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You’ve obviously haven’t hit rock bottom yet. Not sure what you’re waiting for ? To be publicly humiliated? Next you’ll catch her again and she’s gonna ask for an open relationship…. This can only get worse for you. Time to move on she obviously doesn’t care about you she wants the benefits you give her while selfishly enjoying herself with other men. See the writing on the walls you’ll end up paying child support for a kid that isn’t yours at the rate you’re going…
Your joke was clearly funny. Your bf shouldn’t have gotten as mad. It’s weird that he won’t talk to you that’s a sign of bad communication. Like bruh I have better communication with my dog than that.
Not compatible. Leave now. No one changes their sex drive and mo matter who you are, sex doesn’t increase over time, especially not as her resentment for your desire grows. This is a recipe for a very sad marriage. I know a few. Yikes. Run
My husband is 6'5″ and I am 5'6″. He has fluctuated weight wise through our 13 years together. I can count on one hand how many times he's accidentally injured me, and every time he took it very seriously.
My response is this, ask urself would you want the quote other guy to tell you abt it if she was your girlfriend an that’s your answer but, there’s more to think abt bc u work together she could make ur life a living hell at and away from work and even try and get you fired so idk how much this job means to you but that’s also to think abt. For all you know she could start fucking the boss and then get him to fire you j out of spite ??♂️
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Now, the second incident sounds clearly like rape. I don't think there is much of a question about that, because even if you agreed to it, you most likely were barely conscious while he was. Your consent wouldn't mean shit in this situation.
The first incident might be different. You write it is clear there was “some kind of sexual activity”, but how do you know that? You being very hot could have been you undressing yourself. I know that I had moments when I slept naked while drunk (which I never do otherwise) because for some reason my clothes touching me drove me crazy.
So what was the reason you are sure sexual activity took place? If there was ejaculate on or in you, it certainly was some kind of sexual assault. Otherwise, would it be possible you masturbated while drunk?
Still, you need to know that you can't consent to sexual acts if you are drunk. If both people are drunk neither is at fault. But from what you describe, both of those guys were sober.
Also, you should really stop drinking this much, not just for 5 month, but permanently. I, too, had a phase in my life when I was black out drunk rather regularly, and it was awful. I did and said a lot of things I still regret (no crimes, luckily). Ever since then I basically became my friend group's permanent “designated driver”, because this forces me to not drink more than the legal limit, which is only about 2 beers. I haven't been drunk in years, I barely drink at all. I don't feel like I miss out on anything.
This does not mean anything is your fault, of course it isn't. But there are ways to lower the risk of incidents like this happening in the future, and drinking way less is a very important one.
I kind of don't believe this is a true story because if you go to work smelling like literal shit, I feel like someone is going to say something to you.
But if it's true: What is the point of staying together? You can't possibly ever touch him, right? What are you getting from him that you've stayed this long?
That is good. Might I suggest a chart he can see that shows your weight loss. If the weight is an issue, it might motivate him again.
You might also tell him straight up that he should watch a movie he has seen before and likes because you are going to be doing stuff to him while he watches. See if you can pull him from the film.
Call out the behaviour in front of others. From what you say about him, maybe he's the type who thinks this is banter (I had a colleague who did this mercilessly for years) or a kind of affectionate teasing, so he needs to be told very clearly that you're experiencing it as bullying and hurtful, and that it's not OK with you. You don't have to disclose the hookup.
Suppressed memories aren't all that rare. it ultimately depends on the woman's relationship with her parents during childhood and how securely attached they were in her mind.
Neglect can also cause this. Neglect is a form of trauma that can affect memory even worse than direct abuse. The numbers are far, far higher than you'd like to consider – 1 in 4 children are beaten so very hot a bruise is left as an example. It's not rare.
Just send a text that the relationship isn’t working out and block. You already know he’s a liar, a manipulator. If you wanna call him out on his behaviors then do that, if you don’t then don’t.
As someone who used to work like 90 hours a week sometimes because my field is messed up like that – you need to learn to separate the things that frustrate you about your job from people complaining about their jobs that you feel are objectively easier than yours. Otherwise, you will just build resentment for others that is really misdirected, because what you’re really upset about is the things you lack in your own job.
