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That's what alcoholics do, surround themselves with people that drink. Lots of people have quit and you can too
100% this. the fact that shes made it so shes the only person youre regularly talking to is a huge indicator that her behavior is intentional and will only increase in severity.
OP, if you dont have any resources/friends/family to support you, please feel free to message me and i will find everything that you can use to get away from her. housing programs, food banks, clothing and household item donation, etc. it is extremely difficult to start from scratch by yourself and many people are forced to go back to their abusers to survive; i dont know your exact situation/if yall online together/whatever, but there is help available if you need it. goodluck
He‘s showing you his true colours. People under stress reveal who they truly are. You need to decide if you want to spend more time with him or not. At age 19, you have a life ahead of you and I wouldn‘t necessarily waste more time on this person. If your circle of friends enquires why you left, explain his disrespectful behaviour. If they stay neutral, okay. If they say you should have accepted his behaviour, find better friends.
This would be the perfect time for him to get you a gift to show you he can “do better”.
Dude, almost everyone watches porn and masturbates. Yes an addiction to it is bad, but he just sounds like a normal dude watching porn. I've known multiple people who have tried to prohibit their partner from watching porn and its always toxic af. And you selling feet pics and flirting with internet strangers, but not allowing him to watch porn is crazy. You gotta figure some of your shit out, because that is a horrible double standard. You will never be happy in a relationship if you try to control someone like that. Yes, he should have been straight up with you, but you definitely didn't put that guy in a situation where he felt comfortable telling you the truth. Good luck dude, you should really try and spend some time reflecting on why that really bothers you.
Good bye! If she that reactive over something minor, then you dodged a bullet! If she wanted to end it and that was her escape goat, then she's immature and unable to communicate like an adult.
I agree , I’d dump my gf if she had a sexual dysfunction as well
Trust me, I agree. The evidence has been there for a long time but we need to keep in mind the inaccessibility of academic literature. There are social issues also at play here.
It can be incredibly difficult to hold empathy for people you disagree with. It is difficult to try to educate rather than shout. However, the comment I replied to is right. People who spank their kids typically believe they’re doing the best parenting they can. It’s often what they grew up with, it’s been modeled to them from a young age. If you start shouting at that person and telling them they’re an abusive and terrible parent they likely won’t hear you. You’re shutting down the conversation before it can even start, and this cycle will continue forever.
If he would have asked “why are you up so early” he still would have been asking “why are you awake” just worded a bit different. so im a little confused, you wanted him to assume you had woken up early instead of stayed up all night even though you did stay up all night?
Oooh that is another story. I wouldn’t down my bladder juice in public showers, let alone in front of someone else ? Did.. did his pee went down the drain or did he aim it at you? ?
He can also keep her around for fun and friendship while looking for a more permanent solution.
I mean she ranked you straight up last so ? lol plus why any adult actually cares is beyond me.
Firing a blank in a argument is insane, but somehow she did something worse. Accidental discharge of an active round is unforgivable. I’ll fully support guns and if your wife is half the gun fanatic you’ve made her out to be, she should fully recognize the gravity of her mistake. After an event that catastrophic, change MUST occur. Maybe it’s the drinking, maybe it’s her attitude, maybe it’s having guns in general. All I know is, I wouldn’t spend another night in that house until she figured out the most basic responsibilities of owning a gun.
Yeah gotta be honest this one hits way too close to home, no judgment. I hope you and your daughter can both get the healing you need
Right on target. This comment should be higher. Exactly what did happen? Especially since the grooms mother was there to see it.
Have you talked to your fiance about this? By the sounds of it, i do think you to should have one final chat just for closure at least. I understand if you dont tho.
However, if he receives an anonymous “Wok”, dont you think he'll be left with so many more questions? He might go out of his way to find the source. I would only do the Wok idea if it was in person, personally.
My husband told me that runescape can be extremely addicting and you easily lose yourself several hours into the game.
Update us when he comes crawling back.
Update us when he comes crawling back.
that's gross
For about a year. Later on consulted with a psychiatrist too. It made things worse actually.
Kids are exhausting and this is a deal breaker. You know what to do.
Sounds like you're taking your time and not jumping into anything, which is great. But beware the “barely legal” curse wherein the minute you turn 18 a bunch of 20-somethings are suddenly giving you a lot of attention. There are a lot of guys in the world, some of whom might he more age appropriate to someone like yourself than either of these two. You, as a brand new adult female are a naked commodity in the dating world. So don't sell yourself short and get with one of the first few who ask. You have the luxury of being able to hold out for some someone who's willing to make a real commitment to monogamy. Not forever, not marriage, but at least someone who'll stay true to you for the duration of the relationship. Good luck
This is borderline sexual abuse, that's why you feel weird about it.
I am 56 and your mom is not an old woman. She needs to get out and make friends. Get a part time job, volunteer, join groups that have similar interests, take a class, join a gym, attend a church. find some outside activities that she enjoys.
Since she lives in such a rural area, it might be a good idea to move to where there are more opportunities to participate in social activities. She may even enjoy something like mmorpg once she was introduced to it. There are facebook groups that are for specific cities/areas or for specific interests that she could find local meet ups.
Don't sacrifice your life for your mom. She has options, she has to decide what the rest of her life will be. I encourage my 26 year old daughter to be independent and to chase her dreams. The time for her to make mistakes is now, while I am here to pick up the pieces if needed. I am her safety net if she needs it. She isn't my safety net.
