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Text her back and say you expect her to pay for her ticket anyway. It would be best to do this before the tickets expire so she knows what to expect. As far as going alone, go! What do you have to lose?
Here's something to consider. You should NEVER vent about relationship issues to friends who you want to like your partner. They'll only hear the bad stuff, and won't remember the good stuff.
Pretty much what everyone is saying, that I need to stop being blind and leave. That there is definitely men out there who will treat me better. It’s just rlly nude for me to let go cause we’re each others first love and relationship. All this is very difficult but I know everyone with more experience is screaming LEAVE LEAVE LEAVE. Sigh
The way she did insinuates that you have violated her consent. So you did the right thing walk away. Because the next time she comes over with a friend it may be an accusation and not an insinuation.
You can't stop him, but you can encourage his partners to make the most of the situation. Use the increased stability to get an education or a life skill.
It sounds like she struggles with codependency and a lack of understanding how introverts work, among other issues. Your list looks like the exact list I had when I broke up with my first boyfriend after only 6 months.
Do not fall for the sunk cost fallacy. Just because you've already invested so much time doesn't mean that you have to be trapped forever. You're being smothered, and your resentment will only grow. Find someone who actually understands you.
Thanks for the positive comments, kind stranger. I'm surprised I got so many downvotes, simply for standing up for basic family values and common decency.
I think the age gap is a non-issue. It is more important that you are both near the same level in maturity, priorities, and goals. If you were dating someone who was the same age as you who was living with their parents and working (or not working) a dead end job, and had no long term goals. That would be more of a problem.
Hon, I completely get you still care and possibly love him, but as you said you are also still dealing with your trauma. Now would not be a good time to reach out. Honestly doubt I ever would based on his actions and reaction, but ultimately that would be your decision. However, do you really want to open yourself to his possible rejection again? Especially when you are still very vulnerable?
Please, despite the harshness of some, listen to these commenters. They are actually looking out for your best interest.
Do not hint lol, and dont be subtle, just outright ask if he can eat you out with a grin on your face, tell him you secretly love it and he'll feel like he's got the secret passcode and will constantly try it, and if he doesnt, tell him to keep doing it because you absolutely love it. Men are simple, tell him you love it and that you've changed your mind and that you want him to do it WAY more. He will.
One of my friends even said this was a red flag because he thinks he can buy me and my help in his house which makes me his employee which makes our relationship imbalanced.
As opposed to the numerous posts we see here almost daily about the guys who just expect their girlfriends, finances, wives or female roommates to do all their chores for free?? He sees you doing his chores as having value and he's willing to compensate you for that. So your friends think you'll be his dependent if you quit your job but his employee if he compensates you fairly?
What do you think? In your gut. Because yes, generally speaking, putting all one's financial eggs in their partner's basket is inherently risky, no question. You didn't say how long you've been dating or if you online together. There are certainly some things to consider but ultimately, everything is a risk. You can mitigate it as much as possible but any time you put your wellbeing in someone else's hands you really just have to address as many of the pitfalls as you can, be crystal clear on what each of you is agreeing to (like, actually put it in writing and both sign it so you have something concrete to refer to if an issue arises), crossyour fingers and jump.
So yeah, sit down with him, hash out exactly what each of you expects and then go for it. Don't make the mistake of waving him off with a 'whatever you say/want/do is fine by me!!' out of desperation or gratitude because that is what will lead to resentment and bad feelings down the road. It's okay to want to do this but it's also okay to want to keep your dignity and self-respect intact at the same time.
The mental gymnastics you’re doing to try find loopholes to cheat on your girlfriend without actually cheating on her are insane.
Having a non-monogamous relationship isn’t wrong, I have a lot of friends who are in non-monogamous relationships. But, they’re all entirely aware of that, informed and didn’t start that journey by finding loopholes to cheat on their partners.
Seriously, do the right thing and just tell your girlfriend, or show her this post, so she can make an informed choice.
Yuck! Girl stop having painful dry pum-pum sex. If there is an argument then leave. Strongly consider never coming back. Sex isn’t supposed to be this horrible thing you do to shut someone up.
