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Looking for a new job will help but I encourage you to say nothing especially when he opens up to talk about it, which may be nude for him but listen. Just be there and listen. That’s the gift so many of us need and do few provide. You can’t fix it but you can be there.
She ditched you on her b'day to have a date with her boss alone. Is that what you want in your future? Your gf/wife going on dates with other guys on special occasions while you stay at home?
I don't know you or him, so just a general observation. Sometimes three and a half weeks is enough. It is. But he may not realize though that it is not cool to be showing your real feelings so soon. You are is expected to play it cool for a while. He may be just too excited, after sifting through all the chaff for so very long, to have found that one gem. Or… he might just be a desperate loser. Your decision which.
Assuming this is iPhone, I just experimented with a couple of contacts and messages I didn’t care about. Deleting the contact didn’t delete the message history, but it was possible to delete the entire message history with one swipe of the person’s name in Messages and a confirm step. The two interfaces look similar so I find it plausible he could have deleted the history and then misremembered exactly where he did it.
Cheers to another AZ person! I got to ask as it’s 50/50 are you a Native or move here?
Also I agree about crazy on another level. I never fell into something at that level. But I did meet a decent number of ladies via online when it was clear my goal was long term. After a month or two of dating I would pick up on signs they were dating 4+ guys. Confronted one and she just put right told me she eats out nice daily. All I could think was wow, for food? Made me feel bad for her but also saved me pain down the road.
Revision, best of luck on the goals then. I hope you keep the drive and achieve.
I appreciate it. I’ve been in and out of therapy for most of my adult life. EMDR is a miracle and it really helped with a lot, but I am probably due for a tune up.
I guess my question is, is going to therapy and doing the work going to help me with my parents? I feel like I do clean a lot of this funk out only for them to call and lay some other really whacked out thing like ‘I didn’t love you. Kay, bye!’ at my feet.
How do I make it stop and still maintain a relationship with them?
Looking for a new job will help but I encourage you to say nothing especially when he opens up to talk about it, which may be nude for him but listen. Just be there and listen. That’s the gift so many of us need and do few provide. You can’t fix it but you can be there.
i dont know if i have the strength to do it
She ditched you on her b'day to have a date with her boss alone. Is that what you want in your future? Your gf/wife going on dates with other guys on special occasions while you stay at home?
Hmm he definitely won’t be fired, if anything the boss will ask me what I want to do about it
They were 17
I don't know you or him, so just a general observation. Sometimes three and a half weeks is enough. It is. But he may not realize though that it is not cool to be showing your real feelings so soon. You are is expected to play it cool for a while. He may be just too excited, after sifting through all the chaff for so very long, to have found that one gem. Or… he might just be a desperate loser. Your decision which.
Assuming this is iPhone, I just experimented with a couple of contacts and messages I didn’t care about. Deleting the contact didn’t delete the message history, but it was possible to delete the entire message history with one swipe of the person’s name in Messages and a confirm step. The two interfaces look similar so I find it plausible he could have deleted the history and then misremembered exactly where he did it.
Your right. Its time to move on completely unless she makes a good effort but I doubt it. I think she’s a narcissist.
Why? He will take me more seriously if he is.
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He could be turning his phone off but the texts / messages could go to his computer or iPad.
There is no way to answer this. No one here is this guy. And no one here can read his mind.
I wouldn't go on a second date with you because you are still living with your ex.
You're dating a gross immature person who is taking advantage of you.
Cheers to another AZ person! I got to ask as it’s 50/50 are you a Native or move here?
Also I agree about crazy on another level. I never fell into something at that level. But I did meet a decent number of ladies via online when it was clear my goal was long term. After a month or two of dating I would pick up on signs they were dating 4+ guys. Confronted one and she just put right told me she eats out nice daily. All I could think was wow, for food? Made me feel bad for her but also saved me pain down the road.
Revision, best of luck on the goals then. I hope you keep the drive and achieve.
I appreciate it. I’ve been in and out of therapy for most of my adult life. EMDR is a miracle and it really helped with a lot, but I am probably due for a tune up.
I guess my question is, is going to therapy and doing the work going to help me with my parents? I feel like I do clean a lot of this funk out only for them to call and lay some other really whacked out thing like ‘I didn’t love you. Kay, bye!’ at my feet.
How do I make it stop and still maintain a relationship with them?
Thank her for her time and move on.
There is really no point investing any more energy into her.
Probably
Honestly, tell her to get a grip