Being out of work for 3-4 months doesn't indicate laziness; its something that happens. Absent information to the contrary, I assume that he searched for a job in a diligent way and found one.
He probably has back bills or overhangs of some sort to pay with that first paycheck. If allowing him to stabilize is your red line, you should go and he should find someone who understands that others go down periods.
Honestly men tell on themselves and don’t even realize it. They the conversation went sounded like he didn’t mean to tell me. Regardless why is he hanging out alone with another girl when he has a girlfriend?
The people you meet at bars do be like that though. Deep down bars/clubs are there to make money by providing a place for people to hunt for partners. Mostly casual partners.
If you want to meet someone who doesn't want the party lifestyle I suggest you avoid party people. Instead of clubs/ bars take dance classes, join a book club, get a dog (if you have been meaning to), start rock climbing or anything else that lets you socialize with new people.
You could try live! dating if you're inde of the top few percent who will get any matches. Women complain a lot about f-ckbois and the lack id men who wants a serious relationship. But on-line dating us known to be a harsh experience
Good for him that you're leaving.
Being out of work for 3-4 months doesn't indicate laziness; its something that happens. Absent information to the contrary, I assume that he searched for a job in a diligent way and found one.
He probably has back bills or overhangs of some sort to pay with that first paycheck. If allowing him to stabilize is your red line, you should go and he should find someone who understands that others go down periods.
Nope. Big fat nope. Rpe is rpe no matter how anyone tries to spin it. Both parties have to consent, marriage or not.
I wouldn't stick around with this dude hon. Red flags are a waving.
Honestly men tell on themselves and don’t even realize it. They the conversation went sounded like he didn’t mean to tell me. Regardless why is he hanging out alone with another girl when he has a girlfriend?
Just nope. Way too vague.
That’s an avoidance answer. After 8 months you should know those answers.
You aren’t talking substance otherwise. Maybe you are deliberately avoiding to ensure she doesn’t think you are serious?
The people you meet at bars do be like that though. Deep down bars/clubs are there to make money by providing a place for people to hunt for partners. Mostly casual partners.
If you want to meet someone who doesn't want the party lifestyle I suggest you avoid party people. Instead of clubs/ bars take dance classes, join a book club, get a dog (if you have been meaning to), start rock climbing or anything else that lets you socialize with new people.
You could try live! dating if you're inde of the top few percent who will get any matches. Women complain a lot about f-ckbois and the lack id men who wants a serious relationship. But on-line dating us known to be a harsh experience