But you just said not trusting your partner and wanting to be sure they not chest Is okay. So if man like the man here can hire someone to find out if his wife cheatet, so should woman. I think you have a great idea. And we need way more private investigators to have all the man followed just to make sure.
Man have it easy, they just need a paternity test, but woman dont have that security. So PI all the way.
You are great,and you have great ideas.
I would have never throught disstrusting your partner, accusing him/her of cheating and lying was okay, but you opened my eyes.
Why are you even with someone who doesn't respect you enough to think you deserve a say in what goes in your vagina? If he genuinely refuses to have sex with a condom if you're on the pill, guess he doesn't get sex. Honestly, this would be divorce worthy for me.
I can understand that you feel mad. Even if you two weren't exclusive, she has been lying.
Doesn't matter if you didn't specifically ask her about it, she would only say the same. You weren't exclusive.
People have different views about relationships and she felt like she could do this and did it. It was in her right, but it's not fair to make excuses in order to make it seem right either.
If you feel like the trust is broken, you have 2 options. 1. You leave the situation and try not to get bitter about it so the next one coming doesn't have to carry her burden. 2. If you want to stay in the relationship you allow her to build up the trust and not have those hovering over her head.
Either way, this is about what you can handle moving forward
Because even if you are not being treated well at work, which according to OP she doesn’t think was the case, you wait until you have a new job before you quit. They don’t have kids, but Op is in school and working part time and they can’t on-line on just her salary. So yes they will be going without. If the job was truly so terrible I could see maybe quitting on the spot with no notice once you have a new job. Not jumping on a table and screaming at people while throwing expensive equipment around. His coworkers were probably terrified and wondering if he was gonna pull a gun out or something. Yeah there’s other companies out there but you bet your ass word is gonna spread about this and he will be lucky to ever get hired in his field again.
How do I protect myself from this in the future. It has disturbed me thoroughly.
well, its pretty simple. When you break up with someone you block and move on..that way you don't have to deal with the drama/problem any more. problem solved, you are welcome.
we could be friends as long as he could add value in some sort of way, whether that was time or assistance, financial or otherwise. He agreed.
wow..just wow..he can be your friend if you pays for you? wow..just, wow..
This whole sub better get an invite to the wedding.
There is a reason he is not with a woman his own age. They won't put up with that shit.
Unfortunately, the only way to know the answer to the question of whether or not it’s a good idea, is just to try it.
It's a wonder he didn't pop back in after the initial shock, to take some incriminating photos! ?
But you just said not trusting your partner and wanting to be sure they not chest Is okay. So if man like the man here can hire someone to find out if his wife cheatet, so should woman. I think you have a great idea. And we need way more private investigators to have all the man followed just to make sure.
Man have it easy, they just need a paternity test, but woman dont have that security. So PI all the way.
You are great,and you have great ideas.
I would have never throught disstrusting your partner, accusing him/her of cheating and lying was okay, but you opened my eyes.
Thank you
Why are you even with someone who doesn't respect you enough to think you deserve a say in what goes in your vagina? If he genuinely refuses to have sex with a condom if you're on the pill, guess he doesn't get sex. Honestly, this would be divorce worthy for me.
I can understand that you feel mad. Even if you two weren't exclusive, she has been lying.
Doesn't matter if you didn't specifically ask her about it, she would only say the same. You weren't exclusive.
People have different views about relationships and she felt like she could do this and did it. It was in her right, but it's not fair to make excuses in order to make it seem right either.
If you feel like the trust is broken, you have 2 options. 1. You leave the situation and try not to get bitter about it so the next one coming doesn't have to carry her burden. 2. If you want to stay in the relationship you allow her to build up the trust and not have those hovering over her head.
Either way, this is about what you can handle moving forward
Because even if you are not being treated well at work, which according to OP she doesn’t think was the case, you wait until you have a new job before you quit. They don’t have kids, but Op is in school and working part time and they can’t on-line on just her salary. So yes they will be going without. If the job was truly so terrible I could see maybe quitting on the spot with no notice once you have a new job. Not jumping on a table and screaming at people while throwing expensive equipment around. His coworkers were probably terrified and wondering if he was gonna pull a gun out or something. Yeah there’s other companies out there but you bet your ass word is gonna spread about this and he will be lucky to ever get hired in his field again.
Enjoy it.
I know you may find it nude to believe, but he may like you back
How do I protect myself from this in the future. It has disturbed me thoroughly.
well, its pretty simple. When you break up with someone you block and move on..that way you don't have to deal with the drama/problem any more. problem solved, you are welcome.
we could be friends as long as he could add value in some sort of way, whether that was time or assistance, financial or otherwise. He agreed.
wow..just wow..he can be your friend if you pays for you? wow..just, wow..
Because she IS