I don't know if I can hang on … which feels really dramatic given that he's rude and I never know why or when that will be. There are many good things here and two decades of memories. However…. I do find myself more and more wanting to let go. But also not. It's a very hot place to be in. He is disrespectful, and I can't address it or he will get nasty
I’m going to bring it up with her later, that doing what she did brings that factor into the bedroom. I think she’ll understand this though, we’ll see the response
First things first; if you haven’t already – then sit him down and say exactly what you said here.
If he says “yes we’re in a relationship” then you tell him these two things are what you need/want from the relationship. If he says that he can’t or doesn’t want those two things – then you two are just not compatible.
Which is perfectly fine! You’ve only known/dated for a few weeks and now have arrived at the point of finding out who you two really are, what you like/need from each other and if you’re willing to continue.
But honestly, it seems like you already know – deep down inside – that you’re not in a relationship and/or you do not want to be in this relationship.
I don't know if I can hang on … which feels really dramatic given that he's rude and I never know why or when that will be. There are many good things here and two decades of memories. However…. I do find myself more and more wanting to let go. But also not. It's a very hot place to be in. He is disrespectful, and I can't address it or he will get nasty
I’m going to bring it up with her later, that doing what she did brings that factor into the bedroom. I think she’ll understand this though, we’ll see the response
First things first; if you haven’t already – then sit him down and say exactly what you said here.
If he says “yes we’re in a relationship” then you tell him these two things are what you need/want from the relationship. If he says that he can’t or doesn’t want those two things – then you two are just not compatible.
Which is perfectly fine! You’ve only known/dated for a few weeks and now have arrived at the point of finding out who you two really are, what you like/need from each other and if you’re willing to continue.
But honestly, it seems like you already know – deep down inside – that you’re not in a relationship and/or you do not want to be in this relationship.