Trying to understand your husband's thought process.
You had trauma from a previous relationship where your ex assaulted you anally. Your husband knows how much anguish and pain this cause you, it even brought you to tears. Yet instead of consoling you, he decided to share with you that the anal sex he and his ex-wife had was amazing. Like what is he trying to imply here? Is he trying to make you feel low and bad about yourself, so that you will be even more anxious and upset, unable to get in the mood?
In the first place, if you are not comfortable, then you shouldn't even be doing it.
My grandmother recently had the mental table cloth whipped off and now she needs care to help her.
She had a UTI and pneumonia at the same time and she was 100% angry and sure that we were all out to get her and my dad was the head of the conspiracy against her. My dad couldn't organise a piss up in a brewery let alone what she was spewing. She got violent too which isn't my nan at all in any way. Lifting her stick to my mum and trying to kick my dad. That's not on at all.
I would echo what someone else said, get her to a doctor and go with her. Even if she doesn't think your her child, try your best to be there or explain to the Dr. I'd say your dad's death could have been like a trigger to this all sadly. I hope she mellows out or comes back from this.
I’m really not judging at all, I’m in a relationship with my late friends widow, that started nearly a year after she passed away and after I found out about my ex husbands second affair. People still suggested it was going on before which it wasn’t. So I’m really not judging the relationship you’re in. I misread / misunderstood the timelines and that made me wonder if he’s a guy that thinks the grass is greener and then when he gets there it’s not as green as he thought as it seemed like the morning texts were a long standing thing from the original post. All I can suggest is you talk to him, but he’s really only going to tell you what he wants to tell you. I suppose you need to ask yourself, after everything you’ve been through and your own divorce and pain, if you really want a relationship where you’re already starting to feel a little unimportant, or is this the opportunity to find someone who gives you the love you didn’t feel in your first marriage? It’s difficult I guess.
Alan Rickman as Snape or just Snape?
Trying to understand your husband's thought process.
You had trauma from a previous relationship where your ex assaulted you anally. Your husband knows how much anguish and pain this cause you, it even brought you to tears. Yet instead of consoling you, he decided to share with you that the anal sex he and his ex-wife had was amazing. Like what is he trying to imply here? Is he trying to make you feel low and bad about yourself, so that you will be even more anxious and upset, unable to get in the mood?
In the first place, if you are not comfortable, then you shouldn't even be doing it.
My grandmother recently had the mental table cloth whipped off and now she needs care to help her.
She had a UTI and pneumonia at the same time and she was 100% angry and sure that we were all out to get her and my dad was the head of the conspiracy against her. My dad couldn't organise a piss up in a brewery let alone what she was spewing. She got violent too which isn't my nan at all in any way. Lifting her stick to my mum and trying to kick my dad. That's not on at all.
I would echo what someone else said, get her to a doctor and go with her. Even if she doesn't think your her child, try your best to be there or explain to the Dr. I'd say your dad's death could have been like a trigger to this all sadly. I hope she mellows out or comes back from this.
No advice, just solidarity. My husband thinks I complain too much and that whenever I am sick I'm insufferable.
OP clearly shouldn't care about wether she needs or not therapy. He should throw her cheating ass out instantly
I’m really not judging at all, I’m in a relationship with my late friends widow, that started nearly a year after she passed away and after I found out about my ex husbands second affair. People still suggested it was going on before which it wasn’t. So I’m really not judging the relationship you’re in. I misread / misunderstood the timelines and that made me wonder if he’s a guy that thinks the grass is greener and then when he gets there it’s not as green as he thought as it seemed like the morning texts were a long standing thing from the original post. All I can suggest is you talk to him, but he’s really only going to tell you what he wants to tell you. I suppose you need to ask yourself, after everything you’ve been through and your own divorce and pain, if you really want a relationship where you’re already starting to feel a little unimportant, or is this the opportunity to find someone who gives you the love you didn’t feel in your first marriage? It’s difficult I guess.
Post is on-line btw idk why it still says removed