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If you want to be in this relationship you have to stop. Stop asking questions, the answers don't change anything anyway. Stop giving attention to her past.
If you can't do that, move on. Those are your options.
Six months later: “What is this rash?”
I commented on your original post.
Yeah, no. This is pretty convenient way for your brother to groom your son, under the guise of a “political scandal” that they must debate and discuss. The reality is: he sent your son porn. Again, there is no reason for a 45 year old man to send a 14 year old boy porn.
Get a restraining order and never let your brother have contact with your family again.
I think she’s probably not that into you. Yea, people can be busy, but nobody’s taking 24+ hours to check their phone. Also stop with the texting games… yea don’t text her back instantly but waiting 24 hours is just dumb. Maybe she’s just as confused as you are?
Just ask her if she’s interested in taking things any further. That’s the best way to know. Preferably ask in person
He's the sweetest guy in this entire world. He's not snobby about his background.
We understand each other so well, except when it comes to this.
or she just decided she didn't want to go on a date with a dude who's clinging to a commitment she made when drunk and horny. that's a red flag to a lot of people
it's like saying “hey, remember when you said you loved me last night?” like c'mon lol
OP lies for karma often
If there was nothing to hide-there would be no lies.people lie or leave sh¡t out do so because they know they've done wrong Or something about the situation they are explaining was wrong so they conveniently leave it out ..otherwise they wouldn't leave things out obviously you know….idk about your gf though sorry if it was in a bad way tho that sucks if so
I have to wonder if you have a penis because like most dudes here will say, it happens. I doubt is has anything to do with emotions. Sounds like your fishing in area you don't have much experience.
Well, reminding people with ADHD to do things they forget in a friendly manner is usually considered helpful. I do understand having ADHD and autism is difficult for any relationship, but you have to find a way to make it work together. Using ADHD and autism as an excuse won’t help you move forward.
Honestly, it's her past, it's a part of her. She can't disregard it because she did those things, those things are her. Not saying it's wrong, but to say that she was different in some way or she changed is being dishonest
Why don’t you listen to your therapist? You’re paying for her services why don’t you listen to them? The answer is obviously clear
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Call the police report that you were assaulted. Take pictures of any damage including bruising and let it be. You’re “friend” is a bully who deserves karma. Do not hang out with this idiot anymore.
At the very least take a break. I think you don’t want to hear ‘leave her’ because you are used to her and the idea of being alone/ starting over is scary. Take some time off and realize it’s not as scary as you think.
Unless you decide you do want to spend the rest of your life with a roommate that messes around with other men. Then you can take her back.
And you're still with him huh? Lol
I don't know if your daily schedule is so busy that you don't have time to cook. But if you have a sensitive digestive system you should definitely know how to make food that isn't bad for you.
Also learn that throwing away a $100 worth of meatballs is still cheaper than eating it and potentially needing to get your stomach pumped out.
Sounds like you're considered the “chronic, not to heal and not interested to get healed”-case by your docs…
Ah a deep brain stem stimulator? Have read about it, but didn't know it works for ocd, interesting, must read into it. Yeah, brain surgery is scary as fuck…I once was at the decision too, but didn't work in my case, as I was too stable…
I think you need a new doc who looks through your papertrail with fresh eyes and new knowledge. And a good behavioural therapist who can give you a few “tools” to better cope with your OCD.
But I'm out for tonight, should have slept an hour ago 😉
Good night and hopefully you don't get bitten by “Corinna”
He just not that into you.
You have to stick to what you said and December has come and gone.
I'm sorry, I know it's hot but I think in the second half of your post you have answered your own question. He's not really committed to you and you should find someone who is.
Are you just sitting around waiting for his replies? Do you not go to school, work or have hobbies? You need something to occupy your time, preferably something that will better your situation like a job or school or something you enjoy.
I literally slapped my hand over my mouth. Idk why. No one is here but me but it needed a physical response it was so bad!!
Thanks. I agree, I've seen this too. It's also to validate to themselves that they are just as [insert attribute they are envious of] as the girl he's with.
I don't get this mindset though. Like no offence to people who do this, but some men/women will sleep with a large chunk of people that come onto them. They're not picky. So sleeping with or “taking” another woman's man really proves nothing about you compared to her. It really just proves that the guy or girl in question likes sex and/or attention and is a cheat anyway.
I'm sure there are more accurate ways to validate yourself because this just proves nothing.
