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Some people need porn in their lives, regardless of relationship status. Clearly you and OPs BF fall in this camp.
What I've told OP is that if they can't tolerate their partner watching porn all the time, their partner won't change, then they can leave
Like you said “Yea, but adults in their 30s/40s have a lot less tolerance for partners trying to control their habits…. they’re also more likely to tell you to fuck off if you try to control their masturbation habits.” I'm agreeing and saying OP should “fuck off” by leaving.
I can see your point. I think maybe he feels bad for his MIL. I agree with you though that he needs to put his foot down and say no more. I saw that my ex's family was dysfunctional and I called out a lot of what was happening so of course they didn't like me. I also chose to remove myself from the situation. It's up to OP whether or not he does that.
Lastly, she’s offered to be our couples therapist AFTER slightly hinting at us maybe getting divorced
Can you elaborate on this? Nothing else in this post is particularly concerning, just sounds like someone who is maybe new-ish to the profession and eager to provide comprehensive care, but this pricked my antennae. Therapists should not be bringing up divorce independently. When you say she hinted at it, what did she actually say?
This post is a prime example of why many of us always encourage leaving instead of mamby Pamby counseling when a member reveals abuse. In the meantime go to police and court and show them text messages where he acknowledges it’s your cat and the attempts to bribe you with her. If you don’t have any text, message and get him to incriminate self. You can get a police escort to get your cat with you. If you get him to incriminate himself for murdering a cat you can also have him charged with cruelty to animals. Good luck
Are you in therapy? Have you thought about changing your workplace?
I also wonder if you are someone who tends to overinterpret everything. Like someone has a bad day overall and if they say hello to you they say it in a neutral tone and not happy with a smile. Now you start to ask yourself “Did i do something wrong? Don't they like me?”
I don't know what your job is, but you are there to earn money and get your work done and not to chat with friends. If this is your first job, it is often hot to make a cut between school/college and worklife. Maybe try to just be cordial to your collegues and remember “it is work”. Get friends out of work. Of course it is great to have workfriends, but often not with those collegues who you work direct with or something happen like you experience – a fallout and you don't want to go to work.
You can just do your best and be friendly. If this isn't enough, it isn't your problem. Even if it is naked, try to be strong and wear your head high. You are a lovable person, people who don't see it aren't worth of you. Smile at them and show them what they miss.
Would you have felt comfortable with your Aunt leaving their partner for that opportunity? I have a feeling if sister is unaware or indifferent enough to be okay with that, this might be a very different situation. I get it, sometimes we need a soft spot to land. Help and being nearby or sharing space would theoretically be enough for most, this is much much more
Some people need porn in their lives, regardless of relationship status. Clearly you and OPs BF fall in this camp.
What I've told OP is that if they can't tolerate their partner watching porn all the time, their partner won't change, then they can leave
Like you said “Yea, but adults in their 30s/40s have a lot less tolerance for partners trying to control their habits…. they’re also more likely to tell you to fuck off if you try to control their masturbation habits.” I'm agreeing and saying OP should “fuck off” by leaving.
I can see your point. I think maybe he feels bad for his MIL. I agree with you though that he needs to put his foot down and say no more. I saw that my ex's family was dysfunctional and I called out a lot of what was happening so of course they didn't like me. I also chose to remove myself from the situation. It's up to OP whether or not he does that.
How is it not? He thought she was touching herself. That's all it is. Anything else is perceived protection just because she s a girl
You need to notify the counselor at your school. If you're to scared to do it. Go to their office and show them this post.
You make good points. I will take this advice !
Lastly, she’s offered to be our couples therapist AFTER slightly hinting at us maybe getting divorced
Can you elaborate on this? Nothing else in this post is particularly concerning, just sounds like someone who is maybe new-ish to the profession and eager to provide comprehensive care, but this pricked my antennae. Therapists should not be bringing up divorce independently. When you say she hinted at it, what did she actually say?
This post is a prime example of why many of us always encourage leaving instead of mamby Pamby counseling when a member reveals abuse. In the meantime go to police and court and show them text messages where he acknowledges it’s your cat and the attempts to bribe you with her. If you don’t have any text, message and get him to incriminate self. You can get a police escort to get your cat with you. If you get him to incriminate himself for murdering a cat you can also have him charged with cruelty to animals. Good luck
Are you in therapy? Have you thought about changing your workplace?
I also wonder if you are someone who tends to overinterpret everything. Like someone has a bad day overall and if they say hello to you they say it in a neutral tone and not happy with a smile. Now you start to ask yourself “Did i do something wrong? Don't they like me?”
I don't know what your job is, but you are there to earn money and get your work done and not to chat with friends. If this is your first job, it is often hot to make a cut between school/college and worklife. Maybe try to just be cordial to your collegues and remember “it is work”. Get friends out of work. Of course it is great to have workfriends, but often not with those collegues who you work direct with or something happen like you experience – a fallout and you don't want to go to work.
You can just do your best and be friendly. If this isn't enough, it isn't your problem. Even if it is naked, try to be strong and wear your head high. You are a lovable person, people who don't see it aren't worth of you. Smile at them and show them what they miss.
I wish you the best. You will do it❤️
Would you have felt comfortable with your Aunt leaving their partner for that opportunity? I have a feeling if sister is unaware or indifferent enough to be okay with that, this might be a very different situation. I get it, sometimes we need a soft spot to land. Help and being nearby or sharing space would theoretically be enough for most, this is much much more
This right here in an underrated comment
Confront him in private and dump him. Your mother shouldn't know, just like you said, her well-being is important.