My husband (M35) picked dialed me (F35) while he was calling another women on his work phone using his truck speaker. We have been together for 18years since we were 17.

Should say pocket dialed not picked. My husband called another woman when he was out driving I could hear the entire conversation on his truck speaker. He was asking her how her trip was she just got back. She was talking about her trip and he was talking about the one that we went on recently to the same place left me out of it. He was over fabricating stories. He kept telling her he was so happy she had such a good time and he said he wanted to meet up soon she said she wanted to settle tonight from travelling but to call tomorrow to meet up tomorrow. I told him about it and he’s brushing it off saying it’s not a big deal he met her bowling with his friends drinking last week which he stayed out until 5in the morning and he just wanted to know how her trip was since we went to the same place . He’s saying he wasn’t going to meet up with her and he had no bad intentions. He’s a lying asshole who has cheated on me in the past and I’m upset and need advice. We have 3 kids and a house. I kicked him out and he’s still calling and texting me to sleep on the couch he won’t leave me alone and he’s saying it wasn’t a big deal no bad intentions. I’m so upset.