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Uh.. it's cool if that's something you do not think is appropriate in your relationships. That's your choice. But stop acting like you know the objective truth about how everyone should lead their lives.
I'm autistic and am in chronic pain. I have a very considerate friend who I talk to often and meet weekly, who will ask me how I'm feeling or if I've been sleeping well because he knows not to invite me anywhere on a “bad day”. He's almost twice my age, and no, we're not having an affair, emotional or otherwise.
My boyfriend videocalled his best friend every day for almost a month while she was going through a really rough time and was suicidal. Making sure she ate and slept was just part of it.
And we are both perfectly ok with that. It is not abnormal for friends to care about each other's well-being. What's really inappropriate here IMO is that OP has never heard of Jackie before, hasn't met her, isn't part of any of these conversations and says her partner got defensive about it. That's the difference – I was in the background in most of those calls my partner had with his friend and occasionally also helped by cooking meals to bring over. My partner knows my friend and sometimes reads along when we text. It's the hiding that makes this sus, not the content per se.
I think the prevailing theme in the comments is that everyone is different and I'd totally agree.
I had a 2 year relationship which felt like it had ended about 6 months prior. I was totally fine after we broke up, if anything I felt relieved, I think I had moved on within a couple of weeks.
I had a 9 month relationship which felt like the world had imploded when it ended and it took months of dark days to get over.
All I would say is that you need time to be by yourself and be used to that. Celebrate the highs with friends, share the lows with them too. It definitely feels nice to have that special someone, but if all you're trying to do is find someone to fill a hole in your life that another left, your relationship will not be fulfilling.
Your family is fucking phsycho toxic. He's no kin to you. At all. They are freaking out over literally nothing. Good riddance. I say fuck em. Move on and make your own family with friends and other loved ones. They sound like they use you as a punching bag and would have just came up with another excuse to treat you like shit if not for this one.
I'm going to copy and paste what I wrote higher up since I think it's really important you read this.
As a person in academia, he should lose everything.
You have the word of a predator and a vulnerable teen he has power over that he didn't “abuse” his position. He absolutely did. This behavior is inexcusable and sweeping it under the rug really contributes to the dysfunction in academic settings like this. Please report this guy before he ends up messing up other of his teenage students. He is exactly the kind of person we do not want in academia.
You mean she's voting age and if there's a draft they would qualify her as an adult. She can't buy alcohol or tobacco in most states, because she's a teenager.
And yet you still didn't believe me. Thats what I meant. I explained it to you and you STILL said it sounds made up. The same way you STILL insist I am angry. You don't know me. And yes. I pity you, if for nothing else but your utter lack of belief that a relationship with trust is possible. And with that I will end this pointless debate. OP and everyone else like her can keep her insecurities and stay in a instable relationship for all I care.
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Just stop already bruh, only doing yourself a bigger disservice by continuing to spout nonsense. Do what you feel is best for you but don’t try to pass it off as advice to others fr and “reality”.
He’s cheating. That’s why he suddenly wants the emotional divorce, that’s why he’s accusing you of cheating with a vibrator, that’s why he doesn’t want to divorce legally.
This happened to me and my old roomies. We didn’t care until one day my customer could hear Roomie 1’s girlfriend through my door, through my AirPods. We had a house meeting and said his GF couldn’t be over no more than 3 nights a week. Then came our Friendsgiving, where they left their window open and curtains drawn for everyone in the backyard to see. A few other guests banged on the door and yelled at them. Best comment was, “any more explicit and you’d be a fucking R. Kelly album.” Roomie 1 and his GF were angry and mortified. They stayed in his room until everyone left, sheepishly apologized, and then moved out 4 months later.
Doesn't mean she “owes” you lingerie. But you should just talk to her about it. Not in a way where you ask her to wear it. Just bring it up, say how you like it and what her views are on it. Only then can you know what your next step to take is. Right now you don't know anything.
You need to tell your partner to STFU. Dear Abby has published her three criteria for verbalizing this kind of stuff. Is it true? Is it helpful? Is it kind? If a statement can't meet all three than don't say it. Your partner is not kind. He isn't being helpful. Telling your daughter she's an 8/10 and stubborn is an opinion, not truth.
Without more context, I suggest therapy to dive deeper into the root causes of your insecurities that spurn difficulties opening up and being vulnerable. You won’t be able to get closer or develop a deep meaningful relationship with anyone if you can’t develop that relationship with yourself first.
