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He’s said a lot just by saying what he said about the cheese grater. He cares more about a TINY BIT of extra sensation than your physical and mental health. He refuses to take a part in protecting you. This says a lot about his maturity and who he is. I would think seriously about his response.
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Gift him a cheese grater…
You book a marriage counsellor. You explain that he has a porn addiction issue and they’ll recommend that he sees someone on his own. So make an appointment and see if he actually goes.
Tell him he’s fat and you don’t like it
I think you're just being paranoid unless there are other indicators of cheating or anything else nefarious. Some people just don't online on their phones. The reason why he thought it was weird and asked if you are ok is because you likely always respond instantly.
This was something I had to adjust to with my bf, I get really overthinky when he doesn't respond at work. But as it turns out, he's just working at work and doesn't always have a chance to check his phone.
It's naked to re-wire that, especially after what you've been through. But you just have to make the decision if you trust him or not. And if you do, you need to work on recognizing he might not be a texty guy. If this is a major issue for you, talk to him about it and just be honest about needing a couple more check-ins just to calm your nerves. He probably doesn't even realize you're so stressed!
That imagery though.
Yeah I guess
That imagery though.
*2 searches last year for escorts in a specific area which is close to our home*
If you are looking for escorts that are close to home, that sounds right IF YOU ARE LOOKING FOR ESCORTS THAT ARE CLOSE BY.
*he told me that he used that google search to find porn*
Lol. You can find porn on the internet by having internet and knowing how to spell and type!
Porn is NOT location specific.
You busted him and NOW he admits he has a porn problem?
When you get an STI, Op, will he THEN admit he has been frequenting escorts?
Op? Are you willing to wait until you get an STI?
Maybe, but it definitely seems shady
This sounds exhausting. Choose happiness buddy.
She was drunk, I wouldn't think too much into it. Probably just nervous and wanted to seem cool and kinky cause guys like porn. It's up to you though, if it really bothered you that bad or really made you uncomfortable, cut things off. But if it was me, unless there's something else that's a problem, I'd just go with the flow and see what happens
When we were ten years old I went and saw the movie My Girl with Jessica P before I saw it with you…
He sounds like he’s too busy for you plus it’s long distance and you both have heavy schedules. Find someone more available and closer. You’ll be much happier.
I didn't tell her because I don't want her to feel bad about going
Just saying that this is something I am really bad at myself, and am actually in therapy over. You're not sparing her feelings by not telling her. You're definitely not making it any better for yourself. Your relationship will survive “I am uncomfortable with this,” and if it doesn't, it wasn't a healthy relationship to begin with.
Block delete move on.
she was recommend to travel because travelling makes her happy, thats like therapy 101, you do the things that make you happy.
Also the therapist did nothing wrong either, medications for mental health sometimes do way more harm than good. The therapist not wanting her on meds and instead focussing on places she feels comfort in like the travelling and hiking is a proper therapist, not one to be cautious over.
Like everyone is saying, your fiancé is trying to hijack the song and the tattoo, and make them about her.
But why? I'd guess she either feels jealous about your deep connection to someone which is not her, or she is scared you were gay with your friend.
Your music boundary is valid. But as you say, you've only generally told her about the importance. It's hard for her to accept your big feelings on just faith. She will probably have more understanding, if you give her a more fulsome set of details about the other relationship.
You value people with emotional intelligence and are with her? Someone that demands to hear your feelings then stamps on them, followed by a charming round of tormenting you after the fact by recounting the ways she broke boundaries?
With all due concern, perhaps you do not have the best line on emotional intelligence. This is emotional abuse, and based in the story as written, she seems aware and enjoying what she is doing.
Run a mile.
No that's not normal in a relationship. What are you doing you can't do or feel like you can't do in front of him? Does he actually stop you from doing things?
You have a boyfriend. And a kid. You don't have ANY commitment. None. Nada. Zero. Zilch. You have a guy that can twist you into doing whatever he wants. That's why he's with you. Many of us have been in your position and have years of experience after getting out to have a clear view of what's probably going on. I understand you're defensive, but you came here for advice and you're getting it. You're in a bad spot. And you're stuck with this guy in some way for the next 18 years. Even if you break up tomorrow. You've picked the wrong guy. Now you need to decide if it's worth your dignity and self-esteem to stay or if you need to get your baby, leave, file child support and sole custody paperwork, prepare to take his ass to court, and never look back.
