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Go sleep on the couch, call an Uber, call a friend… anything but sleep in the same bed as another dude and spoon all night.
Sorry I could not remain in a relationship with a so-called man who paid for the services of what is most likely a trafficked woman. Deplorable. I can forgive cheating. I cannot forgive rape.
That's gotta be one of the words TLDRs I've ever seen.
You're a cheater. That's that. Your fiancee deserves to know and you don't deserve him.
no. it has almost never happened. it truly was a big coincidence
Boyfriend failed the is he batshit insane test. Leave
I think I’ll tell him it’s hurting us more to abstain than it would hurt his belief to have sex.
I don't think you can determine this for him.
I think what might be absent in your/other commenters understanding is recognizing his relationship with God. Emphasis on relationship. Catholicism/Christianity isn't just a casual set of beliefs. It is an intimate, ongoing relationship with the Sovereign Lord.
We speak to Him, He speaks to us. It sounds like your fiance feels a conviction from the Lord about his prior lack of abstinence. In that way, abstaining has less to do with you or your relationship, and more to do with his faithfulness to God.
it’s hurting us more to abstain than it would hurt his belief to have sex.
To him will likely sound like “You owe more fidelity to me than to the Lord.” I'm not sure that he would be open to this in the way you want him to be.
I would be totally thrown by that. I think her reaction is fair. Having someone call you mommy is one thing, but also relating that to her breasts just feels like a whole situation that would need a lot of consideration. OP knows it was an accident (though his subconscious may think otherwise) but hearing that as a partner is a big HOLD UP.
I'd apologize for laughing and ask him if he would be willing to talk. Send a card, chocolates or something…
Then, ask him what about being a furry is so deep and important to him. What part of it seems so central that he needs to come out to you about it? I would not explain what you think of being gay vs being furry. Let it go. Ask him what is going on for him. Clearly he thought this was a huge thing to reveal. Why? Reassure him you are friends and you are not judging.
To answer your question: a lack of empathy that should make you very wary.
I got halfway through this to just realize you're a cunt, implying you empathize but then don't understand, honey that's just called patronizing.
of course my issues take a long time to come to peace with but just because past, unaddressed traumas are catching up to me (sudden loss of a parent) and self isolation from working remote is hurting me. I don’t think that means I’m incapable of maintaining a healthy relationship. However I do agree that I should focus on myself and work first. I appreciate the insight.
OP, you need to go to that wedding as a single man, and celebrate the end of your abusive relationship with the people who actually care for you. It’s nude to leave someone like that and you seem like such a nice person who will give anyone another chance and question yourself.
She’s not going to change, she’s going to get worse, and the more you stay with her the more attached you will be and more isolated.
Breaking up will be a huge relief, trust me. You’ll start realising things in retrospect. All the big ‘problems’ in your life will magically melt away. Your life WILL get better as a result. And you’ll have your friends who love and support you by your side. I’m so excited for you and the wonderful relationships this breakup will open up for you ❤️
RED FLAGS: Red flags are behaviors that give you serious pause (or should give you serious pause)—and that could sometimes indicate a larger pattern.
Your bf is controlling and have serious trust issues. It will only get worst if he don't get help. If he don't you need re-evaluate this relationship. Now Doug being married doesn't mean he won't have sex with you, but your said plain and clear it's not about Doug, it's you that he has a problem with. So pay attention to that RED FLAG.
Oh God I didn’t know that thing had a name, looks like we’ve been doing triangulation for years now. And I need it to stop. That’s why we just need him to leave.
In your place, if you really don't want to break up with her, I'd keep my journals in a lockbox. Or I'd never feel safe putting a single private thought to paper ever again. You are a lot more understanding about her violation of your trust than I would be, she's lucky to have you.
You don’t need to be on a break. You need to break up. You’re in your 30s. This sort of behavior is the kind you’d hear from younger people. Your boyfriend of 8 years is pushing 40 and behaving like a child. For your own physical and mental well being, let this asshole go. Nothing here is worth salvaging.
Talk about these things before getting married. ?
I swear I'm divorcing anyone who drops some “kink” on me post marriage that wasn't discussed before.
