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He could have a health issue.
And for me the romantic stuff is a turn on. It’s just a suggestion for OP to make things more personal than some of the generic phrases on here. It’s not an insult to take personally
Congratulations. I read your original post and he sounds very autistic to me. I have exactly the same problem as him. I'm not sure what I do to put people off. I'm not good at chit chat and will mainly want to talk about interests. I've been told I'm a good partner so I don't think it's me being an asshole. Engineering is a common autistic field. I also wanna put this out there right, autistics get on great with fellow NDs so maybe you are too? A lot of people have no idea what autistic looks like and think nah it can't be that. But you can be autistic and super social. I think it's more acceptable for guys to not talk and be a bit awkward. Bare in mind people like Eminem and Courtney Love are autistic, so although it may seem like no chance, autistics can vary quest extensively
Well, if you bring it up. I would try and do it objectively as possible.
I would avoid phrasing it in a way where he caused these feelings for you.
It's not his fault that you didn't get accepted, nor should he be blamed for it. So, I would be careful not to toss frustrations in his direction.
If you're going to talk about it, I would like to see this route:
I am happy that you went and got to experience this trip.
I really wanted to go and lately I have been feeling down because I wish I could have been there with you to share in the same experience.
And seeing you there having a blast, it made me feel more sad because it kept reminding me what I was missing.
I really wanted to go.
This made me do a lot of thinking, but I would love for us to take a trip together to one of these places.
Do you think we can plan for one?
On a seperate note:
When I was talking to my mom about this, she brushed it off by saying it was okay for me to be jealous and that we should just break up
Does your mom even like him? That comment to me sounds like she disapproves the relationship. I think that breaking up over this is unreasonable. And she was looking for a reason to convince you in breaking up…
Well, if you bring it up. I would try and do it objectively as possible.
I would avoid phrasing it in a way where he caused these feelings for you.
It's not his fault that you didn't get accepted, nor should he be blamed for it. So, I would be careful not to toss frustrations in his direction.
If you're going to talk about it, I would like to see this route:
I am happy that you went and got to experience this trip.
I really wanted to go and lately I have been feeling down because I wish I could have been there with you to share in the same experience.
And seeing you there having a blast, it made me feel more sad because it kept reminding me what I was missing.
I really wanted to go.
This made me do a lot of thinking, but I would love for us to take a trip together to one of these places.
Do you think we can plan for one?
On a seperate note:
When I was talking to my mom about this, she brushed it off by saying it was okay for me to be jealous and that we should just break up
Does your mom even like him? That comment to me sounds like she disapproves the relationship. I think that breaking up over this is unreasonable. And she was looking for a reason to convince you in breaking up…
Well, if you bring it up. I would try and do it objectively as possible.
I would avoid phrasing it in a way where he caused these feelings for you.
It's not his fault that you didn't get accepted, nor should he be blamed for it. So, I would be careful not to toss frustrations in his direction.
If you're going to talk about it, I would like to see this route:
I am happy that you went and got to experience this trip.
I really wanted to go and lately I have been feeling down because I wish I could have been there with you to share in the same experience.
And seeing you there having a blast, it made me feel more sad because it kept reminding me what I was missing.
I really wanted to go.
This made me do a lot of thinking, but I would love for us to take a trip together to one of these places.
Do you think we can plan for one?
On a seperate note:
When I was talking to my mom about this, she brushed it off by saying it was okay for me to be jealous and that we should just break up
Does your mom even like him? That comment to me sounds like she disapproves the relationship. I think that breaking up over this is unreasonable. And she was looking for a reason to convince you in breaking up…
What if I go back and rip up the bill of sell? Without. Him knowing
How much was the car worth before the damage?
If he cancelled the insurance on it he's not going to report it to the police. And if he does it's only to punish you — no right minded person would report having an insured car to the police.
You really need to get out of this real. It's much more important than the cost of this car.
Let's know how it goes.
Oh? Youre a med student? How long did you study endometriosis for? How did they tell you it forms and how to treat it?
this is ok advice, but you shouldn’t do this every time with everyone. Personally I don’t enjoy continuing to have sex after I orgasm. I would very much prefer we orgasm at the same time.
Them kids won’t online a full life
They’ll get shot by a maniac
What a country
Reading is nude, LMAO
In New York City a modest place is about 700k if you want to be in a decent school zone
It wasn’t a gray area, you broke up, it’s crystal clear. Sounds like you just don’t want her so go with that and stop wasting everyone’s time.
Generally, people strongly grieve for a relationship for either 6 months or half the length of the relationship. Whichever is shorter. You’re past that point, so you need to spend less time caring about his life and focus on yourself. He is happy. He was not happy with you. What do you want? Him to come back and be LESS happy with you because it’s more comfortable than moving on? That helps no one, and will not give you what you seek.
