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Dude just walk away. She is clearly not putting effort into the relationship and doesn't seem to be into you. On top of that she is gaslighting you when you bring up your concerns. I'm sorry it is ending like this, but it is over whether you've realized it or not.
He does have a job. He works for 10 hours a day 4 days a week but most of his time is spent sleeping. Some weekends he barely even texts me cause he’s sleeping
Lol that’s funny because as a guy I don’t feel that and i am pretty sure 99% of us don’t feel that way it’s the shitty 1% humans beings who doesn’t deserve anything good are the ones who will say these types of things
Worst comes to worse you can call in an anonymous complaint with animal control, however if you want the issue to cease you may have to provide evidence of the abuse. But maybe an anonymous tip and a visit will be enough to scare her straight. However I would understand not wanting to put yourself out there if she suspect you to be the complainee.
Sorry but being with someone who abuses animals is a red flag for me, I would definitely try and get something done about this abuse either way.
Reading your comments it seems like you're mad that he doesn't help you with stuff? Do you on-line together?
Also how much did the train ride cost him? I would definitely think it was a red flag if the train ride cost more and he just didn't get it. It's like driving FAR our your way to get something on sale but you ended up spending more on gas. Some people truly don't understand that stuff and the money management part could be a red flag. At the same time, there's occasions where I just want to go for a drive and end up stopping at a store that we have much closer, it's just where I happened to end up.
It sounds like he just mightve wanted to take a train ride though and to get out the house and this was an excuse? Which is fine BUT if you're stuck home cleaning and he's making up dumb excuses like needing to take a 40 min train ride to find his hand cream, then you have every right to be mad. I think you might be trying to find validation for getting upset over this but didn't include the part where you're home cooking and cleaning.
He is/was actually a very sweet man. I've always felt truly listened to with him. If I have a problem he doesn't just throw me a half assed solution like I experienced in previous relationships, but he'd ask well thought out questions and support me on finding my own solutions.
He's pulled all nighters with me to help me study before big exams, when I got COVID 2x and was hospitalized he basically nursed me back to health all on his own. Called all his family asking for old medicinal recipes, spoon fed me for weeks. Sure, some may say that's what a spouse and partner is supposed to do but from the other married women I know, that's a rare commodity.
I was out of state for a conference and my mom had a tire blowout in the middle of the night and he drove 4 hours at like 1am when my own father was less than 30 minutes away but just didnt want to go. He's always come off as such a genuine person to me and what I've seen lately doesnt align with the version of him I fell in love with at all, but I'm trying to be patient because what if he feels that way about me and all of the changes I've made about myself?
I'm willing to look past his current lapse in judgement because I love him more than anything on earth and I know he loves me too, I just can't believe he would let such small things (money and looks are small to me when it comes to the fact we vowed to love each other forever) turn our lives this sour. Or that me doing things that make me feel good, and are safe, cant do anything but make our lives better, would make him feel threatened/small in the first place. I thought his self esteem was better than that honestly.
I wouldn't tell her only because that sort of thing could backfire on you and make your work environment more toxic. I would tell HR & your manager, potentially get store security involved. You don't deserve that kind of treatment anywhere, but especially at work.
Lmao jesus christ you aee saying the money he took out… in your name!!!!
He used to pay his half of things you also had to pay for.. so you do fucking realize you just paid for all of this yourself right?
And if you are helping him pay back any of this!! You are still just the one responsible for all this debt
Get your fucking head out of the sand. There is not a shortage of men in the world. And jesus i know homeless men who have better morals than this so called love of your life!
He isn't even trying to help you fix things
If he decides rn he doesn't want to deal with any of this guess who will be stuck all alone in debt!!!??