No, being married does not mean your partner needs to be open to your magically-appearing-post-marriage kinks.
That shit is covert contracting if I ever did see it.
Everybody got a kink. But they don't want to be upfront and risk not having anyone want to date them.
If I was your wife Id be turned the fuck off.
Too many variables. I think you need to go and read the situation.
I have nothing to prove to him
You go girl!
Is she testing me to see how I'll react or is just playing nude to get?
Forget about the snap stuff and adding on PS5 (4?) You meet in the real world regularly enough so just go from there. You like her, she might like you. No need for games or theories or wonderings.
If you think she might like you too, just ask.
You should go to therapy.
At the least you can figure out the source of your problems.
At the most, you can fix them.
This isn't a boundary, it's your bf telling you he is now your boss who dictates what you may and may not do.
Do not allow him to mis-use language to mask what he is doing.
The solution here is for you to say, “No. I am an adult who can make safe and reasonable choices for myself. You are never permitted to make arbitrary restrictions on what I can and cannot do. I will not remodel myself into the person you wish I was. Of course, you can choose to end our relationship over this, but I hope you will see that it is ridiculous for you to expect me to obey you.*
Then you should call your friends and make arrangements to go out and have a fun evening.
Don't let this pass. You need to give him a loud-and-clear, hard-and-fast NO to his insane idea that you are subject to his rules.
Do NOT let him call this a “boundary” again.
Older men will target younger women because women their own age know better than to put up with their shit. That’s pretty abhorrent behavior, I’d take it as a lesson for your next relationship.
When two people are at two different stages in life, a relationship may not work out long term. In worst cases there could be a power imbalance or control factor, and it may not be easy to figure out soon. Introspect about power imbalance in the relationship, check if you are really 'casual' etc.
Are you a girl?
So stop smoking PERMANENTLY. Brush your teeth, use mouthwash, & wash your clothes.
Do not teach your children this. It is vile and disgusting.
What exactly are you expecting, and what does “in a bubble” mean exactly?
Unless there's a big difference between British English (what you're speaking) and American English (what I speak), you sound almost Schizophrenic to me.
” I've spoken about the impact she had on my life and I would not have survived the experiences without her. Someone connected that to her name (3 years later).”
To whom did you speak about this? And what's the connection to her name?
“I find her on Twitter. She has a child now, she is in a relationship (almost 3 years) with someone she works with.”
So, let's see if I understand this. You haven't contacted her in THREE YEARS, and within that three years she has a new relationship, and YOU think you should buy her a house and move in with her? What… the… hell!
That was a terrible idea and this relationship might be over
This guy trips on power. I’d probably laugh at him each time he tried to pull that shit on me.
-“How do you know it nice to meet me”
-“Oh you must be the insecure, asshole type dad. This is gonna be fun”
-“ever held a coffee cup before?!”
-“nope I don’t know how to drink either”
*proceeds to lap the coffee like a cat
I’d break up with the gf anyway, because I wouldn’t be able to stand a girl who cannot stand up for herself, have her own bank account, add acknowledge bad behavior.
I wouldn't think much about it .. I would just be like “I don't really care for your friends” and leave it at that
Now … When you let her go with her friends and it seems like they are heavy drinkers.. they're gonna be in her head … She brushed it off but ….. It's gonna stick at some point…
You're gonna have to ask yourself…..Are you ready/are you an alpha… Because you're gonna have at some point put your foot down…. And when you do you'll be “controlling” in reality you're just looking out for her and y'all's relationship…
So her, a 49 year old woman is listening to her parents and doing what they tell her? Sorry but I cannot comprehend why you’d want to be with a middle aged woman that does what mummy and daddy say ?.
And I hate to be the one to tell you but the sex ban, that’s her blackmailing you into getting a job. She is literally saying “no marriage until you get a job and no sex until we are married”. Translation: o sex until my parents tell me I should.
Why are you wasting your life on this manipulative family?
What’s good for the goose is good for the gander
Well the fact of the matter is your friend thinks you betrayed her and can't trust you. No matter how you might want to “explain”, you pursued her ex and she ended up finding out from someone else. That tells her you tried to hide it. It's a harsh lesson, but I guess it's better to learn it now rather than later.