In this case he's not paying comp though.
7k a day for plenty of restaurant models is more than enough in gross revenue to turn a tidy profit, it really really really depends. A pizza truck doing 7k is cleaning up with low cost of product.
It is normal to want your gf to dress modestly and not attract attention from the opposite gender, but this doesn’t sound like it’s to respect his boundaries but because he’s trying to see how much control he can impose over you. Respect and trust is a 2 way street and either side looking to control you is a very big red flag, especially if you already dress modestly and are not looking for anyone’s attention but his and he is still has a problem. I don’t know what his excuse is for feeling that way, but they are his problems that are making the relationship toxic, not the way you dress. Stand up for yourself and call him out for projecting his insecurities and make it painfully obvious that you are already being modest because you respect yourself and the relationship you’re in and that him attempting to control that and you shows that he has issues that he needs to work out before you continue with your relationship as his behavior is an assault and affront to your character and person ethics that you find unacceptable. Give him the choice to either get professional help for his control issues, or that you’re not going to stick around and tolerate a partner that thinks they have have to control you and not trust in you despite showing him you have good morals and character.
I really think you're on to something there. Especially considering a child is a human being and not a prop for the family tree, OPs husband may very well end up resenting the child if he is coerced into having a second
Have you considered not using your dick and just fisting her? Doing that is a ton of fun if you’re both into it
It's powerplay.
“Only I do decide to whom I talk about what.”
Ah, yeah… heck you do! You are gossiping about your wifes most intimate problems!
To imagine someone discussing another persons sex issues already is grossly indiscrete.
To discuss A TRAUMATIZED persons sex issues AND rant on about “one being how one is and yadayadaing always things over with whoever one wants” is so grossly lacking empathy and sense that I would want to touch such a gossiper with gloves anymore.
May he be happy with himself. This is not the behavior of a loving and trustworthy husband.
Asshole, sorry, not sorry! Divorce well deserved if he gets one.
See, with whom to have “phenomenal sex” then. Really! ?
Updateme!
how are you not embarrassed by your actions rn bro
Yea, sounds like someone from the subreddit for sure.
So in six months you’ve had sex 6/12 times?
Girl…… I think you need to move out and find a man that is more sexually compatible
You both do not sound like good or well adjusted people. You’re too controlling and judgmental to be in a relationship, and your GF is too immature and poor with money and a cheating POS to be in a relationship. Either way, you haven’t really dated that long, 1.5 years is nothing. I would throw her cheating arse back and if I was you I would get serious therapy for all your issues as you’re not ready to be dating anyone. Either way you both need to take a break from dating to work on yourselves.
Agreed. And of course, I don’t see many non problematic age gap relationships featured here.
I'll give you this advice I wish someone would have given me 20 years ago- Of course it doesn't mean that you don't love your boyfriend! It's totally normal to be attracted to someone else, looks or personality. It's just a crush, and it's normal.
Every human loves those butterflies in their stomach and the excitement of a new relationship, so we can be tempted by others. We love novelty, something new, exciting, and unknown.
It will likely happen several times throughout your life, even if you spend forever with him. Even if you end up leaving him for some other reason and end up with someone else, you still will get crushes on people.
So even if you were to leave your boyfriend for this guy, he'll just become the one you're comfortable with, and someone else will tempt you by being new and exciting.
Try to concentrate on the positives you have in your current relationship. Change things up, go out more, join some kind of group or club or volunteer together.
And yes, keep your distance. That dopamine boosted part of the brain will try to trick you, and try to convince you that you want the quick, fleeting butterflies. It will tell you that it's “just friends” because it wants that dopamine boost. And, it will get more and more convincing the more time you spend with this guy. It'll start convincing you that maybe you always hated the way your boyfriend did this or that…the way he leaves the peanut butter jar on the counter….etc, so it's best to just not give your brain more opportunities to trick you.
I just didn’t wanna go up to him and be like “hey i’m breaking up with you because you smell bad”. i just felt like that would be really mean. I wanted a reason to breakup with him that wouldn’t make me feel like I’m a bad person
That sounds right. Like a misguided attempt at helping. His family did bring their own groceries Sunday to prepare their 4 course meals here cleaned up after the meal, but I still get stuck emptying the dishwasher, and it took me until today ( Tuesday evening) to get a chance to mop the tile floors from them wearing their shoes all around the house… i know they’re just small things but every minute counts when I am juggling 2 infants. I just don’t understand why our house has to be the gathering place… I mentioned in another comment that they never stepped foot in our apartment for 2 years but as soon as we bought our house last year, they only gather here. It’s also odd because his brother lives with his mom, and his sister usually stays there overnight when she visits for the weekend, so it would make more sense for them to stay put and my husband to come to them. I get that the babies are a reason to come here, but this started 5 months before they were born and continued while they babies were out of state for those 4 months. WHY OUR HOUSE? Sorry, It drives me up the wall
Ok so she IS trying to make some money. Not defending her, because what you have said sounds very manipulative. What exactly do you see in this relationship that makes you stay?