It’s likely true that she would not be able to handle what you do. But her job suddenly becoming harder wouldn’t change the things you want to change about your job. She isn’t living your life, she’s living hers, and she’s allowed to complain about her dissatisfaction about her job even if it isn’t the hardest job in the world.
Rather than “can you stop complaining, you don’t realize how good you have it” maybe you can approach her from the standpoint of “I’ve noticed that you often complain about XYZ regarding work. Do you want to brainstorm some ideas together about how we could try to change that? I also have some stuff on my mind about how stressful work is” and then go from there.
No. “If we were to get back together…” and “I do respect myself enough…” are mutually exclusive in this situation. You want to respect yourself? Put her in the “do not contact ever for any reason” box. Save your sanity, my dude.
I fail to see any point in fixing any of it, based on what you’ve written. You didn’t list any redeeming features of the relationship, you haven’t been together long, and he sounds like a prick. Sometimes things end. Sometimes you should let them.
Since you work at the same company, you might consider touching base with HR. Let them know briefly what happened. Tell them that you have cut contact with her socially over the incident, and don't expect any trouble at work, but want them to be aware that there is now an unpleasant history between you two.
You broke up. Take it as a learning experience, people with mental disorders that don't take care of them are more trouble then that are worth, and unless she does something about it herself there is nothing you can do. YOU CAN'T FIX HER. Leave her alone to fix herself
This seems like you chose a controlling, selfish, and a liar. Get out now before you end up on TV and not for a good reason. I’m a dude and what you said about this guy scares me for you.
You’ve obviously haven’t hit rock bottom yet. Not sure what you’re waiting for ? To be publicly humiliated? Next you’ll catch her again and she’s gonna ask for an open relationship…. This can only get worse for you. Time to move on she obviously doesn’t care about you she wants the benefits you give her while selfishly enjoying herself with other men. See the writing on the walls you’ll end up paying child support for a kid that isn’t yours at the rate you’re going…
Your joke was clearly funny. Your bf shouldn’t have gotten as mad. It’s weird that he won’t talk to you that’s a sign of bad communication. Like bruh I have better communication with my dog than that.
Not compatible. Leave now. No one changes their sex drive and mo matter who you are, sex doesn’t increase over time, especially not as her resentment for your desire grows. This is a recipe for a very sad marriage. I know a few. Yikes. Run
My husband is 6'5″ and I am 5'6″. He has fluctuated weight wise through our 13 years together. I can count on one hand how many times he's accidentally injured me, and every time he took it very seriously.
My response is this, ask urself would you want the quote other guy to tell you abt it if she was your girlfriend an that’s your answer but, there’s more to think abt bc u work together she could make ur life a living hell at and away from work and even try and get you fired so idk how much this job means to you but that’s also to think abt. For all you know she could start fucking the boss and then get him to fire you j out of spite ??♂️
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Now, the second incident sounds clearly like rape. I don't think there is much of a question about that, because even if you agreed to it, you most likely were barely conscious while he was. Your consent wouldn't mean shit in this situation.
The first incident might be different. You write it is clear there was “some kind of sexual activity”, but how do you know that? You being very hot could have been you undressing yourself. I know that I had moments when I slept naked while drunk (which I never do otherwise) because for some reason my clothes touching me drove me crazy.
So what was the reason you are sure sexual activity took place? If there was ejaculate on or in you, it certainly was some kind of sexual assault. Otherwise, would it be possible you masturbated while drunk?
Still, you need to know that you can't consent to sexual acts if you are drunk. If both people are drunk neither is at fault. But from what you describe, both of those guys were sober.
Also, you should really stop drinking this much, not just for 5 month, but permanently. I, too, had a phase in my life when I was black out drunk rather regularly, and it was awful. I did and said a lot of things I still regret (no crimes, luckily). Ever since then I basically became my friend group's permanent “designated driver”, because this forces me to not drink more than the legal limit, which is only about 2 beers. I haven't been drunk in years, I barely drink at all. I don't feel like I miss out on anything.
This does not mean anything is your fault, of course it isn't. But there are ways to lower the risk of incidents like this happening in the future, and drinking way less is a very important one.
All the best to you.
