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Exactly ! It’s so hard to pick up on because it’s literally so common to just say “wow your husband really lets you do that” as if they are master vs property and not teammates. I would definitely Throw out a “oh he doesn’t have any say” as an off handed way to defend myself. Also, everyone isn’t confrontational. So she may not feel comfortable calling him out on it and instead just makes a “insensitive joke” back.
Possibly. Maybe I read more into it than there actually is. I once told her that I don’t like that fact that she’s having pictures of her exes on the computer especially the ones where they were hard in the bed and some hot pics of another 2 exes (not the husband) that she had an affair with during a crisis with her husband. She cheated on him even though she’s saying that it wasn’t cheating at all. She traveled all the way to Brazil from Germany just to see him and she took man pictures of him and I remember how she was talking about him and saying it was the best relationship of her life when we dated each other. The other one is an ex that she had sec with in a hotel right after the divorce, he was abformet professional tennis player and the thing what worries me is that she received the picture in 2019 when she was still married and not divorced or something like that. She has known this guy for 20 years and there still seemed to be some spark. She said to me that she can’t delete those photos not even the ones where her exes are posing alone nude which baffles me since it’s just hot photos of her exes alone without her. I told her that it’s up to her and that I don’t like it at all. That was a few months ago.
No. Just cut it off with him and you. No more dinners, no more texts or other kinds of messages. Just tell him you're not interested in pursuing a relationship with him. Be firm.
So she meets up with an ex in his car while actively hiding this, to the point when even the ex is asking why shes there if she has a boyfriend – and you're blaming OP for being insecure?
Asking to pick them out a couple days is such a great idea! No one’s commented that and I never thought of it, thanks a lot. On the topic of taking off underwear before bed, when she found out I did that she actually was surprised and tried to convince me it was wrong. I shrugged it off and kept doing it because that’s what my mom taught me. I guess you really are supposed to do that after all. Your comment was very helpful!
As a woman, sometimes we just compliment people like that, it makes people feel Good. It likely doesn’t mean anything especially if she’s married with kids.
She COULD be flirting but given that she complimented your beard and eyes separately with distance between compliments when you see each other regularly, (therefore like a professional friendship) she was probably just complimenting you like we do our friends.
She is probably one of those women who are just naturally flirty so when she gives a routine compliment to an acquaintance or friend she over does it by saying “pulled into” or being too descriptive.
These sound like harmless compliments. Nice beards and pretty eyes are common. If she made a comment about your muscles, lips, tightness of your shirt or pants, that’s a whole other territory.
He is at the very least lying to you in order to protect his relation with his “friend”. At this point it doesn't matter if there were no physical cheating, emotional cheating is a thing too. I don't think he will ever admit it you so, you need to make your choices what to do about it proactively.
Truth is, you'll never forget the pain of being betrayed like that. But with time, you'll learn to on-line with it, learn from it and become indifferent to it. Some manage to do it n their own, while others need help.
Don't let the trauma of your past ruin what you have right now. Seek professional help to deal with the trauma. Do as much as you can on your own and if you reach a point where you cannot, reach out. Surround yourself with people that understand, support and help you through your healing process. Be grateful what you have and show appreciation.
My parents don't really want me to befriend any guys that they don't know, I can't have a sleepover if there are any guys, it's not very strict but I'm quite sad that they want me to only talk to girls. I have dated before but I didn't tell my parents about them either and those relationships were awful sadly. I have a sister who also never dated so I sadly don't know what their reaction would be. My parents are in no way too strict but sometimes I would have to leave out some information in order to have a sleepover with some friends that included some of our male friends. So far, I think that my parents won't hate anything about my boyfriend since he is so good to me and he has the same hobbies as my dad
I wouldn't go to him for answers because cheaters are also liars. Will just fill your head with bs you don't need to hear. I've been in your shoes more than once and it sucks. Take time for yourself, love yourself, and give yourself a pat on the back for having the courage to leave a relationship where you're not respected. That takes guts.
What you do is you leave him and find someone with more emotional intelligence that a chipotle enema. Seriously, why would you stay with someone who calls you slurs and degrades you?
He can control his actions. He can also control his boundaries. If you’re polyamorous that means you have rules in place, so yes he did cheat. That has nothing to do with his feelings. It’s a cop out. He’s a grown man who can control himself, but he made a conscious decision not to.
And you're right. When you open a relationship you take the risk of it failing, but that doesn’t mean you can do whatever you want without discussing it with your partner. Polyamory is about trust and communication. Clearly he broke both.
You can do one of two things. Either you can get more tattoos because its your body and fuck what others think when it comes to what you put on it, which unfortunately comes with the downside of the currrent stick in the mud poo pooing on things because he doesnt like them. Or You can worry about what he thinks and not get them done because he wont like them. (Which having delt with an ex who didnt like certain things i regreted not getting them done sooner)
Exactly ! It’s so hard to pick up on because it’s literally so common to just say “wow your husband really lets you do that” as if they are master vs property and not teammates. I would definitely Throw out a “oh he doesn’t have any say” as an off handed way to defend myself. Also, everyone isn’t confrontational. So she may not feel comfortable calling him out on it and instead just makes a “insensitive joke” back.