No request for advice just a request for DM's and chatting…fuck that, you know damn well virtually everyone will tell you to end your cheating and be honest with your spouse. You don't have to be a douchebag but you certainly seem to be choosing to be one.
Depressed people can be both cheating and toxic. I’ve met plenty.
WAY over complicating.
Then she needs to be in therapy and you need to stand your ground. This is a boundary she has no choice but to respect if she wants the relationship to continue.
I have no idea whether this is a pattern for OP or whether he’s just never been this thunderstruck by someone before, but the inability to identify his own idealization is not a dazzling sign of emotional maturity. Of course it’s easy to maintain an infatuation-fueled fantasy about somebody when you don’t have to deal with their annoying habits or personal baggage — you know, real people relationship shit.
You didn’t come off as rude, I meant to say that your view of relationships and of cisgender men is skewed because of your past experiences. If you were or had ever been in a relationship with a normal cisgender person who respected consent, as all normal people should, then your outlook would be different.
It's not about “who has the blame”. It's more “why bother?” There are 8 billion people on this planet. Plenty of people to talk to that don't have the added baggage.
No, that’s certainly true. I don’t mean she should feel socially obligated, I just mean she didn’t have a problem with it, so it would be a strange thing to do for no reason.
He has shown you who he is. What you choose to do with that information is up to you. But I think you have enough info to see what a future with him will look like and in my opinion it looks like you carrying the household responsibility and him finding excuses not to.
I took the bill thing as a joke, not something she actually intended to do.
I would too with a partner like OP.
Are you still in therapy? Have you talked to your therapist about this?
It sounds like you are trying to find problems, so you are taking innocuous behavior and deciding that there is something sinister behind it. This is something you need to work through in therapy.
Speaking from personal experience, I had an ex that was also obsessed with the idea of taking my virginity (even though I wasn't one and he knew that). He was so delusional and obsessed by the fantasy that he didn't want me to talk about previous partners or sexual experiences because it would ruin the fantasy.
Men with fantasies like this are walking red flags. Especially if they're obsessed with it and can't stop talking about it. The fact that you're afraid to tell him your past is a red flag as well.
Dating is supposed to be a trial period where you decide if another person is the right fit for you; I think maybe he's failed his trial period if you're feeling hesitant to be honest with him about your sexual history.
White passing =/= white. She’s mixed. But also she’s right. “White” is ambiguous and there are many ways “more white” people could other her if they wanted to.
Sounds like you need to have a discussion about healthy boundary setting within your relationship, because you're partners and not secondary to eachother. That you have needs and desires the same way you do.
If she won't discuss it then yeah, it might be time to talk with a lawyer first and not tell her to her face that you plan to divorce.
Good luck, it will be hell.
I mean quitting drinking is hard and if she is really trying to she may just be irritable from withdrawals
Yeah, they definitely do exist. We just aren't going to see them as much in this sub lmfao. In my experience, the happy and healthy non-monogamous relationships start out non-monogamous instead of going from monogamy to non-monogamy.
Not that there arent happy relationships that have gone from monogamy to non-monogamy! It just seems like it's often an extremely hard transition that is easy to fail
You’re delusional. I don’t expect my husband to review every meeting he has with me. I’m not his coworker and I honestly don’t give a damn. Have you ever had a job?
The lesson is to find out early what he’s looking for. Causal or long term.
Your answer now is, “Well then our relationship is unfortunately ending because I am looking for something more serious.”
Exhausting and controlling. I hope he’s not controlling elsewhere in their life, but I’m not counting on it.
“Please no gifts. Your presence is the best gift of all.”
On the gift table, a framed sign: Useful items will be donated to a local women’s shelter.
Try not to let wedding stress get to you. I know, easier said than done. It’s all such a performance. If this is your biggest challenge as a couple, you’ll do well.
they started talking about a month ago during a very long break that we had. During the break we couldn’t see each other for about 4 weeks
When you say break do you mean like a school break, or was it a break in the relationship?
since she doesn’t want anyone to know about our relationship
Why? What possible reason does she have for not wanting people to know she's in a relationship?
She wants u to do it all while u get no rites or reward. And expects u to pay for everything. Tell her hell no your both equals or nothing.
How regularly does your boyfriend get angry and insult you? Be careful as it doesn't sound like he's all that nice to you in the first place.
He never wants to talk about it. Only says we will buy a house once we are married. He gets so annoyed when I bring it up and gaslights me:(
Your BF is immature and childish.