My goodness, this is accurately what I needed to read?? your words hit the soul and to the heart. This is why I wanted to be friends first as we were friends for half of the time we knew each other, building value and appreciation. Unfortunately, even friends can betray you. So there’s no definite blueprint as situationship/ FWB lead to the same demise unfortunately. I’m so sad and angry because I told him this is exactly what I feared, but he convinced and reassured me that he’ll never abandon ? lesson learned. I was so patient, loving and trying to see the best in him. I feel so vulnerable now that he saw my photos of my body completely when he was undeserving. I hated myself and screamed while I was crying. Today was best because of you. I appreciate the words you shared and gave me. If I ever need a reminder, I’ll come back and re-read it ❤️
This is just abuse. I don’t even know what he’s talking about. He continues a relationship that makes him so unhappy. And makes you miserable. That’s not love. Leaving is healthy,not defeatist! Call it whatever you want,this relationship does not work.
From here it reads like you have preoccupied attachment. You say you're working on your traumas, which is good, just be sure your therapist knows how to fix wounds that go that far back (first two years of life). Also know that just talking (conversing) about your traumas will not help, your therapist needs to have better tools, such as EMDR, somatic based approach or sth in that realm. Preoccupied attachment makes you not feel worthy, and it kinda reads. You ARE the whole package, that's for sure, but do you FEEL like it? It seems your attention is on “am I enough for them” and “do they like me” instead of “are they enough for me” and “do I like them”. The energy can be felt, and, especially in a society where women are thought of as less than, that can make them lose respect. Which is absolutely crazy, because you should be the one discerning if they meet YOUR standards, not the other way around. But I know that's easy to say, and when you nervous system has been conditioned to feel the other way around, almost impossible to do (without therapy, which you're already doing, go you). And honey, this kind of behavior from him tells me he's is definitely not worthy of your time and effort. Take care.
P.s. you might want to check out a book called “Attached” can't remember the author's name.
Dude just walk away. She is clearly not putting effort into the relationship and doesn't seem to be into you. On top of that she is gaslighting you when you bring up your concerns. I'm sorry it is ending like this, but it is over whether you've realized it or not.
He does have a job. He works for 10 hours a day 4 days a week but most of his time is spent sleeping. Some weekends he barely even texts me cause he’s sleeping
it won't happen.
She suffered from being put aside and now she finally get back into the team.
He gave the mother a lump sum as “hush money.”
Thank you ?? moving forward it is my main focus I just want my baby to have a stable home life … and good examples in their life
Lol that’s funny because as a guy I don’t feel that and i am pretty sure 99% of us don’t feel that way it’s the shitty 1% humans beings who doesn’t deserve anything good are the ones who will say these types of things
Run like hell .
Why don't you just ask him to lunch?
Worst comes to worse you can call in an anonymous complaint with animal control, however if you want the issue to cease you may have to provide evidence of the abuse. But maybe an anonymous tip and a visit will be enough to scare her straight. However I would understand not wanting to put yourself out there if she suspect you to be the complainee.
Sorry but being with someone who abuses animals is a red flag for me, I would definitely try and get something done about this abuse either way.
I know. Haha youre asking for what all men what. Very very hot to find
Reading your comments it seems like you're mad that he doesn't help you with stuff? Do you on-line together?
Also how much did the train ride cost him? I would definitely think it was a red flag if the train ride cost more and he just didn't get it. It's like driving FAR our your way to get something on sale but you ended up spending more on gas. Some people truly don't understand that stuff and the money management part could be a red flag. At the same time, there's occasions where I just want to go for a drive and end up stopping at a store that we have much closer, it's just where I happened to end up.
It sounds like he just mightve wanted to take a train ride though and to get out the house and this was an excuse? Which is fine BUT if you're stuck home cleaning and he's making up dumb excuses like needing to take a 40 min train ride to find his hand cream, then you have every right to be mad. I think you might be trying to find validation for getting upset over this but didn't include the part where you're home cooking and cleaning.
She has been in therapy for the past 1 year
Sounds like a typical Mom advice.!!! But yeah thanks
He is/was actually a very sweet man. I've always felt truly listened to with him. If I have a problem he doesn't just throw me a half assed solution like I experienced in previous relationships, but he'd ask well thought out questions and support me on finding my own solutions.
