I’d just make sure she knows you won’t stick around next time. Firm boundary from here on out. And tell her you’re always there for support if someone is pressuring her for anything.
He cheated in some form. More than the cheating your husband's reasons seem more concerning. You are in poor health so he starts seeking outside support??? That's concerning.
Yeah. But when you’ve been with someone for years and they promised you marriage, then suddenly say “idc, no reason but idc” about that, it’s not honest and if they have respect for their partner, they should communicate that reason.
Ultimately it is up to OP to see if just him not willing to talk is a deal breaker. But it’s shitty of him to give false promises and then say nevermind and not explain himself.
You trauma dumped 6 your partner and left for 5 months. I don't understand why you're upset about her indifference. You left her alone to process your trauma and hers for 5 months alone. You may say that she was your partner during that time, but you were not a partner to her. I'm surprised she was still there when you returned.
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The worst part is I receive no emotional support at all on my tough days, I always feel really alone. I've been working on this though
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dont date community dick unless you want to share him or catch an std. what you should do is have standards and learn when to dip when people tell you they'll fuck any friend of theirs.
Well guess who was right you bunch of morons! I did catch her cheating so to all of you who came dwn on me for having my doubts well now u can go down on me!
When going to university I have never been in a frat or had any idea what happens in them because most people I associated with never joined either. After reading this post I feel very good I was never involved with any of this drama. It sounds like a plot of some bad high school movie.
100% this.
I’d just make sure she knows you won’t stick around next time. Firm boundary from here on out. And tell her you’re always there for support if someone is pressuring her for anything.
He cheated in some form. More than the cheating your husband's reasons seem more concerning. You are in poor health so he starts seeking outside support??? That's concerning.
Yeah. But when you’ve been with someone for years and they promised you marriage, then suddenly say “idc, no reason but idc” about that, it’s not honest and if they have respect for their partner, they should communicate that reason.
Ultimately it is up to OP to see if just him not willing to talk is a deal breaker. But it’s shitty of him to give false promises and then say nevermind and not explain himself.
You trauma dumped 6 your partner and left for 5 months. I don't understand why you're upset about her indifference. You left her alone to process your trauma and hers for 5 months alone. You may say that she was your partner during that time, but you were not a partner to her. I'm surprised she was still there when you returned.
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My ex did this and he was cheating on me the entire time – be smart king. That behavior is very sus.
The worst part is I receive no emotional support at all on my tough days, I always feel really alone. I've been working on this though
I just wanted to say this train of thought was jarring to me as an outsider. I hope you can see why. This is called blaming the victim, which in this case is yourself. Please do think about this and what it reveals about your ingrained thought processes.
dont date community dick unless you want to share him or catch an std. what you should do is have standards and learn when to dip when people tell you they'll fuck any friend of theirs.
Well guess who was right you bunch of morons! I did catch her cheating so to all of you who came dwn on me for having my doubts well now u can go down on me!
Sunk costs dude don't fall for it just because you've already put in X amount of whatever
It also sounds like he doesn’t genuinely care for the person he’s married to, lol? This is wild…
Has your partner always been like this, or is this a more recent development?
Get yourself and the child out of there. Stay sober.
Just text him amd ask if he wants to be in a relationship.
When going to university I have never been in a frat or had any idea what happens in them because most people I associated with never joined either. After reading this post I feel very good I was never involved with any of this drama. It sounds like a plot of some bad high school movie.