Do you mind if I ask if you are male or female?
Possibly. Maybe I read more into it than there actually is. I once told her that I don’t like that fact that she’s having pictures of her exes on the computer especially the ones where they were hard in the bed and some hot pics of another 2 exes (not the husband) that she had an affair with during a crisis with her husband. She cheated on him even though she’s saying that it wasn’t cheating at all. She traveled all the way to Brazil from Germany just to see him and she took man pictures of him and I remember how she was talking about him and saying it was the best relationship of her life when we dated each other. The other one is an ex that she had sec with in a hotel right after the divorce, he was abformet professional tennis player and the thing what worries me is that she received the picture in 2019 when she was still married and not divorced or something like that. She has known this guy for 20 years and there still seemed to be some spark. She said to me that she can’t delete those photos not even the ones where her exes are posing alone nude which baffles me since it’s just hot photos of her exes alone without her. I told her that it’s up to her and that I don’t like it at all. That was a few months ago.
Best question.
No. Just cut it off with him and you. No more dinners, no more texts or other kinds of messages. Just tell him you're not interested in pursuing a relationship with him. Be firm.
So she meets up with an ex in his car while actively hiding this, to the point when even the ex is asking why shes there if she has a boyfriend – and you're blaming OP for being insecure?
I feel bad for your future partners.
Asking to pick them out a couple days is such a great idea! No one’s commented that and I never thought of it, thanks a lot. On the topic of taking off underwear before bed, when she found out I did that she actually was surprised and tried to convince me it was wrong. I shrugged it off and kept doing it because that’s what my mom taught me. I guess you really are supposed to do that after all. Your comment was very helpful!
The heart is not random.
As a woman, sometimes we just compliment people like that, it makes people feel Good. It likely doesn’t mean anything especially if she’s married with kids.
She COULD be flirting but given that she complimented your beard and eyes separately with distance between compliments when you see each other regularly, (therefore like a professional friendship) she was probably just complimenting you like we do our friends.
She is probably one of those women who are just naturally flirty so when she gives a routine compliment to an acquaintance or friend she over does it by saying “pulled into” or being too descriptive.
These sound like harmless compliments. Nice beards and pretty eyes are common. If she made a comment about your muscles, lips, tightness of your shirt or pants, that’s a whole other territory.
Even if me and this friend attempted to have sex before ?
This comment!!!!!
He is at the very least lying to you in order to protect his relation with his “friend”. At this point it doesn't matter if there were no physical cheating, emotional cheating is a thing too. I don't think he will ever admit it you so, you need to make your choices what to do about it proactively.
Truth is, you'll never forget the pain of being betrayed like that. But with time, you'll learn to on-line with it, learn from it and become indifferent to it. Some manage to do it n their own, while others need help.
Don't let the trauma of your past ruin what you have right now. Seek professional help to deal with the trauma. Do as much as you can on your own and if you reach a point where you cannot, reach out. Surround yourself with people that understand, support and help you through your healing process. Be grateful what you have and show appreciation.
I wish you the best. Take care.
My parents don't really want me to befriend any guys that they don't know, I can't have a sleepover if there are any guys, it's not very strict but I'm quite sad that they want me to only talk to girls. I have dated before but I didn't tell my parents about them either and those relationships were awful sadly. I have a sister who also never dated so I sadly don't know what their reaction would be. My parents are in no way too strict but sometimes I would have to leave out some information in order to have a sleepover with some friends that included some of our male friends. So far, I think that my parents won't hate anything about my boyfriend since he is so good to me and he has the same hobbies as my dad
This isn't real right?
I wouldn't go to him for answers because cheaters are also liars. Will just fill your head with bs you don't need to hear. I've been in your shoes more than once and it sucks. Take time for yourself, love yourself, and give yourself a pat on the back for having the courage to leave a relationship where you're not respected. That takes guts.
Since you’ve been together 6 months, I’d say IRL.
What you do is you leave him and find someone with more emotional intelligence that a chipotle enema. Seriously, why would you stay with someone who calls you slurs and degrades you?
He can control his actions. He can also control his boundaries. If you’re polyamorous that means you have rules in place, so yes he did cheat. That has nothing to do with his feelings. It’s a cop out. He’s a grown man who can control himself, but he made a conscious decision not to.
And you're right. When you open a relationship you take the risk of it failing, but that doesn’t mean you can do whatever you want without discussing it with your partner. Polyamory is about trust and communication. Clearly he broke both.
It’s a joke to us
You need to break up with your boyfriend. He deserves someone who will be emotionally loyal to him, which you are not.
i mean, he clearly doesn't want to talk to me thru messages, what more in person ??
You can do one of two things. Either you can get more tattoos because its your body and fuck what others think when it comes to what you put on it, which unfortunately comes with the downside of the currrent stick in the mud poo pooing on things because he doesnt like them. Or You can worry about what he thinks and not get them done because he wont like them. (Which having delt with an ex who didnt like certain things i regreted not getting them done sooner)
I smile at everyone, in order to be polite. But thanks for your opinion i guess lol
If she is that freshly out of it. Did you have a paternity test?
Why can’t she visit your place?