I wouldn't let my toddler wear a superhero outfit to a wedding.
Just dump this guy and move on.
If you have to use logic to justify whether or not you're spending enough time with your romantic partner vs your other friends and hobbies, are they really your romantic partner? Like–if you've been together for a few years and you're uncomfortable making more time for them than one night a week (and two only if it makes sense) then it might be time to re-evaluate their personal importance to you and what priority you want romance to have in your life.
Since you won't listen to anybody telling you to break up, I would tell you something based on this and your post from one year ago: his friends definitely think of you as the nagging and jealous girlfriend and probably laugh at you behind your back, and your boyfriend encourages it. Good luck with that relationship.
“ im actually on my own journey right now but thank you for the offer. “
Stop lying. If you were on her side, you would not tolerate this.
May I suggest something..
When someone goes through a traumatic youth, they can become hypervigilant and spend their lives in a heightened nervous state. Everything they do they’re always in an agitated state and their bodies become used to high levels of adrenaline and cortisol.
When they escape their youth and find stability with a partner that’s calm and that doesn’t shout, hit or abuse, those now adults can have difficulty adjusting because everything seems ‘boring’ and mundane. It’s not either of those things, it’s what a normal, healthy relationship looks like – there are fun bits and there are dull bits.
At this point, some people will self-sabotage their relationships and basically ditch the healthy relationship in search of the adrenaline and cortisol of their youth and re-enter a series of disastrous relationships that re-traumatise themselves and their children.
Take a step back and ask yourself why you want to leave. Are you craving some stimulation because that’s not necessarily going to be good for you?
The teeth though – there’s no excuse, get that sorted asap.
I’m not an American, but honestly I read stories about women picking their rings and deciding how/where they want to be proposed and I’m astonished at how little agency you leave to men. If you believe in standard roles of men proposing women, then stop meddling in everything. If the man hits a home run great, if he fails, well, that’s the man you’re marrying.
You should feel bad that you impinged in his last degrees of freedom on his own proposal.
But how can you love or show affection to someone when they're so mean.
Sport, if your BF is an untreated pwBPD, the main problem is not that he cannot see your love but, rather, that he cannot see it as being consistent. He is so immature that — like a very young child — he cannot perceive “object constancy” — i.e., he cannot see that your love for him is essentially unchanged from day to day and week to week.
This is why it is impossible for you — through sacrifices and gifts — to build up a store of appreciation and good will on which you can later draw during the hard times. Like a young child, his perception of you is fully dictated by whatever intense feeling he is experiencing AT THIS VERY MOMENT.
Hence, trying to build up a lasting store of appreciation is as futile as trying to build a lasting sandcastle on the shore beside the sea. It will be washed aside by the next tide of intense feelings flooding his mind. Likewise, it is futile to keep trying to convince him that you truly love him. Although he may believe you for a short while, he will start doubting your love as soon as his feelings change.
The result is that a pwBPD typically will administer shit tests every few days to test whether you seem to love him TODAY. Sadly, passing one of these tests accomplishes nothing. It only means that, when he administers the next shit test 3 days from now, he will raise the hoop a bit higher when demanding that you jump through.
He has gotten better. But after this morning I see the same cycle occurring.
If your BF is an untreated pwBPD, Sport, the one thing that is certain is that you periodically will see big improvements in his behavior. Like the smoker who is always throwing away his “last pack” every two months, he likely will make dramatic improvements about every 6 to 10 weeks. That's how unstable people behave.
I mention this because, if you decide to put your life on hold to see if he is serious about working on his issues, it is going to be difficult for you to know whether he is actually making any real, lasting improvement. Even a roller coaster will be seen making dramatic gains half the time.
Thank you – it did – that was quite a while ago. Thankfully, we didn't habe any kids, but I got remarried and have 2 beautiful girls. And my ex and I reconciled a friendship, and she's happily married w 4 kids. It all worked out for the good!
You are not required to be ok with it.
I worked the door at some raunchy strip clubs, the men who dated the strippers had a lot of the pimp about them.
You keep chasing your ambitions and find time when you can. Focus too much on one thing and of course you’ll feel like something is lacking on the other side. But keep in mind the long game. If she supports your ambitions she’s gotta understand there’s a level of commitment you have to put forth, and when you have free time make it an opportunity to included her wherever you can. Do something special when you can. But don’t lose sight of your ambitions because maybe she’s not in the plans.