Haha i see! What happened to your blind date?
Block her number and consider changing yours just to be safe.
I don’t understand what you are so worried about unless you plan on cheating on him. He obviously needs some therapy to work his shot out but it’s pretty reasonable to hate cheating after you e been cheated on.
Correct my mistake. Although I doubt that janitor is on salary, but could be
If the dude has a public account, he can't get mad that someone looked at his public account. It's not like you were snooping if it's public.
You can't control what this man posts, he is free to post what he wants, but you can choose not to date a man who does that.
My sister is 33 with 3 kids but she could pass for a teenager. She looks like she's holding her younger siblings when she's out with her kids. Her husband is the same age and looks it. No one gives a fuck and no one says anything.
If she wants to act single then let her go be single. She’s disregarding your boundaries which means she doesn’t care about them. If she doesn’t care about the things that upset you, do you really think she cares that much about you? I would be very surprised if she hasn’t already cheated on you you just haven’t found the proof yet. This is not how relationships work. You should really move on before you find yourself hurting even more than what you are right now.
He's definitely NOT a prize but you were just someone he slept with which you seem so proud that he constantly shagged you. Since he's not a prize, what does that make you for dealing with such a loser for so long?
Found OPs alt account
Need more info. Teens can often go through a phase where they want nothing to do with their parent. Parents can also make mistakes like trying to control everything in their teens lives.
Asking multiple times is putting pressure on you. This guy doesn't care about you.
I have told her that. That's the whole point of this post, because that didn't really help at all.
It probably less about marriage and more about a lifetime commitment. I can understand wanting to be in a better spot financially before getting married but what about a proposal with the understanding that marriage is a few years out?
While not old she’s not young either and she wants to know if thetr is a future with you, family, kids etc.
well done OP – digital hugs
I would say go no contact with him but it sounds like you are afraid he will hurt you if you do. Is he dangerous or just someone who shouts and yells?
I mean, thanks, I'll give it a read.
But I don't know that my boundaries have anything to do with the fact that you kept replying to me, despite me stating I ended the conversation, and then I came back to it because you decided to misconstrue what I said. I'm not a fan of that, and in the hope that no one else somehow get confused and think I actually agree with what you're saying, I continued to reply.
Or maybe I was just drawn to your winning personality. Yeah, I think that makes more sense.
I doubt people can learn empathy. Maybe if they experience something.
Unfortunately you got put behind the 8-ball by opening up to him after marriage instead of before.
LMAO – what a statement! but I do agree to it – you wanna marry that toad?
My bf goes by two names too. His family calls him by his middle name and the first time I went to his parent’s house I was so confused because he didn’t explain it to me. I asked him on our way home if he wanted me to call him by his middle name and he said no. 6 years later and his mom and family still roll their eyes when I call him by his first name… I tried telling them that he doesn’t want me to call him his middle but they still act weird when I do. Like they think I’m disrespectful for it or something
I thought your “important info” that you withheld was cheating, lying about massive debt, or hiding a drug addiction. He's pissed about your books? Your boyfriend sucks and is a snob.
I had a Facebook account but never used it. She would actually take my phone and post messages for herself under my account.
My solution to this and these same demands was to finally just delete it altogether.
Yeah, this is huge.
If it's a matter of a couple of months? It's totally normal this didn't come up.
A couple of years? Now that's a problem.
She didn’t though, she withdrew the offer.
I see another Reddit post coming soon about how this ended up badly.
I'm sorry if it hurts, I really don't mean it to, although sometimes the truth is a bitter freakin pill man.
I said what I said out of empathy and love, I let a girl like that stomp all over me for two years, I know your pain. : /
You really do deserve better.
I think you should post this on the vegan sub you’ll get a lot of different feedback. I think vegans when they start kinda go through a guilt phase and then they strongly dislike anything none vegan, it can be overwhelming.
As someone old enough to be your mum, who has mostly had male best friends my entire life, and whose current best friend is a married guy: that gift was super inappropriate, and it's a big problem that your boyfriend won't acknowledge it.