Ya she should of called an ambualce… but idk she probably has more she hasn't said? I just see it as she needed help and he let down, If it was your wife wouldn't you be there? Idk man I just didn't like the way this went down
My husband is 8.5 years younger than me. He was 24 and I was 33 when we got together. It has worked beautifully, but there are things you need to keep in mind: – You have to be a lot more open. You’re with someone with less life experience with you. All those little lessons you’ve learned along the way? He hasn’t had a chance to. It is unfair and unreasonable to have expectations that he will see your point of view without you discussing it. – when I say discussing it, I mean discussing it. You cannot talk down to him or say “you don’t understand yet”. That’s friggen nude but if you want your relationship to thrive you have got to be kind and fair. – there can be power dynamic differences. You need to never exploit those. My husband was already a college graduate and a home owner when we met… but he had family help to do that. Most people that age will not be. Money and power imbalances should never be weaponized.
It’s worked for me. The relationship has been the most loving, fulfilling of my life and I’m glad I didn’t let my fear of the age gap turn me off from it… but you have to make specific effort to be patient, loving, and equal partners.
I hate to say this, but he’s definitely cheating emotionally, if not physically. My (24F) boyfriend (27M) would be happy to show me his messages, and has offered multiple times (I have been cheated on many times, so I have a lot of trust issues). I have turned his phone away every time because I feel that’s a privacy he should be able to have, but sometimes he’ll even show me after I said I don’t need him to.
These are all huge red flags that you’ve described. This is disgusting on his part.
There’s also the chance that she’s too timid to turn him down, or reject his advances – she seems very shy and quiet, and I’ve found that saying “no” can be very difficult for people like that. From what you’re saying, it seems like she isn’t returning the affection, just accepting it. It’s possible she feels incredibly uncomfortable. Maybe you should ask her if it makes her uncomfortable as a professional, and if she needs you to step in? She may tell you what you need to know, or even prove to you that something’s going on if she feels she’s in a safe space with you.
You don't know what anything means. Stop posting.
She’s felt like this since 2 months before the wedding?!
She sounds pretty damn selfish, honestly. I don’t think going on dates or counseling or buying more flowers will help. She checked out already in the 2 months before the wedding but was too chicken shit to say anything.
This sounds like how my mom acted when she checked out of her marriage with my dad. He spent months trying to “date” her again and spending money on her and talking things out but it didn’t matter to my mom. Her mind was made up and she was just stringing my dad along until her next new boyfriend.
I wouldn’t waste my time, money, or breath on her again. It’s only been 6 months, you can get a dissolution of marriage (a divorce but less messy especially if you agree on who gets what).
She hasn’t lost sleep, cried, or lost her appetite over this. She’s done and you should be, too.
Ouch, telling someone to shut up. Not good. The fact that you recognize it is a great first step. A perspective is that he needs to own his behavior not you. Maybe remind him of your expectations before going out around your friends and family next time and then push back nude if it happens again. And by push back I mean getting up, leaving, and driving/UBERing home if you need to. Id imagine that being made to look like an ass would eventually stop the behavior from happening.
Pushing back hard will help him to understand that you have boundaries and that you won't let them be crossed. Talking about it before hand which you've done makes your reaction fair game. Best to you! ?
The way you probably got it from his dirty junk though… make him shower multiple times
I'm using Google translator since I don't speak English
Well I'm going to be real, what are you doing and simply cheating on him, nothing but nothing less, cheating is unforgivable. If I were him, I would never look him in the face, and I would be disgusted with you,
That's why I'm going to give you advice, talk and flirting is one thing and something completely different, if you continue with it, soon this flirting will turn into desire, then I don't even need to say that it will happen.
Stop doing this, why be him I found out that you are flirting with other people God for you and your relationship, why betrayal is not forgiven in heaven or on earth
Being the one flirting with the crowd ends the relationship, simple as that, and there is no excuse for what you are doing.
The thing is, I’d straight up ask if she was okay , I offered to go to her job to talk, i was avoided
Weed destroyed my 15 year marriage.
Wife got a bit too high one day, then entirely forgot she had a husband, kids, and family.
OP is lucky that they can still remember their parents and own name after that edible.
I didn’t care at first until he snapped which gave me a feeling of him being guilty
You don’t know the intimate details of your other close friends, they are probably being manipulated and don’t even know yet. Thankfully you’ve had that wake up call early.