She wasn't at home actually. She landed up coming back home early and I had already smoked. She got the smell and I came clean to give you more context. I don't even smoke in my own house in front of her and would never do that.
I think I read that post!! I’ve seen a lot of similar instances as well on this sub. A lot of the times I’ve noticed it’s men, because the notion of being any type of emotional is seen an “unmanly” which is pretty shitty because they end up putting up with straight up cheating in some instances. Of course it happens with women too, getting called the “crazy jealous gf” etc. Yes there are a few instances where it’s valid to call it unreasonable, jealous or insecure but it’s gotten to a point where people abuse the words in their favor to discredit any valid concerns from their partners. I always see people stepping out on their partners and when confronted it’s “you’re just being insecure/jealous” and they’ll ride that response out until they get caught redhanded. It’s madness.
she broke it off with me on the day we were suppose to go on a weekend trip together (July). She told me she didn't want to complicate our friendship, that I'm one of her closest friends (I have my doubts). We still went on the trip but just as friends
Who paid for the trip?
On this day, she asked me if I could pick up her son from daycare so I did and ended up watching him for about half the day
week later, she asked for my help to take her to the hospital because she was having abdominal pain. So I rushed over and took her to the hospital and spent 9 hours there by her side
she told me she really appreciated everything and asked if she could put me as an authorized person to pickup her son from daycare, and that she'd give me fob/key to her place incase something like this happens again.
Yeah we live together. And to answer your other question she got a little to close for comfort with a coworker from a previous job…nothing physical just more on a texting level but we got through that.
Uh.. it's cool if that's something you do not think is appropriate in your relationships. That's your choice. But stop acting like you know the objective truth about how everyone should lead their lives.
I'm autistic and am in chronic pain. I have a very considerate friend who I talk to often and meet weekly, who will ask me how I'm feeling or if I've been sleeping well because he knows not to invite me anywhere on a “bad day”. He's almost twice my age, and no, we're not having an affair, emotional or otherwise.
My boyfriend videocalled his best friend every day for almost a month while she was going through a really rough time and was suicidal. Making sure she ate and slept was just part of it.
And we are both perfectly ok with that. It is not abnormal for friends to care about each other's well-being. What's really inappropriate here IMO is that OP has never heard of Jackie before, hasn't met her, isn't part of any of these conversations and says her partner got defensive about it. That's the difference – I was in the background in most of those calls my partner had with his friend and occasionally also helped by cooking meals to bring over. My partner knows my friend and sometimes reads along when we text. It's the hiding that makes this sus, not the content per se.
It’s in your entire attitude.
Nothing is attractive to men.
People date with a purpose and you don’t have one.
I'm not gonna pick the first guy that shows interest
But you never had a normal date. So nothing is being chosen. Not even a single get you know you date.
in me just because society tells me women should have partners
Then happily have no one. It’s fine to be single but don’t complain that guys aren’t interested.
and if they don't they're failures
Who is they? It’s usually your friends and family. You just tell them you are happily single.
I think the prevailing theme in the comments is that everyone is different and I'd totally agree.
I had a 2 year relationship which felt like it had ended about 6 months prior. I was totally fine after we broke up, if anything I felt relieved, I think I had moved on within a couple of weeks.
I had a 9 month relationship which felt like the world had imploded when it ended and it took months of dark days to get over.
All I would say is that you need time to be by yourself and be used to that. Celebrate the highs with friends, share the lows with them too. It definitely feels nice to have that special someone, but if all you're trying to do is find someone to fill a hole in your life that another left, your relationship will not be fulfilling.
Best of luck 🙂
Your family is fucking phsycho toxic. He's no kin to you. At all. They are freaking out over literally nothing. Good riddance. I say fuck em. Move on and make your own family with friends and other loved ones. They sound like they use you as a punching bag and would have just came up with another excuse to treat you like shit if not for this one.
I'm going to copy and paste what I wrote higher up since I think it's really important you read this.
As a person in academia, he should lose everything.
You have the word of a predator and a vulnerable teen he has power over that he didn't “abuse” his position. He absolutely did. This behavior is inexcusable and sweeping it under the rug really contributes to the dysfunction in academic settings like this. Please report this guy before he ends up messing up other of his teenage students. He is exactly the kind of person we do not want in academia.
