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Any advice on what to say?
I think you need to end the relationship. It is absolutely unfair that you're not only unwilling to participate in sexual activities but you're also stopping him from doing anything as well.
She said she’ll put it in the 13M and 3F accounts. I asked why not all three. I got a little irritated and asked why she never thought to split it between the three kids. She said she just didn’t think about it.
Well, your daughter has a potential inheritance from bio mum and you, your wife's kid from their bio dad and her, the shared kid from both of you.
Or did your wife adopt your daughter?
Geez, maybe it was a misdial
They probably assume you are going to convert if this relationship continues. It's not uncommon at all for people in this type of religion to be extremely warm and welcoming, which is later leveraged into gradual pressure to convert. They will be smiling the whole time and never pushy, that's a tactic to make it seem like it's not as big of a deal as it is. Then things get more and more restrictive once you're locked in. Just like any deeply dysfunctional organization, not everyone who participates is going to be outwardly psycho and frothing at the mouth. But there is no healthy, non-restrictive way to be in JW.
r/exjw might be a good place to do some research and get feedback on your situation.
I would bring it up in a nonchalant way “Sorry I haven't texted recently, things got really busy after my Birthday.” She obviously forgot, and that will remind her. Gauge her reaction.
Unless she maliciously chose to ignore your birthday, she didn't do anything “wrong”. She didn't choose to forget your birthday. You are hurt because you feel that if you were important enough to her, she would remember. That is understandable… though, you have to ask yourself if it was intentional or accidental. If it's accidental, then just let it go. As we get older, and our lives get busier, these things happen.
Okay we don’t really know so i prefer my less conclusive approach. I don’t like internalizing or projecting negative vibes. I’m too tired to be some fiercely rebarbative commenter anymore.
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I’ll suggest to them to see their gp
Is their GP aware of their DE struggles? Do they have a therapist or counsellor they are working with?
I wish I could take their pain from them
But you can't. That is not something you can do. Don't beat yourself up for that. You can't be responsible for someone else's health issues.
We already shared that special bond she said she liked me and wanted to date (vice versa) i wanted to wait for a good time.
That is his right, it's his body. But it's a shitty thing to say and at that point I don't get how he asks to not use condoms.
Looks like you are only in love with him because of his money. What if down the road, he lost his job and not able to provide, got into an accident and become disabled, will you stay with him?
You seem to have skewed expectations of what a relationship should be. You seem to expect a lot of emotional support without regulating yourself at all.
You shouldn’t be crying for an hour at a time on the regular for one. It sounds like he’s exhausted and it’s be best for both of you to split. Sometimes you have to learn to be alone before you can find a healthy relationship.
Lean on your faith as a Christian to do the right thing. While it is true that God finds divorce to be a terrible and loathsome thing, I think it is important to remind fellow Christians that he does NOT forbid it, and in fact it is absolutely necessary sometimes.
Your husband is clearly mentally ill and make no mistake about it, presents a real and present danger to you and your children. Your obligation as a person is to protect and love yourself and keep yourself from danger. Your obligation as a mother is to protect your kids from danger and yourself as their caretaker.
This is not violating your vows to be with him through sickness and in health as you can still love him and pray for him as the picture you painted of him is quite pitiful to be honest, however even pitiful and ill people can be extraordinarily dangerous and you need to steer clear of danger. You can and should have pity for a rabid dog however make no mistake about how deadly they can be.
I get the impression that if you dont tread carefully here you and/or your kids could be in danger. Do what you must to separate from him, pray and have love for him as a Christian would for anyone, and you will be blessed I am sure.
This has to be a writing exercise …
I love this comment so so much ??
He is an abusive AH. You need to break up. This will only escalate.
Absolutely do not contact this woman. Leave her alone.
Your boyfriend was keeping her on the hook, which is why he never told her about his relationship with you. She’s absolutely right to stop talking to him.
Leave it be. If your boyfriend can’t get over it then you should get over him.
Seriously dude. You need it to happen to you again?
13 months ago I left my parter who made over 200k a year (UK) and what would have been an early financially free life. I make like 40k, and now I live in a small 1 bedroom flat.
This is the happiest I have ever been. We were together 6 years and she is an amazing and ambitious person. But she simply didn't have the time or the emotional ability to understand what I need. Money makes life easy, but it doesn't give you the things that make you truly happy. Remaining with a person who makes you unhappy and puts you under stress and pressure is settling. A real power couple supports eachother and helps eachother grow. You don't burden your partner with what you expect them to achieve.
You make fantastic money and you'll have a good life even without her. Find a person who appreciates what you are.
I'm 36 and I can only think of 4 times I've done that. Once in college, once right after I graduated grad school (my friend I was drinking with had a bit of a problem and I stupidly tried to keep up, once when I was 34 and again at 36. The last two were because I was foolish and drank more than I normally do on an empty stomach.
Admittedly I've start drinking a lot more in my mid-30s than I have previously, but even then I'll have at absolute most 4 drinks over the course of a long night but realistically I stick to 2. I've become more social than I really ever have been which has increased the consumption, but even still, it's just not worth going to excess and feeling miserable the next day. It sounds like OP's girlfriend really has a problem because at that age, her doing it seems more like a compulsion.
Thank you. Truly. I'm taking a copy of this and I'm going to read it again. It gave me some perspective. I think I will leave a simple written apology along with a potted plant. Telling Kate that I'm sorry for the way I treated her and her friend in my home. That neither of them deserved it and I hope she understands that it had nothing to do with either of them. I was out of line. I don't want this to seem like a gesture to become friends, but rather friendly neighbors. You had great advice, does the plant seem like too much? Again, thank you!
He never did it before. I was there for him for everything and he was here for me but it hurts to to know he did this to me
It's fine if OP feels they can safely alert the new wife to her former stepdad's behaviour, but victims are never morally obligated to report abuse or warn potential future victims.
To expect victims to do this is to expect that they will put themselves in danger again, (either physically, legally or psychologically) with absolutely no guarantee that it will actually make any kind of difference.
If OP's former stepdad offends again this will be the result of his actions and cboices not hers. Society and the system has failed her once in this regard. She is not responsible if it fails another.
Does he back up videos to a cloud? Amazon, drop box, Google Drive? I would be checking.
No I definitely want the other perspective here. We were seeing eachother in December btw just not “official”. You know how it is with modern dating ?♀️
Well did the time apart make you realize you were compatible or not?
I asked from her to say “you make me uncomfortable now” but she focused on how strangers can notice an uncomfortable laugh but I don't
I understand I am lacking in my maturity to understand if everyone else can understand her quicker