Why doesn't she want you there? Cuz that's what it seems. It sounds like she's trying to get away from you. If she wants a might away from home without “home life” then just say you want a little space. But then when you express your discomfort and she gets defensive? What did you say to her exactly? I don't under why she would get defensive over you innocently saying you're uncomfortable unless she's up to something?
Why doesn't she want you there? Cuz that's what it seems. It sounds like she's trying to get away from you. If she wants a might away from home without “home life” then just say you want a little space. But then when you express your discomfort and she gets defensive? What did you say to her exactly? I don't under why she would get defensive over you innocently saying you're uncomfortable unless she's up to something?