It's hard to tell you whether you're in the wrong or not without in-depth context.
Is he saying this because you're attention seeking while you're together, or are you directly demanding time?
It's your first relationship, how are your standards set in relation to the attention you seek? Do you have realistic expectations of him?
It could be he doesn't want the relationship and feels asphyxiated, or it could be that you have a romanticized idea of a relationship and he isn't vibing with it.
Sorry I mean is this the first time you've posed this question to your OH? Not posted on here lol.
His reaction is definitely strange but not “throw the whole thing away” strange like most of reddit love, youd be better off asking him I feel, and if he continues to rinse and repeat the same over acting, that would be the bone of contention, cos I get it, been there done that, didnt last
No doubt! There were women in the last thread trying to insist it was just harmless checking; and yet how harmless is it really when actions in response to photos show there is a clear and present stigma for the faces that wind up there. OP was asked who he pissed off, he also received phone calls calling him a womanizer or laughing at him. His neighbor jumped him about it, as did his co worker. That does not seem so harmless to me.
Yeahh she did post about me. Her last post was on 29th January which she stated on about how many promises that i’ve broken. Even our pictures of many years.
Also can we just point out that she was drunk, Hugh on ecstasy and the brother decided to hook up with her. Dude, you just don't have sex with anyone intoxicated and/ or on drugs. You just don't. You make out but then you stop because that person is in on frame of mind to consent probably. Which sort of validated OPs description of his brother as a garbage human.
Most women don’t.
It's hard to tell you whether you're in the wrong or not without in-depth context.
Is he saying this because you're attention seeking while you're together, or are you directly demanding time?
It's your first relationship, how are your standards set in relation to the attention you seek? Do you have realistic expectations of him?
It could be he doesn't want the relationship and feels asphyxiated, or it could be that you have a romanticized idea of a relationship and he isn't vibing with it.
I mean people make poor decisions when they’re younger. Plenty of my lady friends done something like that but they learned from it (or so I believe).
Correlation is not causation
Sorry I mean is this the first time you've posed this question to your OH? Not posted on here lol.
His reaction is definitely strange but not “throw the whole thing away” strange like most of reddit love, youd be better off asking him I feel, and if he continues to rinse and repeat the same over acting, that would be the bone of contention, cos I get it, been there done that, didnt last
Hope you work it out
My guess based on her batshit crazy behavior is that she doesn’t go to therapy lol
No doubt! There were women in the last thread trying to insist it was just harmless checking; and yet how harmless is it really when actions in response to photos show there is a clear and present stigma for the faces that wind up there. OP was asked who he pissed off, he also received phone calls calling him a womanizer or laughing at him. His neighbor jumped him about it, as did his co worker. That does not seem so harmless to me.
Yeahh she did post about me. Her last post was on 29th January which she stated on about how many promises that i’ve broken. Even our pictures of many years.
It’s just her sister sending snaps and I I’ve not told her yet, but I think unfriending her is the better option
Yep. Say the truth, be straightforward, make it clear that this is a done deal.
Also can we just point out that she was drunk, Hugh on ecstasy and the brother decided to hook up with her. Dude, you just don't have sex with anyone intoxicated and/ or on drugs. You just don't. You make out but then you stop because that person is in on frame of mind to consent probably. Which sort of validated OPs description of his brother as a garbage human.
r/rant certainly no request for advice in here.
You'll be 50% responsible for splitting up the family and the younger sister would be the other 50%.
I'd love to know the girlfriend's reaction to her boyfriend cheating on her with her sister and getting her pregnant.