You mean she's voting age and if there's a draft they would qualify her as an adult. She can't buy alcohol or tobacco in most states, because she's a teenager.
And yet you still didn't believe me. Thats what I meant. I explained it to you and you STILL said it sounds made up. The same way you STILL insist I am angry. You don't know me. And yes. I pity you, if for nothing else but your utter lack of belief that a relationship with trust is possible. And with that I will end this pointless debate. OP and everyone else like her can keep her insecurities and stay in a instable relationship for all I care.
Same!!! Just stock my nightstand with juices, apple sauce, crackers and meds…and lemme alone
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Just stop already bruh, only doing yourself a bigger disservice by continuing to spout nonsense. Do what you feel is best for you but don’t try to pass it off as advice to others fr and “reality”.
He’s cheating. That’s why he suddenly wants the emotional divorce, that’s why he’s accusing you of cheating with a vibrator, that’s why he doesn’t want to divorce legally.
I’d run.
This happened to me and my old roomies. We didn’t care until one day my customer could hear Roomie 1’s girlfriend through my door, through my AirPods. We had a house meeting and said his GF couldn’t be over no more than 3 nights a week. Then came our Friendsgiving, where they left their window open and curtains drawn for everyone in the backyard to see. A few other guests banged on the door and yelled at them. Best comment was, “any more explicit and you’d be a fucking R. Kelly album.” Roomie 1 and his GF were angry and mortified. They stayed in his room until everyone left, sheepishly apologized, and then moved out 4 months later.
Doesn't mean she “owes” you lingerie. But you should just talk to her about it. Not in a way where you ask her to wear it. Just bring it up, say how you like it and what her views are on it. Only then can you know what your next step to take is. Right now you don't know anything.
??????????
You need to tell your partner to STFU. Dear Abby has published her three criteria for verbalizing this kind of stuff. Is it true? Is it helpful? Is it kind? If a statement can't meet all three than don't say it. Your partner is not kind. He isn't being helpful. Telling your daughter she's an 8/10 and stubborn is an opinion, not truth.
Without more context, I suggest therapy to dive deeper into the root causes of your insecurities that spurn difficulties opening up and being vulnerable. You won’t be able to get closer or develop a deep meaningful relationship with anyone if you can’t develop that relationship with yourself first.
Talk to someone else.
Seems to say a lot about character. I literally have a child with him, why on earth would be want me to do bad? Crazy to me.
I don't have a willy but I hear this is common with massages as well.
I recommend a bunch of roses and a massive apology and declarations of undying love. That's all I've got sorry.
She wasn't at home actually. She landed up coming back home early and I had already smoked. She got the smell and I came clean to give you more context. I don't even smoke in my own house in front of her and would never do that.
Regift it to yourself. Find a new way of thinking of it and wear it.
I think I read that post!! I’ve seen a lot of similar instances as well on this sub. A lot of the times I’ve noticed it’s men, because the notion of being any type of emotional is seen an “unmanly” which is pretty shitty because they end up putting up with straight up cheating in some instances. Of course it happens with women too, getting called the “crazy jealous gf” etc. Yes there are a few instances where it’s valid to call it unreasonable, jealous or insecure but it’s gotten to a point where people abuse the words in their favor to discredit any valid concerns from their partners. I always see people stepping out on their partners and when confronted it’s “you’re just being insecure/jealous” and they’ll ride that response out until they get caught redhanded. It’s madness.
Good math took me months to put that together
Who cares what happened? The story itself is enough.
Yeah it won’t happen. Because we’re done.
she broke it off with me on the day we were suppose to go on a weekend trip together (July). She told me she didn't want to complicate our friendship, that I'm one of her closest friends (I have my doubts). We still went on the trip but just as friends
Who paid for the trip?
On this day, she asked me if I could pick up her son from daycare so I did and ended up watching him for about half the day
week later, she asked for my help to take her to the hospital because she was having abdominal pain. So I rushed over and took her to the hospital and spent 9 hours there by her side
she told me she really appreciated everything and asked if she could put me as an authorized person to pickup her son from daycare, and that she'd give me fob/key to her place incase something like this happens again.
Can't you see that you're being used?
Yeah we live together. And to answer your other question she got a little to close for comfort with a coworker from a previous job…nothing physical just more on a texting level but we got through that.
So she is well on her way to get ahead in her job by sleeping with her bosses.