My friend what is there to doubt? She hasn't suddenly met him 15 minutes ago. She is not in an open relationship. She has quite clearly cheated and broken any and probably all standard monogamous boundaries before she's even spoken to you about opening the relationship. She has cheated. Your relationship is over. Take the words of advice from the many hundreds and hundreds of years of experience from the people commenting on your post
How long have you been with that idiot? Don't put up with that crap. It's a horrible thing for him to say to you. You should have replied “i've met her husband and she is definitely the lucky one”.
That is absolutely no way to online. How can you on-line a content and peaceful life if your so is constantly bombarding you with accusations and checking up on you? I suggest you offer him an ultimatum: he either straightens his shit out or you walk.
John, your GF's strong abandonment fear — as well as her abusive and controlling behaviors — may be due to her having very weak control over her own emotions (i.e., a lack of emotional skills she had no opportunity to acquire in childhood). My exW has this problem. If that is an issue for your GF, you likely have been seeing 3 other warning signs.
First, you would be seeing her rely heavily on black-white thinking, wherein she tends to categorize some people as “all good” (“with me”) or “all bad” (“against me”) and will recategorize them — in just a few seconds — from one polar extreme to the other based on a minor infraction.
Because she also uses B-W thinking in judging HERSELF, she would rarely acknowledge making a mistake or having a flaw. Doing so would imply, in her mind, she is “all bad.” She thus would blame nearly all misfortunes and mistakes on you and view herself as “The Victim.”
Further, to validate her “victim” status, she would keep a detailed mental list of every infraction/mistake you ever did (real or imagined) and would not hesitate to pull out the entire list to defend herself in the smallest, most insignificant disagreement with you. Moreover, this B-W thinking also would be evident in her frequent use of all-or-nothing expressions like “you ALWAYS…” and “you NEVER….”
Second, you would not see her expressing her anger to casual friends, classmates, or total strangers. She usually gets along fine with them. Rather, her temper tantrums almost exclusively would be expressed against a close loved one (e.g., against you or her parents).
Third, you are convinced she truly loves you. But you often see her flipping, on a dime, between Jekyll (loving you) and Hyde (devaluing you), frequently making you feel like you're “walking on eggshells.” Such flips would occur in a few seconds in response to some minor thing you say or do.
John, have you been seeing strong occurrences of these 3 red flags?
A partner who truly loves you and cares about you would be happy to see you growing and flourishing.
It seems to me like he isn’t that partner, and he only liked you when you made him feel ok about being mediocre, because you were too. Now that you’re taking care of yourself, he wants to hold you back from being your best self because it shines a light on the fact that he isn’t his best self.
That isn’t love, you’ve outgrown him, and you deserve better.
You need to start masking, sanitizing etc in the office. It sucks a lot but if your boss is so immature and selfish this is happening consistently you’re the only one who can protect yourself.
Op, you need to cut yourself some slack. You are only human and it is natural you feel depressed and anxious.
I am not going to lie. First cut is the deepest. It will hurt for awhile. Right now, you need friends and family.
It is important to have friends even you are in a relationship. Try to contact some of your old friends. Try to divert your attention. Exercise, new hobby, etc.
With time, if you allow yourself, you will get better.
You said you work as well. So you can do that just fine, you split the utilities and either split rent or pay proportion to income.
You have one joined account for shared bills and keep everything else separate.
Just make sure if you consider this route that you discuss with your boyfriend what your intentions are.
Like if you wanted to, tell him that you’re not ready for marriage. But you might be able to consider it if you guys took the time to protect both of you.
There doesn't need to be an initial sexual attraction. Things can TURN into attraction when there's a problem at home and you're going on dates with a “friend” after work. This is why there are boundaries. You do not go out alone with the opposite gender when you are married with kids. Again these situations start out innocent and very quickly turn into cheating.
think about it: you’re comfortable enough to have sex with someone but not talk to them about an issue of concern. I totally see the concern your friends have with this “relationship” and because until you can have an open conversation, you’re not ready for the online in stage.
Text her back and say you expect her to pay for her ticket anyway. It would be best to do this before the tickets expire so she knows what to expect. As far as going alone, go! What do you have to lose?
How old are you and her and how many years ago was it?