He's pulled all nighters with me to help me study before big exams, when I got COVID 2x and was hospitalized he basically nursed me back to health all on his own. Called all his family asking for old medicinal recipes, spoon fed me for weeks. Sure, some may say that's what a spouse and partner is supposed to do but from the other married women I know, that's a rare commodity.
I was out of state for a conference and my mom had a tire blowout in the middle of the night and he drove 4 hours at like 1am when my own father was less than 30 minutes away but just didnt want to go. He's always come off as such a genuine person to me and what I've seen lately doesnt align with the version of him I fell in love with at all, but I'm trying to be patient because what if he feels that way about me and all of the changes I've made about myself?
I'm willing to look past his current lapse in judgement because I love him more than anything on earth and I know he loves me too, I just can't believe he would let such small things (money and looks are small to me when it comes to the fact we vowed to love each other forever) turn our lives this sour. Or that me doing things that make me feel good, and are safe, cant do anything but make our lives better, would make him feel threatened/small in the first place. I thought his self esteem was better than that honestly.
I wouldn't tell her only because that sort of thing could backfire on you and make your work environment more toxic. I would tell HR & your manager, potentially get store security involved. You don't deserve that kind of treatment anywhere, but especially at work.
Block her and go no contact
Lmao jesus christ you aee saying the money he took out… in your name!!!!
He used to pay his half of things you also had to pay for.. so you do fucking realize you just paid for all of this yourself right?
And if you are helping him pay back any of this!! You are still just the one responsible for all this debt
Get your fucking head out of the sand. There is not a shortage of men in the world. And jesus i know homeless men who have better morals than this so called love of your life!
He isn't even trying to help you fix things
If he decides rn he doesn't want to deal with any of this guess who will be stuck all alone in debt!!!??
Not him!!
My goodness, this is accurately what I needed to read?? your words hit the soul and to the heart. This is why I wanted to be friends first as we were friends for half of the time we knew each other, building value and appreciation. Unfortunately, even friends can betray you. So there’s no definite blueprint as situationship/ FWB lead to the same demise unfortunately. I’m so sad and angry because I told him this is exactly what I feared, but he convinced and reassured me that he’ll never abandon ? lesson learned. I was so patient, loving and trying to see the best in him. I feel so vulnerable now that he saw my photos of my body completely when he was undeserving. I hated myself and screamed while I was crying. Today was best because of you. I appreciate the words you shared and gave me. If I ever need a reminder, I’ll come back and re-read it ❤️
Wanna ball sniffer? Get a dog.
What behavior is this? If he could reach down there, flexibility wise, he d' probably sith with his nose down there all the time.
Like eeeeeeek!
This is just abuse. I don’t even know what he’s talking about. He continues a relationship that makes him so unhappy. And makes you miserable. That’s not love. Leaving is healthy,not defeatist! Call it whatever you want,this relationship does not work.
From here it reads like you have preoccupied attachment. You say you're working on your traumas, which is good, just be sure your therapist knows how to fix wounds that go that far back (first two years of life). Also know that just talking (conversing) about your traumas will not help, your therapist needs to have better tools, such as EMDR, somatic based approach or sth in that realm. Preoccupied attachment makes you not feel worthy, and it kinda reads. You ARE the whole package, that's for sure, but do you FEEL like it? It seems your attention is on “am I enough for them” and “do they like me” instead of “are they enough for me” and “do I like them”. The energy can be felt, and, especially in a society where women are thought of as less than, that can make them lose respect. Which is absolutely crazy, because you should be the one discerning if they meet YOUR standards, not the other way around. But I know that's easy to say, and when you nervous system has been conditioned to feel the other way around, almost impossible to do (without therapy, which you're already doing, go you). And honey, this kind of behavior from him tells me he's is definitely not worthy of your time and effort. Take care.
P.s. you might want to check out a book called “Attached” can't remember the author's name.
I would want to know.
I mean if you give someone a romance book, that you've been going out to get drinks with just the two of you. Its definitely more than just a gift.