Idk, rhe issue is that I don't feel like he's disrespecting me, I have a very low self-esteem so it's nude for me to distinguish which is correct and which isn't, also i forgot to tell he's the embodiment of HONESTY, so of he has something nice to say or not, he will let me know for sure.
It’s also based on what Iv seen from her previously as well because medications. Maybe we are just not meant to be, we have been together since we were both really young. You are completely right in saying it’s based on what I want, I do have certain expectations of what I want in a partner. Thank you your advice, this is only one of our many issues. We really just don’t see eye to eye on anything anymore.
if after 5 months he needs space then that is a really bad sign. 5 months in you guys should still be in the honeymoon phase, the fact you are not should be a huge 'slap you in the face' clue.
thank him for the good times, but it's not working out and walk away.
1) How does this impact your self esteem and ability to feel connected to your partner?
Dating someone who’s asexual isn’t for everyone because sexual desire is a must for some and it impacts their connection. Also, knowing you’re not desired in that way can take a toll on a someone’s self esteem.
Perhaps your connection in other areas is fulfilling enough to overcome this. However, if the impact is too large then it might be best to end things. Take time to assess and be kind to yourself throughout this process.
2) I don’t think you’re asexual. Sexuality can be fluid and evolve over time but it sounds like you find your partner sexually attractive.
get a lawyer and HURRY.
Take her up on the offer,
offer to annull the marriage before she takes half of everything.
get her to admit if you can in writing that she didn't love you before the marriage.
RUN
LAWYER
NOW
Idk, rhe issue is that I don't feel like he's disrespecting me, I have a very low self-esteem so it's nude for me to distinguish which is correct and which isn't, also i forgot to tell he's the embodiment of HONESTY, so of he has something nice to say or not, he will let me know for sure.
It’s also based on what Iv seen from her previously as well because medications. Maybe we are just not meant to be, we have been together since we were both really young. You are completely right in saying it’s based on what I want, I do have certain expectations of what I want in a partner. Thank you your advice, this is only one of our many issues. We really just don’t see eye to eye on anything anymore.
I’ve been trying for about a year on and off to lose the weight. It’s incredibly difficult for me.
You process it by leaving and never going back. WTF that’s SA
She is in the wrong. She put you on hold WITH HER. She doesn't get to put you on hold with anyone else. Boundaries.
if after 5 months he needs space then that is a really bad sign. 5 months in you guys should still be in the honeymoon phase, the fact you are not should be a huge 'slap you in the face' clue.
thank him for the good times, but it's not working out and walk away.
Two things:
1) How does this impact your self esteem and ability to feel connected to your partner?
Dating someone who’s asexual isn’t for everyone because sexual desire is a must for some and it impacts their connection. Also, knowing you’re not desired in that way can take a toll on a someone’s self esteem.
Perhaps your connection in other areas is fulfilling enough to overcome this. However, if the impact is too large then it might be best to end things. Take time to assess and be kind to yourself throughout this process.
2) I don’t think you’re asexual. Sexuality can be fluid and evolve over time but it sounds like you find your partner sexually attractive.