What was the last message that got sent between you two? I mean it can be on general terms no need to be specific
My penis is burnt off
I'm cheating with all of you right now
Maybe first date post hooking up? Thats what my partner and i picked
Here's something to consider. You should NEVER vent about relationship issues to friends who you want to like your partner. They'll only hear the bad stuff, and won't remember the good stuff.
Yeah, you were a manipulative AH. That makes a bad friend and bad partner.
Pretty much what everyone is saying, that I need to stop being blind and leave. That there is definitely men out there who will treat me better. It’s just rlly nude for me to let go cause we’re each others first love and relationship. All this is very difficult but I know everyone with more experience is screaming LEAVE LEAVE LEAVE. Sigh
Him: sorry, you’re just a nude s*ut to me.
Dump him!! You can and will find better very quickly and he will be begging for you back.
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So a test on your stepson
She already broke up two homes
It's too late. She's a horrible person and so is that guy.
Youve spent 2 posts being a doormat in the name of “accommodation” that you've missed the forest for the trees.
You are the victim her. She is the aggressor
Leave and restart your life fresh.
The way she did insinuates that you have violated her consent. So you did the right thing walk away. Because the next time she comes over with a friend it may be an accusation and not an insinuation.
You can't stop him, but you can encourage his partners to make the most of the situation. Use the increased stability to get an education or a life skill.
I think most mature women in this situation would understand and wouldn't stay mad over it.
Yeah at 30 it seems funny. At 18 I would get it.
“and I should know, I keep an eye out”….. Is he actively stalking you after the breakup? Cuz that's fucked.
It sounds like she struggles with codependency and a lack of understanding how introverts work, among other issues. Your list looks like the exact list I had when I broke up with my first boyfriend after only 6 months.
Do not fall for the sunk cost fallacy. Just because you've already invested so much time doesn't mean that you have to be trapped forever. You're being smothered, and your resentment will only grow. Find someone who actually understands you.
Thanks for the positive comments, kind stranger. I'm surprised I got so many downvotes, simply for standing up for basic family values and common decency.
He. Needs. Counseling. Holy shit.
I think the age gap is a non-issue. It is more important that you are both near the same level in maturity, priorities, and goals. If you were dating someone who was the same age as you who was living with their parents and working (or not working) a dead end job, and had no long term goals. That would be more of a problem.
Hon, I completely get you still care and possibly love him, but as you said you are also still dealing with your trauma. Now would not be a good time to reach out. Honestly doubt I ever would based on his actions and reaction, but ultimately that would be your decision. However, do you really want to open yourself to his possible rejection again? Especially when you are still very vulnerable?
Please, despite the harshness of some, listen to these commenters. They are actually looking out for your best interest.
Jfc I have to go shopping too?!
Do not hint lol, and dont be subtle, just outright ask if he can eat you out with a grin on your face, tell him you secretly love it and he'll feel like he's got the secret passcode and will constantly try it, and if he doesnt, tell him to keep doing it because you absolutely love it. Men are simple, tell him you love it and that you've changed your mind and that you want him to do it WAY more. He will.
He needs a residential address , no po or office addresses works .
One of my friends even said this was a red flag because he thinks he can buy me and my help in his house which makes me his employee which makes our relationship imbalanced.
As opposed to the numerous posts we see here almost daily about the guys who just expect their girlfriends, finances, wives or female roommates to do all their chores for free?? He sees you doing his chores as having value and he's willing to compensate you for that. So your friends think you'll be his dependent if you quit your job but his employee if he compensates you fairly?
What do you think? In your gut. Because yes, generally speaking, putting all one's financial eggs in their partner's basket is inherently risky, no question. You didn't say how long you've been dating or if you online together. There are certainly some things to consider but ultimately, everything is a risk. You can mitigate it as much as possible but any time you put your wellbeing in someone else's hands you really just have to address as many of the pitfalls as you can, be crystal clear on what each of you is agreeing to (like, actually put it in writing and both sign it so you have something concrete to refer to if an issue arises), crossyour fingers and jump.
So yeah, sit down with him, hash out exactly what each of you expects and then go for it. Don't make the mistake of waving him off with a 'whatever you say/want/do is fine by me!!' out of desperation or gratitude because that is what will lead to resentment and bad feelings down the road. It's okay to want to do this but it's also okay to want to keep your dignity and self-respect intact at the same time.
