But if I Block him how would I see he unblocks me? I was thinking to say sorry via mitual friend or something but idk now. I think he has also things to apologize for
Quick question, what is the household dynamic?( who's the bread winner, both work full-time, stay at home mom, etc.) And have you been to therapy for your depression?
Well, only for those who are on the same page. She wants to move in, he doesn’t. He has a roommate already, this is not about space or independence. Totally about commitment issues and responsibilities.
Thank you. I see it all the time in this sub. The term “groomer” is thrown around as much as “narcissist” and more often misused than not. I remember a post about a woman over thirsty and her husband who was 10 years or so older. They tried to claim he groomed her!? That's not what grooming is people! And it takes away the validity of victims of grooming.
Some people are just crap humans. This happens to women/men of all ages and without age gaps. People can change after life circumstances change. Unfortunately,it happens. And really,it's that people show exactly who they are and we should believe it.
I dont have a current bf. I dont mean to interrupt his holiday either, its just nice to talk about it an ask instead of avoiding the subject like he did. I am not mad at him for avoiding either, it his choice. It could be a cultural thing for sure because in my culture people usually go out on new years eve with their significant other.
Another option – own it. My friend sent nudes to someone he thought was into him. Turned out to be catfishing and she threatened to send his nudes to everyone if he didn't pay her money. He told her go ahead and he just sent all his friends and family a message saying something along the lines of “heads up, I'm being threatened by someone who has nudes of me. If you receive anything please can you let me know and delete/block them?”. Nothing ever happened once she realised she wouldn't get any money out of him.
Why not do the same with your ex? Tell ALL your and his family and friends he has nudes of you he's refusing to delete and that you'd appreciate a heads up if he distributes them so you can go to the police. I'm sure more than a few will have words with him.
You aren’t being secretive, he is being controlling. This man is a jar full of marinara flags. You need to make a plan and get out, it will only get worse.
Not sure I got the story right, I still haven’t had my first coffee of the day. But you are not required to pay for your brother. Just be aware that you might lose every right of build there (including your apt)
And she won’t take care of the daughter at all.
But if I Block him how would I see he unblocks me? I was thinking to say sorry via mitual friend or something but idk now. I think he has also things to apologize for
you both engaged, and suddely he is an asshole ?
really weird. how can it be ? it is as if one of you realized what marrying means at long term.
best advice you will have today : wait one more year before the wedding.
Quick question, what is the household dynamic?( who's the bread winner, both work full-time, stay at home mom, etc.) And have you been to therapy for your depression?
“I’m fine. I’ll let you know when I’m ready to text again. Thanks.”
Well, only for those who are on the same page. She wants to move in, he doesn’t. He has a roommate already, this is not about space or independence. Totally about commitment issues and responsibilities.
Thank you. I see it all the time in this sub. The term “groomer” is thrown around as much as “narcissist” and more often misused than not. I remember a post about a woman over thirsty and her husband who was 10 years or so older. They tried to claim he groomed her!? That's not what grooming is people! And it takes away the validity of victims of grooming.
Some people are just crap humans. This happens to women/men of all ages and without age gaps. People can change after life circumstances change. Unfortunately,it happens. And really,it's that people show exactly who they are and we should believe it.
I dont have a current bf. I dont mean to interrupt his holiday either, its just nice to talk about it an ask instead of avoiding the subject like he did. I am not mad at him for avoiding either, it his choice. It could be a cultural thing for sure because in my culture people usually go out on new years eve with their significant other.
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Another option – own it. My friend sent nudes to someone he thought was into him. Turned out to be catfishing and she threatened to send his nudes to everyone if he didn't pay her money. He told her go ahead and he just sent all his friends and family a message saying something along the lines of “heads up, I'm being threatened by someone who has nudes of me. If you receive anything please can you let me know and delete/block them?”. Nothing ever happened once she realised she wouldn't get any money out of him.
Why not do the same with your ex? Tell ALL your and his family and friends he has nudes of you he's refusing to delete and that you'd appreciate a heads up if he distributes them so you can go to the police. I'm sure more than a few will have words with him.
Just wait till you go through menopause babe
You aren’t being secretive, he is being controlling. This man is a jar full of marinara flags. You need to make a plan and get out, it will only get worse.
Your total mortgage payment is 475?!
New job or transfer
NTA
Not sure I got the story right, I still haven’t had my first coffee of the day. But you are not required to pay for your brother. Just be aware that you might lose every right of build there (including your apt)