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I’m so sorry, but the paragraph describing them as swines and how misogynistic they are before saying “now the dilemma” made me laugh.
People are the company they keep. The people you are close to are a reflection of parts of you. If he really didn’t like those men he wouldn’t be friends with them. If he didn’t like those men he wouldn’t want to go on a trip with them. Your boyfriend is one of them. Your boyfriend allows them to talk trash about you.
You don’t have to be a controlling girlfriend and say he can’t go. I don’t know why you want to be with this boy but fine. You can just be the girlfriend who is absolutely miserable and treated like shit instead.
Well I’ve met his friend and I’m marrying him in the next couple months. He’s always talked about how romantic it would be to go to a wedding together, and he’s invited me to one before where I never even met the people who were getting married. So just knowing that and the fact that he only recently brought it up feels strange. It’s not really the wedding that matters, it’s the fact he never even tried/thought to invite me.
Then do not get married. And the fact is no one is perfect. You can find someone who is perfect for YOU and checks all of your boxes, but that does not mean that there will not be times that there are not issues with that person that take work. Marriage is a commitment take requires each part of the couple be working on maintaining it 100% of the time. It is not for everyone, but how do you see raising a child without having a stable relationship?
I don't know, I never questioned his spending because it's not my money to make that decision. It crossed my mind if he would have any money left, but I didn't say anything.
Okay legit question. The answer is yes. Because i have a high paying stable job myself. And my Bf had never depended on me or me on him economically thus far. And if the situation arises, he can provide for me whole and I for him whole. The question here is not about money as he was making the same money as he would have if he had been permanent.. But thanks for your comment and question. Happy to answer further.
She's not mad that you don't remember what you had for breakfast. She's mad cause you can't remember or write down specific plans she has made. And that fact that you are downplaying it makes me understand why she is ready to leave you.
Throw both of them away and no longer speak to either of them. Sure they will hook up, but you aren’t losing out on anything. Guaranteed they would just do it behind your back at some point anyway.
Sasha’s rape scene is very limited and Negan kills the guy deader than dead. Then Sasha kills the zombie. As far as I remember the guy Negan calls rapey Dave rips her shirt and nothing is shown. That’s the only scene I can think of. Skip that episode or don’t watch the Walking Dead with him. I mean HE can watch it right? You just don’t want to. Also get some help for this. 2 older men back in college said stupid shit and you are this upset? Don’t be mad at your boyfriend about your triggers, just don’t watch tv or movies with adult rating.
You know how to srop cannabis hypermesis? By f*cking stopping cannabis! He obviously cannot across to buy it anyway so win win…. Stop enabling him and giving money. He's 30 and asking a 20 yo for money. He's a loser and will never change. Stop wasting your time on a 30 yo financially irresponsible child. You'll end up with more money that way too. There is a reason this guy is dating someone 10 years younger because no one his own age would fall for his bs
YOUR LIFE IS IN DANGER…… REPEAT – YOUR LIFE IS IN DANGER…. REPEAT…YOU NEED TO LISTEN…. YOUR LIFE IS IN DANGER….AND THE LIFE OF YOUR CHILD IS IN DANGER…….
Ohhhh no no no no no! Get your own bank account, take control of your own money ASAP. You do NOT want to be in this situation when he inevitably dumps you. (Sorry for being so blunt)
NONE of the way he treats you is your fault and there is NOTHING wrong with your body and ffs you’re only 30!!! He’s an asshole and he’s going to leave you for someone younger and you’ll discover when he does that he’s committed massive financial crimes against you.
Separate your money NOW. Pay your own credit card bills starting NOW.
That's awesome! I'm on meds for autoimmune disorders, so I have part of the same problem with meds weight gain. That and sometimes I genuinely just want to munch, and I can do sweets and chips with little issue, while protien and veggies make me too full after a bite or 2 or sick most of the time. Bleh. I may check into wegovy or ozempic. The autoimmune stuff makes exercise and issue, and pcos helps to keep the weight on, so that may be the next best step. The funny thing is that I was finally perfectly ok being overweight, I scheduled the surgery because I got so tired of being dismissed by doctors for legit issues just being blamed on my weight. Like my lupus and scleraderma aren't because I love cake dudes. But I got diagnosed 2 months before the surgery, and decided that it couldn't hurt to lose a bunch, and certainly the joint issues would be a little better. LOL, it was actually worse. BUT, I will absolutely keep trying to lose or atleast maintain, because some things did improve, and if it just gets Dr's to take a second look it's worth it.