You move on and date closer to your age. The gaps absolutely have an effect on your relationships and yeah it does matter.
If they have a shared phone bill, that might be a decent place to start. I'd just be a lot more observant for a while and keep tabs on phone usage when the partner is around. There's no way this doesn't turn into something eventually. The situation sucks if the letter is true, but it still sucks if it's false.
Why, since you are on your way to recovery would you want to open that old wound. Move on.
You’re telling me in 7 years, the conversation never once came up about being pregnant, giving birth, having bio children? Never?
Well, that’s the purpose of a low key coffee date, to see if you vibe before you invest more time/money. It sounded awkward. If you’re not feeling it, just move on.
…. this is a troll right? You're trolling.
Pregnancy is when most men cheat. You're not asking much from him to stay nearby, and stay sober, in the home stretch of your pregnancy. Asking to not take a weekend trip with another woman, while you're terrified about giving birth at any minute, with HIS BABY, isn't much to ask FROM YOUR HUSBAND. This is fucked.
Nope, not because of the “open” thing but because he ignored your feelings and ran out and did things when you expressed concern. He doesn’t care how you feel. You deserve more.
You bought your boyfriend flowers! That is cute af and I wish more women did this!
Also, why would she give a shit what you wear to prom? It’s your prom, not hers. Fuck her.
They just sound like immature wanks, I’d just let them be and pay them absolutely no mind.
Let it start. The alternative is that you allow him to literally engage in theft.
This is easy! Since she’s a GF and not a WIFE, simply break up and move on! Unless you like living with “impulsive and unreasonable anger” in which case she sounds like a keeper. Sounds like she’s verbally abusing you as her emotional punching bag whenever she’s mildly inconvenienced. That’s not ok dude. Bail and find someone new. There’s enough people out there that no one should “settle” for abusive or even just less than happy relationships.
At your age many people are going to have experience. To some, numbers don't matter if she can leave her past in the past then you have a chance if being happy with “the one”. If she can't then you may not be the one for her. She sounds like she wanted to get him out of her system but idk her so it's naked to say. Maybe she is ready to move on. I think you need to have a talk with her to see how she feels about you.
This sounds so heart breaking for you. If you decide to continue a relationship with her you really need to put this in a different mind frame. Don't think if her as experienced think of her as a teacher or something that doesn6t make your mind ruminate over her being with other people. You sidnt know her then and she didn't know you. You can't let the past destroy what's present if you want a future with her.
This sounds very heart breaking for you. I hope you can work through it if she's the one but don't dive all in unless you know and feel she is into you too just as much as you are into her.
I hope this helps midnight redditor. ?
he's ? lying ?
I think most people eventually find themselves in this situation (often more than once) where a loved one dates someone toxic, controlling, or just kind of shitty. And if really sucks, befuddle you can’t make them break up. And you shouldn’t try.
Any attempts you make to pull them apart will only bring them closer together. Your brother is an adult, but he’s trapped in that tricky stage of still living at home and feeling like half a kid. The last thing he wants is to feel controlled by his parents and siblings when it comes to his romantic life. And worse, anything you do to pull them apart plays right into her narrative. She’s going to be saying “eew why is your sister trying to break us up? Is she jealous? Gross!” And finally, you have to accept that your brother does like her, and probably likes a lot of stuff about her. I bet there are many ways in which she makes him feel good. So you guys pushing back against that is going to make him feel like he has to defend her, because he likes and cares about her despite the stuff you’re saying.
Imo the much better way to handle this is to unconditionally support your brother. And that means treating his chosen partner with basic decency and respect, even if you don’t like her. It means respecting his relationship choices, even if you don’t agree.
You can still call out problematic behavior, but focus on the behavior not the person (and don’t tell him what to do). It’s also most effective if you keep these comments brief, and even better if you phrase them as questions rather than criticisms. For instance, with her stuff about you two being too close, you could say “wow that’s weird of her to say is she implying we’re dating? How odd.” And then just move right on.
Eventually they’ll probably break up. Or if not, hopefully she’ll grow as a person. They’re both still quite young and have a lot of maturing to do.
People in these dating and relationship subs lie about a LOT more than their age.
I mean you COULD’ve met up with her one-on-one, or called/texted her, and said “hey your husband has been leering at me and making me really uncomfortable. I don’t want to be around him anymore. I don’t think we should see each other [as friends] anymore.”
Because you’d be taking on a lot more drama as a friend to that lady (she has her hands full, trying yo work on a marriage with a cheater ? and raising her kids and she should probably have friends that are at the same life stage as her) and a lot more danger being around that guy (he came to your house alone?? And you know he’s a cheater. Lock your doors and have people around you. Who knows what he would’ve done to you??)
At the end of the day, she needs to lean on a lawyer and a support group, not a 20 something woman from her old job. maybe she could piece together why you ghosted.
You’re fine, OP.
Completely ghosting somebody is generally only wise if you're doing it to protect yourself. If you feel that that is what you were doing here, then that's fine.
But if you were doing it to avoid an awkward situation, that makes you the passive aggressive one. Even a simple text explaining why you were cutting her off would have been preferable to this, and btw, you can still do that.
The husband is obviously manipulating the situation here and he's probably emotionally abusing her. Personally, I would have given her a chance to explain the situation first.
You weren't in a romantic relationship with her, so it's not as bad as it could have been. But I would still encourage you to at least send her a text explaining yourself. It would be even better if you gave her a chance to explain the BS that her husband fed you.