Congratulations you are very near a zero sum game now. You can not tell her what you just told internet strangers and lose her. You can tell her and maybe lose her. Or you can tell her and maybe find out this person you spent two years on is actually worth it cause they like you for you. The only chance you have to win is by sharing, you still might lose but it's at least a very simple option tree at this point. If you can't handle rejection then you can beat her to the punch but it's a waste of two years, unless you date someone asexual they are going to expect some intimacy going both ways.
Stop sending her stuff if the lack of reciprocation is causing you problems. She's obviously not comfortable sending that stuff.
Congratulations you are very near a zero sum game now. You can not tell her what you just told internet strangers and lose her. You can tell her and maybe lose her. Or you can tell her and maybe find out this person you spent two years on is actually worth it cause they like you for you. The only chance you have to win is by sharing, you still might lose but it's at least a very simple option tree at this point. If you can't handle rejection then you can beat her to the punch but it's a waste of two years, unless you date someone asexual they are going to expect some intimacy going both ways.
Take a drive to your moms (while he’s at work) with anything sentimental to you or that you can grab quickly and just never go back