Because they’re dumb.
Hmm, I personally wouldn't get back with someone who did that to me, so I don't know what to advise you. Think about if all this turned the other way around and she had put you through a sudden brutal break-up, got with one of your friends and then came crawling back.
Are you really mature enough to be in a relationship? Your timeline is very turbulent/volatile.
The problem is, we text throughout the day. I only hung up because I did not want to get into a useless argument, and it's not like I hung up on her. I said goodbye, I love you, and she responded with “no you don't.” It's never just a conversation with her. If she doesn't agree with me on something, she will not let it go until she wins, or until it's been long enough that she realizes she over reacted. Then she apologizes and we have a normal conversation. It's so taxing. I've got enough to think about with school.
Okay, so the fact she invited you to Melbourne made me feel like she wanted to be open and introduce you, but I get why you'd be uncomfortable when she's not even introduced you in your own home. Once you said no, I don't think she'd need to cancel, but I think a meal in a group is one thing and going out boozing is another. Then for her to know your feelings and be on a break and plan a one on one without inviting you again is insensitive and disrespectful. She's acting like she's rebelling out of spite at this point but you had opportunities to express yourself better and be involved.
I'd ask to have a very transparent discussion where you both try to see things from each other's pov.
i can assure you i am not a troll, my instagram is angelbyytz you can see both me and my partner on there and i have a 3 year post history so i’m very sorry to inform you this is very real and i’m in a very difficult situation rn that idk how to escape from, women’s shelters won’t take me because i’m trans my family is abusive and there’s just really no escape this post is more of a vent
He’s older and won’t put up with nonsense. He has boundaries. If you make his life worse, he will leave. Seems reasonable.
Yeah if convo keeps dying like this, he’s not interested in anything serious
No. At 30, he’s an emotional infant. This won’t get better and all you’ll ever get from him are games. Don’t waste any more of your time.
Your father in laws hand on your shoulder sums it up well.
All this, for a year and with such a climax, you are going to need time to process and heal, I highly recommend getting physical checkup if you haven’t already and get some therapy to assist in processing all of this.
but it's apart of gaming culture
and i am not okay with it.
Straight up abuse, physically and mentally. No means no. What a complete douche bag to not respect that, and go on to manipulate to get what he wants. I suspect you’ve been at his mercy & under his control for the 18 years. Sry this is a part of your life’s journey, and I empathize with feeling stuck, but you are the only one who can change it. You’ll have to find your own inner strength to set and communicate your boundaries and walk if he can’t accept. I hope you have family, or find a shelter/group who can support and help you. Best of luck.
Toxic is toxic. Good people don't act like your ex. Get a lawyer and get your fair share. Do not let him manipulate you one more second!
This sounds more like sex trafficking than love. You have to wonder why a grown man is courting children in foreign countries. Are you even sure he's only 26?
It will be very easy for him to take your passport when you arrive and depending on where he lives, it might be impossible to get to an airport or even afford a ticket if you need to get home.
Do you know how to drive? Will you have access to a car? At your age you can't rent one and who knows if there are taxis or public transportation where he lives. How far away will your country's embassy be?
Do not do this!
….I'm sorry dude there's really only one explanation for using plan b
We’ve had windows on our cars and house bricked in because she wanted more money a month. She involved her Nan for this and then let her Nan call her dad a p file.
She caused a car crash and her mom kicked her out
She set fire to her room when she was smoking we3d
I posted this because yesterday she burnt my hair and said it was an accident
we grounded her once and she came back at 3am with the police drunk.
She ran away for 2 weeks when we did stop
When we took her phone away she sneaked out the window and went to her nans in the night got a new phone. We grounded her and she did the same only with a new key cut of ours and went out and then came back drunk after being with her Nan countless times with police.
Her dad said today he cannot afford and doesn’t deserve money and she said that she will get pregnant and get money from the council.
Her dad has made her room an absolute sanctuary and she destroyed it within 2 weeks – although she picked everything in there.
He tried to do dad and daughter days for coffee and shopping and she started swearing at him and calling him disgusting things out in public and ripping up clothes after he brought them.
He drops her off to school and make sure she’s inside the gates and inside watching and she still leaves every other day and is found in town.
I don't know how people missed these details in the post & comments. This girl's a danger.
that's him on tinder
Are you sure she has an IUD?
