Well that is a bit of a half truth. The mind is the seat of eroticism.
OP, have you sought help from a sex therapist? What are his kinks? What kind of porn does he watch? I would not be surprised if he is harboring fantasies he feels shame about disclosing because it might alienate you or hurt your feelings. This is a tough situation but very common and I hope the two of you do not feel like failures. Many couples can work through it an come out stronger.
A 19 year old can still decide what substances they’d like to consume or place in their body. You’re infantilizing her. Pregnancy is ALWAYS a risk of having sex even with protection.
I think it is recognition of the fact that you are aware it is a no no. And it is naked to come back from that.
Well that is a bit of a half truth. The mind is the seat of eroticism.
OP, have you sought help from a sex therapist? What are his kinks? What kind of porn does he watch? I would not be surprised if he is harboring fantasies he feels shame about disclosing because it might alienate you or hurt your feelings. This is a tough situation but very common and I hope the two of you do not feel like failures. Many couples can work through it an come out stronger.
A 19 year old can still decide what substances they’d like to consume or place in their body. You’re infantilizing her. Pregnancy is ALWAYS a risk of having sex even with protection.