The only way for friendships like his to work is honesty and forthrightness. My bestie's wife is comfortable with him having a single, female best friend because we're all really honest, about feelings, about the friendship. We communicate. She is my friend as well, even if we're not as close. And if she is uncomfortable about something, I take it seriously, because she is his partner.
Your BF's friend gave him a gift that made you understandably uncomfortable, because it was a really intimate, explicit gift, and when you expressed that, what you got back was to have your feelings dismissed as his romantic partner. Not okay. She shouldn't have given him such an intimate gift in the first place – certainly not without talking to you about it first and making sure it wouldn't upset you (honestly, it might have been a GREAT gift if she'd have DM'ed you privately and said, “Hey, I want to give him this birthday present FOR THE TWO OF YOU, would that be cool?”), and given that she did and that it was upsetting to you, they both owe you an apology – her for crossing lines, and him for dismissing you.
You didn’t do everything you could. At all. You could have gotten protection yourself. You could have said no. I’ve never been so horny I couldn’t stop, that’s a lie romance novels tell you. You made a choice and now you have consequences.
You are lying to yourself if you think this guy is going to stay in a relationship with you if you have the kid. At best, you’ll split custody.
Tell your wife no matter what job you have, your job will never be loyal to you. This is how you are looking out for your family – showing that family comes first by ensuring your financial security.
My dad told my mom that he had sex with the girlfriend and that she should try to be more like her in bed. I wish I was joking
You’re panicking and spiraling. In two years you’re gonna look back and see how ridiculous it is to think you’re going to die alone because you’re 25 and single. 25 is still VERY young. You’re going to be fine, it’s just going to suck for a little while because you’re going through a breakup. That doomsday feeling is normal and understandable, but it’s not based in reality.
She hid a disease from you, which you then have the possibility of passing on to someone else if things don't work out between the two of you. The fact that she didn't disclose this before you two were intimate for the first time is alarming and sounds very much like the guy who purposely had unprotected sex with people and he knew he was HIV+.
To me that comment makes me think he is very boring/reserved, or just not interesting.
Putting the butter in a bowl is dishwasher behavior.
He gives her something OP doesn't, deep conversations. They should break up because their personalities don't mesh. She was willing to put herself in a dangerous situation because she thought she met someone who got her.
Thank you for the absolutely braindead take
Got it. You’ve been dating 9 months and you’re excited about him. I get it! You may be building a partnership or you may be learning relationship skills you’ll take into your next partnership.
I’d personally give it ~6 more months max. This is not a compromise you can make. Either he decides he’s willing to have kids, or you need a different partner. Men are often more ambivalent about kids than women are, so he may change his mind. You can’t count on that though and you don’t want to get 3 years down the road and have this same problem.
Start making some of your own plan for kids (taking care of your health, drinking less, making financial plans, freezing your eggs, looking at career plans that allow for kids, etc.)
Talk to him occasionally about how he was raised and how you see traits in him that he’s clearly capable of doing better than his parents did. (Only if that’s true! Look for signs you’d actually want to parent with this person!).
He may be moved by seeing your goals and efforts take shape, and start imagining a different life for himself than he thought was possible. Or he may become more clear that this isn’t what he wants.
Great, it’s better to find that out now. No need to pressure him, but take action on your own goals and give then him the choice to opt in after a while. If it doesn’t, that’s your answer. Best of luck OP
Listen to your gut. Is it resentful because of his past abusive behavior? Is it fed up because the fact that he has changed shows that he could have changed any time, but instead was happy to abuse you until there were consequences? Is it suspicious because all that crying is manipulative ? There are probably 1000 people in your immediate vicinity who are more compatible then this abuser.
This isn’t being contrarian, it’s describing nuance when many people jump to conclusions based on little information.
It seems like the time not taking til Monday affected him more than he let on,
Understand that you apologized – just observing his response seems more in alignment with being unhappy over that, trying to move on from it, then realizing that he can’t when he was in a similar situation where he had to wait a while for a reply/connection with you soon after (acknowledging that you were working; just moreover acknowledging it may also be the case that it’s not really about you being at work. I think the way he dealt with it was immature but I see why he’s upset. Silent treatment hurts some people more than others)