Appreciate the positivity
I'm seriously considering it. Its hot because all of my friends keep saying red flag so they'll all laugh at me. But our relationship has been good up until this point.
That’s how I feel. I believe in the “ if he wanted to he would”
Idk if my partner had fantasies about fucking kids I’d be apprehensive.
A lot of guys are in the comments trying to justify this like it’s normal but just because pedophilia (that’s what it is) is normalized doesn’t mean it’s okay.
“The actresses are all over 18” as if that makes it any better. Why does he have to pretend girls are under aged to get off? Why is there a portion of society that thinks “teen” fetishes are okay?
I don’t care what everyone else in the comment section is smoking. He jerks his dick to a genre of porn where women pretend to be kids, and illegal. It’s disgusting that it’s normalized and it’s disgusting he dies it in proximity to your teenage daughters.
How is this a joke?
why so rude?
Yes you are being crazy to be upset and worried about this. Are you planning on killing him or something?
You signed up for a partnership, you didn’t sign a non negotiable contract with a business partner. Every relationship in life – marriages, friendships, parenting – SHOULD change and grow as the people within them change or grow.
You don’t need him to admit it to leave. It’s not a court of law, you have your proof. Leave
what in the sweet home Alabama ? is this
“not a chance”, “begging indicates exactly why the answer is no” “Don't make me call your mommy”
What’s the end goal of doing something like that? It’s not like I’m dying without her lol
yeaaaaah she did you a favor. i would have told her to gtfo the second that clorox wipe came for my genitals ? trash took itself out.
I’m so sorry that happened x
I don't think so?? The only common thread between the victims are that they're all black- clothing has nothing to do with it. One guy who died was wearing an adidas tracksuit, the other was in school uniform, and another was a lawyer coming home from work (wearing a suit).
I wouldn't say he dresses like a 'thug' but I don't think that necessarily matters.
You are always able to leave a relationship in which you aren’t happy, but it’s pretty obvious that he’s not attracted to your weight gain and his accident and your weight gain make sex difficult.
Not sure why you think losing the weight will be easy either, the sex dropped off as you gained the weight to almost nothing even before his accident and you haven’t indicated it was intentional. The fact that the weight gain is to the degree it makes penetration difficult would’ve been a wake-up call for me.
You’re not the asshole to want to leave.
You are the asshole for considering cheating.
His mother is fully aware of his actual financial situation and he’s not listening to her. What makes you think that he will (a) come clean about his finances and (b) listen to you?
He has shown you who he is. He is not going to change. Is this what you want for your life?
Real men don’t put up with abuse.
I agree with most of what you wrote, but I think this specific kind of framing just reinforces the social narratives and stereotypes men face of being “weak” or “submissive” if they are dealing with abuse or are struggling to figure out how to leave.
Sarcasm*
I would leave him over this myself
Thank you, I appreciate you taking the time to comment. I understand that my sister and I are separate people. I suppose I’m taking this hot because it’s the very first time someone’s thought to celebrate her and I’s birthday separately. I understand it’s also the birthday of millions of other people, but obviously, it holds a bit more weight when you share a birthday with someone special. I don’t think I would be an asshole if I didn’t go, so I do disagree with you there. I may not go because one of my friends makes birthday plans with me, for example. But I appreciate your perspective.
There is a difference between forgetting someone and taking out someone from the heart. If your wife says she still has feelings for her ex, she still misses him and wants to know if he is ok and keep a contact with him. Secondly 12 years are enough to know someone. Thirdly, it is not like she does not love me; she does but I feel her love is conditional because we are bound to love each other because of kids and marriage and like I said, for all the practical reasons like she is well settled financially with me and gets what she wants and of course societal pressure, she wont leave me. Her ex once gifted something to her and I have gifted better things to her but she still misses the gift he got from him – this is once example. For me, I cant leave her otherwise I would not have been seeking advice here. I want this relationship to work. Leaving is not an option as I am madly in love with her and I know if I do, I ll hurt myself more and as of now I have chosen this but what I really wanted is somehow she loves me more than her ex
Why did you ask her opinion if you’re not strong enough to handle opinions?
According to you post, the reasons she has for doubting your relationship are the same issues that cause your relationship to struggle. Sounds like your friend is very observant!
If you don’t want to hear what people think about your bf’s family controlling his life, don’t directly ask for opinions about him. My advice is to stop judging your friend, she was just being honest.