunately my hubby had a good paying job.
Leave.
This doesn't answer your big picture question but to help ease the burn out I suggest a crock pot. Make stew or curry or something, put it on keep warm and then you have food on tap all week. My favorite or Japanese curry, super easy to make and food is sorted for 3-5 days. When I'm hungry I just cook some rice real quick which just entails boiling water, measuring rice, throwing it in the pot, covering it and walking away for 17 minutes until it's ready then plating that and the curry. Or just regular stew if you wish so no rice prep. There are tons of meals like this that can make cooking easier for her so she can help or easier for you so less burn out.
I also love soaking soft boiled eggs in soy sauce, sesame oil, sesame seeds and green onions. I can add this to breakfast or to some ramen noodles or whatever and it cuts down on prep time, you just grab them from the fridge.
Look into easy meals like this – it helps burn out significantly when you can lighten the loads in different areas of your life.
But where is he gonna get the sex to relieve all the stress? /s
Question: Has he had it checked since? You're supposed to get it checked at the 5 year mark.
If we're already in the realms of immaculate conception, I'll be the person to point out the other wildly obscure possibility.
If you've just peed on a stick at home … Very rarely, things other than pregnancy can produce HCG (the hormone responsible for positive pregnancy tests). Notably, tumours.
Just because this confused young woman has fallen prey to another of the office lotharios doesn't mean she's the shift bicycle and everyone gets a turn. It's always a terrible idea to have personal relationships with coworkers. It's always a terrible idea for a F20 to date anyone over about 23. Don't destroy your career by trying to keep this going.
If you want out, get out. Yes, from your description, it sounds like she at the bare minimum has emotionally cheated. From the way she spoke to her friend, it definitely sounds like the “distraction” could have gone further than texting. It doesn't matter whether you were married yet. You were still in a monogamous relationship.
Side note: Is she an alcoholic?
You have only been together for a year. He's not ready to move in with you. That's very understandable. A year is very quick for a huge step like that. You have to accept that.
And about the kids and marriage. You didn't say your stance on the subject. If you think differently, then he does. Then it's probably time to end things.
Why didn’t this clown have a place to online ?
I’m in a similar spot as you, I find the legal aspect of this to be very affirming about whether or not, you are with the right person. My husband and I have a prenup, because we figured that we would be more fair to each other should divorce occur if we made all of the arrangements and decisions while we were still friends and in love rather than once the love grew cold. It was very affirming to hear how fair we were being with each other and solidified for me that I was making the right decision.
You don't want to hear about your age but the fact is that your age is playing a significant part in this. 21 is legally an adult but it's not mentally or emotionally that much more grown up than 16. The fact that he told you about it over text, you begging him to stay after saying things you shouldn't have, the fact that he is throwing a restraining order at you instead of using his words, the fact that you're trying to use religion as an excuse to harass him after he said “do not contact me”, even the fact that you had a full scale mental breakdown over moving 6 hours away.
Get a lawyer to make sure you're not getting stiffed and do not contact him except through that lawyer.
I in no way am saying this to be me ignorant or against you so please do not take what I am going to say that way. In all honesty he is completely wrong in the wrong and should suffer!!! Maybe she offers him stuff you do not, may she does she does things you do not? Once people get married and have kids they change, they don’t get as wild, they don’t get as free. They are too tired. They get to occupied with life, they drift apart. It happed in my marriage and I made a mistake and paid dearly. But I ended up torturing myself way more than she did for what did. Then recently I find out 10-12 years ago she had her on fling, I forgave her like she did me. BUT NOW recently I find out on a phone app she has been calling and texting NONSTOP her old boyfriend from her past for god knows how long. Um need I add we have been married 34 years…. Now who is the idiot. I’m torn and broken. So in short, I feel your pain.
He'll be ok eventually. If you're uncertain you could try a break. You could for example go travel by yourself, cut contact with him for a while. Give you a chance to experience life on your own, and for him it could do him good in the long run to shake things up and be forced to sort himself without you to fall back on.
You just each go on your own paths and see if the intersect. Maybe you'll be drawn to eachother again. Maybe not. Let the universe decide.
I think you sit him down and do a cost of living comparison. There’s also quite a few articles of NYers being the #1 movers to Florida, so you should bring that up as well. Finally, you just plainly state you aren’t moving there.
Too many red flags.