It sounds like you need a bigger support system. If you had more people to depend on, you wouldn't depend on any of them as much. Compassion fatigue/burnout is real, no matter how much you love someone. I know that “make friends” is easier said than done, but men often don't prioritize/value platonic relationships and it leads to this issue.
I'll also say from experience that it can get very frustrating to be supportive of someone who continuously vents and does not help themselves or doesn't register/care if something in my life becomes more difficult. I don't know if that applies here, but I know that there was a period of her life when my sister was constantly falling out with people and even hearing her version of the story I knew that she was a much bigger part of the problem than she was willing to accept. It was really very hot to constantly be sympathetic, but bringing it up would just start a fight.
Given that your dad goes quiet and your mom gets angry, I suspect that you have in some way over-taxed their support capabilities. So seek out more support. Is therapy an option? Do you need medication for your anxiety? What are you doing to find more tribe? What are you doing for self care? You need to re-evaluate these things. I know that's also easier said than done, but it's also the only way out. I was at one point having regular panic aattacks and so depressed I could barely get out of bed in the mornings. I got medication, saw a counsellor weekly (free through my school), put conscious effort into doing self care and rewriting the old thought patterns that said I didn't deserve it, attended AlAnon meetings, forced myself to go to social events and introduce myself to people in class even though it was the last thing my socially anxious introverted self wanted to do, everything and anything I could think of, and slowly things improved. I found a tribe. I set boundaries with my abusive family. I got degrees and jobs and my life got better.
I’m so sorry, but the paragraph describing them as swines and how misogynistic they are before saying “now the dilemma” made me laugh.
People are the company they keep. The people you are close to are a reflection of parts of you. If he really didn’t like those men he wouldn’t be friends with them. If he didn’t like those men he wouldn’t want to go on a trip with them. Your boyfriend is one of them. Your boyfriend allows them to talk trash about you.
You don’t have to be a controlling girlfriend and say he can’t go. I don’t know why you want to be with this boy but fine. You can just be the girlfriend who is absolutely miserable and treated like shit instead.
Lol, I love that poly has become something you come out as, like it's some core part of your identity. Nah, people just want some strange.
Yeah I thought we were on r/narcissisticparents for a second
Well I’ve met his friend and I’m marrying him in the next couple months. He’s always talked about how romantic it would be to go to a wedding together, and he’s invited me to one before where I never even met the people who were getting married. So just knowing that and the fact that he only recently brought it up feels strange. It’s not really the wedding that matters, it’s the fact he never even tried/thought to invite me.
Then do not get married. And the fact is no one is perfect. You can find someone who is perfect for YOU and checks all of your boxes, but that does not mean that there will not be times that there are not issues with that person that take work. Marriage is a commitment take requires each part of the couple be working on maintaining it 100% of the time. It is not for everyone, but how do you see raising a child without having a stable relationship?
Should OP take the same position regarding his wife’s 13m from her previous marriage? “Not my kid, not my problem. You fund him.”
So she has a crush on you and wants you to ask her out. She thinks she's being cute and subtle.
I don't know, I never questioned his spending because it's not my money to make that decision. It crossed my mind if he would have any money left, but I didn't say anything.
He'd be much better off.
You do not owe her an apology for not letting her eat your dinner. Your gf is ridiculous.
Okay legit question. The answer is yes. Because i have a high paying stable job myself. And my Bf had never depended on me or me on him economically thus far. And if the situation arises, he can provide for me whole and I for him whole. The question here is not about money as he was making the same money as he would have if he had been permanent.. But thanks for your comment and question. Happy to answer further.
You're strawmanning.
She's not mad that you don't remember what you had for breakfast. She's mad cause you can't remember or write down specific plans she has made. And that fact that you are downplaying it makes me understand why she is ready to leave you.
Throw both of them away and no longer speak to either of them. Sure they will hook up, but you aren’t losing out on anything. Guaranteed they would just do it behind your back at some point anyway.
Break your lease and break up with him, he isn’t showing you any respect.
That same guy says “age ain’t nothin but a number” when he’s perving on teenagers.
Sasha’s rape scene is very limited and Negan kills the guy deader than dead. Then Sasha kills the zombie. As far as I remember the guy Negan calls rapey Dave rips her shirt and nothing is shown. That’s the only scene I can think of. Skip that episode or don’t watch the Walking Dead with him. I mean HE can watch it right? You just don’t want to. Also get some help for this. 2 older men back in college said stupid shit and you are this upset? Don’t be mad at your boyfriend about your triggers, just don’t watch tv or movies with adult rating.