Talk to a financial advisor and attorney
I kind of don't believe this is a true story because if you go to work smelling like literal shit, I feel like someone is going to say something to you.
But if it's true: What is the point of staying together? You can't possibly ever touch him, right? What are you getting from him that you've stayed this long?
That is good. Might I suggest a chart he can see that shows your weight loss. If the weight is an issue, it might motivate him again.
You might also tell him straight up that he should watch a movie he has seen before and likes because you are going to be doing stuff to him while he watches. See if you can pull him from the film.
There’s zero excuse for cheating. Should have talked to your husband before anything happened.
That is a sad truth that i am slowly accepting, just posted to see if there is any slither of hope?
Call out the behaviour in front of others. From what you say about him, maybe he's the type who thinks this is banter (I had a colleague who did this mercilessly for years) or a kind of affectionate teasing, so he needs to be told very clearly that you're experiencing it as bullying and hurtful, and that it's not OK with you. You don't have to disclose the hookup.
Suppressed memories aren't all that rare. it ultimately depends on the woman's relationship with her parents during childhood and how securely attached they were in her mind.
Neglect can also cause this. Neglect is a form of trauma that can affect memory even worse than direct abuse. The numbers are far, far higher than you'd like to consider – 1 in 4 children are beaten so very hot a bruise is left as an example. It's not rare.
Honestly, it sounds to me like she needs to heal from her previous relationship before being able to handle another one from a healthy place.
Break up with him. Then ruin him forever with one hell of a uno reverse using a dick joke.
You don't trust him, you pack his things and tell him to go.
Only needed to read the first sentence.
Yes. He's controlling. That tends to happen when a guy in his mid 20s is dating a teenager.
Just send a text that the relationship isn’t working out and block. You already know he’s a liar, a manipulator. If you wanna call him out on his behaviors then do that, if you don’t then don’t.
As someone who used to work like 90 hours a week sometimes because my field is messed up like that – you need to learn to separate the things that frustrate you about your job from people complaining about their jobs that you feel are objectively easier than yours. Otherwise, you will just build resentment for others that is really misdirected, because what you’re really upset about is the things you lack in your own job.
It’s likely true that she would not be able to handle what you do. But her job suddenly becoming harder wouldn’t change the things you want to change about your job. She isn’t living your life, she’s living hers, and she’s allowed to complain about her dissatisfaction about her job even if it isn’t the hardest job in the world.
Rather than “can you stop complaining, you don’t realize how good you have it” maybe you can approach her from the standpoint of “I’ve noticed that you often complain about XYZ regarding work. Do you want to brainstorm some ideas together about how we could try to change that? I also have some stuff on my mind about how stressful work is” and then go from there.
No. “If we were to get back together…” and “I do respect myself enough…” are mutually exclusive in this situation. You want to respect yourself? Put her in the “do not contact ever for any reason” box. Save your sanity, my dude.
I fail to see any point in fixing any of it, based on what you’ve written. You didn’t list any redeeming features of the relationship, you haven’t been together long, and he sounds like a prick. Sometimes things end. Sometimes you should let them.
Yes and I don't really get any straight answers, I've gotten bits and pieces here and there, but he struggles to open up
He was drunk. Reverse the genders what's your opinion? A drunk woman being grappled by a random man while sleeping.
What you do is dump her. She wants you to be ok with her side guys.
Since you work at the same company, you might consider touching base with HR. Let them know briefly what happened. Tell them that you have cut contact with her socially over the incident, and don't expect any trouble at work, but want them to be aware that there is now an unpleasant history between you two.
You broke up. Take it as a learning experience, people with mental disorders that don't take care of them are more trouble then that are worth, and unless she does something about it herself there is nothing you can do. YOU CAN'T FIX HER. Leave her alone to fix herself
This seems like you chose a controlling, selfish, and a liar. Get out now before you end up on TV and not for a good reason. I’m a dude and what you said about this guy scares me for you.
Statistically men are much, much more likely to be predatory, but that doesn’t mean women can’t be too
You are not responsible for his actions. Please do not blame yourself. You having boundaries and self respect is not bad.
Pls leave, be clear about leaving and let his family / exwife know that he needs support. He is not your responsibility.