towards him, his dad pushed him back really hot and he fell down to the floor. His mom didn’t even say anything.
He grabbed my hand and took me but before we left his dad said “aryun, your whole life is a secret, who knows anything about you, you show up with a girl you’ve known for 4 years that we didn’t even know about, I’m your father, i have raised you , I know nothing about you “
Now you know why he never took you to see his parents.
Did he tell you about his relationship with his parents before the visit? How they get along with yiur bf? How they might behave or react to his announcement?
I'm not going to shit on you the way other people are in the comments. It sounds like your bf is not very good at communication.
Just keep trying to be supportive and let him work through this.
Because it's unhinged? He thinks it should be a punishable offense. That's very worrying. Yeah he needs to heal, but she is very valid in being unsettled with the level that it affects him.
My favorite part of this post is the assumptive comments like this that are totally wrong, and that are 100% projection because anyone who read the initial post without seething with rage could've figured out this was not the situation
She will but this is what restraining orders are for. If there are consequences to her behaviour she will stop. She calls and he picks up so she continues.
Sometimes you just have to be direct. You've tried being gentle, that didn't work.
So.. tell him that you find his finger smelling habit gross. And that if his balls are sweaty, he needs to wash them. Not smell them, not put his gross hands on you, nothing. Wash. You tell him that his habit is making his hands and face smell repulsive and it's starting to make you not want intimacy with him. Tell him that if he can't keep himself clean, you're not kidding him or having sex/oral.
God only knows how much bacteria he's spreading everywhere with this nasty habit. This IS breakup worthy.
Ya, idc how broke I am, Im saying, Im sorry, I cant eat this, I'll be sick. I dont like eating in the morning or in the bed & I dont like coffee this way. Im blunt. Lol
His body . . . His choice?
Yea I want her number for sure.
Whenever you're comfortable!
Yeah. Scandalous.
If all is as you presented, no issue. Obviously, this guy has feelings for her and should be watched.
Good luck.
I do too. I just don't understand his logic. I'm so tired of the fighting.
It's more nuanced than that. The longer you wait the less likely it's reversible.
You asked for the credit card details before you even painted the picture!
America ?????
towards him, his dad pushed him back really hot and he fell down to the floor. His mom didn’t even say anything.
He grabbed my hand and took me but before we left his dad said “aryun, your whole life is a secret, who knows anything about you, you show up with a girl you’ve known for 4 years that we didn’t even know about, I’m your father, i have raised you , I know nothing about you “
Now you know why he never took you to see his parents.
Did he tell you about his relationship with his parents before the visit? How they get along with yiur bf? How they might behave or react to his announcement?
I'm not going to shit on you the way other people are in the comments. It sounds like your bf is not very good at communication.
Just keep trying to be supportive and let him work through this.
Why is this problematic for you?
Because it's unhinged? He thinks it should be a punishable offense. That's very worrying. Yeah he needs to heal, but she is very valid in being unsettled with the level that it affects him.
My favorite part of this post is the assumptive comments like this that are totally wrong, and that are 100% projection because anyone who read the initial post without seething with rage could've figured out this was not the situation
She will but this is what restraining orders are for. If there are consequences to her behaviour she will stop. She calls and he picks up so she continues.
Honestly if my partner didn't want me to look through his phone, I'd think he is cheating.
Why say no if you have nothing to hide?
Sometimes you just have to be direct. You've tried being gentle, that didn't work.
So.. tell him that you find his finger smelling habit gross. And that if his balls are sweaty, he needs to wash them. Not smell them, not put his gross hands on you, nothing. Wash. You tell him that his habit is making his hands and face smell repulsive and it's starting to make you not want intimacy with him. Tell him that if he can't keep himself clean, you're not kidding him or having sex/oral.
God only knows how much bacteria he's spreading everywhere with this nasty habit. This IS breakup worthy.
Ya, idc how broke I am, Im saying, Im sorry, I cant eat this, I'll be sick. I dont like eating in the morning or in the bed & I dont like coffee this way. Im blunt. Lol