44 & 23..
Da fuck ya’ll have in common?!?
Fuck no you shouldn’t fix it.. lmao..
You know how to srop cannabis hypermesis? By f*cking stopping cannabis! He obviously cannot across to buy it anyway so win win…. Stop enabling him and giving money. He's 30 and asking a 20 yo for money. He's a loser and will never change. Stop wasting your time on a 30 yo financially irresponsible child. You'll end up with more money that way too. There is a reason this guy is dating someone 10 years younger because no one his own age would fall for his bs
But do you take the silica packet from your new pair of shoes and hang onto it for your dried goods?
YOUR LIFE IS IN DANGER…… REPEAT – YOUR LIFE IS IN DANGER…. REPEAT…YOU NEED TO LISTEN…. YOUR LIFE IS IN DANGER….AND THE LIFE OF YOUR CHILD IS IN DANGER…….
Get his sperm count checked. This happens. There is some sort of regimine to keep checking for X amount of time after.
Ohhhh no no no no no! Get your own bank account, take control of your own money ASAP. You do NOT want to be in this situation when he inevitably dumps you. (Sorry for being so blunt)
NONE of the way he treats you is your fault and there is NOTHING wrong with your body and ffs you’re only 30!!! He’s an asshole and he’s going to leave you for someone younger and you’ll discover when he does that he’s committed massive financial crimes against you.
Separate your money NOW. Pay your own credit card bills starting NOW.
I honestly think it’s extremely strange to be like “Hey boyfriend can you put my name on your deed? that’s fucked up
I’ve tried to but she’s seeing red a bit right now. I feel as though it’s not impossible to salvage but I don’t know.
That's awesome! I'm on meds for autoimmune disorders, so I have part of the same problem with meds weight gain. That and sometimes I genuinely just want to munch, and I can do sweets and chips with little issue, while protien and veggies make me too full after a bite or 2 or sick most of the time. Bleh. I may check into wegovy or ozempic. The autoimmune stuff makes exercise and issue, and pcos helps to keep the weight on, so that may be the next best step. The funny thing is that I was finally perfectly ok being overweight, I scheduled the surgery because I got so tired of being dismissed by doctors for legit issues just being blamed on my weight. Like my lupus and scleraderma aren't because I love cake dudes. But I got diagnosed 2 months before the surgery, and decided that it couldn't hurt to lose a bunch, and certainly the joint issues would be a little better. LOL, it was actually worse. BUT, I will absolutely keep trying to lose or atleast maintain, because some things did improve, and if it just gets Dr's to take a second look it's worth it.
It sounds like you need a bigger support system. If you had more people to depend on, you wouldn't depend on any of them as much. Compassion fatigue/burnout is real, no matter how much you love someone. I know that “make friends” is easier said than done, but men often don't prioritize/value platonic relationships and it leads to this issue.
I'll also say from experience that it can get very frustrating to be supportive of someone who continuously vents and does not help themselves or doesn't register/care if something in my life becomes more difficult. I don't know if that applies here, but I know that there was a period of her life when my sister was constantly falling out with people and even hearing her version of the story I knew that she was a much bigger part of the problem than she was willing to accept. It was really very hot to constantly be sympathetic, but bringing it up would just start a fight.
Given that your dad goes quiet and your mom gets angry, I suspect that you have in some way over-taxed their support capabilities. So seek out more support. Is therapy an option? Do you need medication for your anxiety? What are you doing to find more tribe? What are you doing for self care? You need to re-evaluate these things. I know that's also easier said than done, but it's also the only way out. I was at one point having regular panic aattacks and so depressed I could barely get out of bed in the mornings. I got medication, saw a counsellor weekly (free through my school), put conscious effort into doing self care and rewriting the old thought patterns that said I didn't deserve it, attended AlAnon meetings, forced myself to go to social events and introduce myself to people in class even though it was the last thing my socially anxious introverted self wanted to do, everything and anything I could think of, and slowly things improved. I found a tribe. I set boundaries with my abusive family. I got degrees and jobs and my life got better.
Thank you, I’ll check it out
First of all,he is a moron because anal needs preparation.
You don’t just”maybe” one day.
If he doesn’t respect you in this then he doesn’t respect you in other things.
It’s time to have a talk and be more vigilante in his behavior,if you decide not to end it.
No ones mad here. This is just how my marriage works.
Seeing your partner should ease your anxiety not increase it. Maybe you are not meant for each other.