The mental gymnastics you’re doing to try find loopholes to cheat on your girlfriend without actually cheating on her are insane.
Having a non-monogamous relationship isn’t wrong, I have a lot of friends who are in non-monogamous relationships. But, they’re all entirely aware of that, informed and didn’t start that journey by finding loopholes to cheat on their partners.
Seriously, do the right thing and just tell your girlfriend, or show her this post, so she can make an informed choice.
If you agree, make sure it's on the condition of not dating or fucking anyone else.
Jesus….. is your husband Joe and your name is Mary….
Yuck! Girl stop having painful dry pum-pum sex. If there is an argument then leave. Strongly consider never coming back. Sex isn’t supposed to be this horrible thing you do to shut someone up.
Absolutely agree
Not only does he not want to get married, he definitely also doesn't want to get married to OP. He doesn't like her or respect her.
So you wanted an open relationship it in ship then wanted to divorce bro but now he lost 11k so you feel like you have a reason
My friend what is there to doubt? She hasn't suddenly met him 15 minutes ago. She is not in an open relationship. She has quite clearly cheated and broken any and probably all standard monogamous boundaries before she's even spoken to you about opening the relationship. She has cheated. Your relationship is over. Take the words of advice from the many hundreds and hundreds of years of experience from the people commenting on your post
How long have you been with that idiot? Don't put up with that crap. It's a horrible thing for him to say to you. You should have replied “i've met her husband and she is definitely the lucky one”.
That is absolutely no way to online. How can you on-line a content and peaceful life if your so is constantly bombarding you with accusations and checking up on you? I suggest you offer him an ultimatum: he either straightens his shit out or you walk.
John, your GF's strong abandonment fear — as well as her abusive and controlling behaviors — may be due to her having very weak control over her own emotions (i.e., a lack of emotional skills she had no opportunity to acquire in childhood). My exW has this problem. If that is an issue for your GF, you likely have been seeing 3 other warning signs.
First, you would be seeing her rely heavily on black-white thinking, wherein she tends to categorize some people as “all good” (“with me”) or “all bad” (“against me”) and will recategorize them — in just a few seconds — from one polar extreme to the other based on a minor infraction.
Because she also uses B-W thinking in judging HERSELF, she would rarely acknowledge making a mistake or having a flaw. Doing so would imply, in her mind, she is “all bad.” She thus would blame nearly all misfortunes and mistakes on you and view herself as “The Victim.”
Further, to validate her “victim” status, she would keep a detailed mental list of every infraction/mistake you ever did (real or imagined) and would not hesitate to pull out the entire list to defend herself in the smallest, most insignificant disagreement with you. Moreover, this B-W thinking also would be evident in her frequent use of all-or-nothing expressions like “you ALWAYS…” and “you NEVER….”
Second, you would not see her expressing her anger to casual friends, classmates, or total strangers. She usually gets along fine with them. Rather, her temper tantrums almost exclusively would be expressed against a close loved one (e.g., against you or her parents).
Third, you are convinced she truly loves you. But you often see her flipping, on a dime, between Jekyll (loving you) and Hyde (devaluing you), frequently making you feel like you're “walking on eggshells.” Such flips would occur in a few seconds in response to some minor thing you say or do.
John, have you been seeing strong occurrences of these 3 red flags?
A partner who truly loves you and cares about you would be happy to see you growing and flourishing.
It seems to me like he isn’t that partner, and he only liked you when you made him feel ok about being mediocre, because you were too. Now that you’re taking care of yourself, he wants to hold you back from being your best self because it shines a light on the fact that he isn’t his best self.
That isn’t love, you’ve outgrown him, and you deserve better.
You need to start masking, sanitizing etc in the office. It sucks a lot but if your boss is so immature and selfish this is happening consistently you’re the only one who can protect yourself.
I will ghost him for 2 days for this.
Are you really 25? This sounds extremely immature
Lol he's obviously not over her. Its easier to ignore it but don't. He'd drop you for her in a second from what you've said
Then thats not vaginal.
I'm not sure why you're being down voted for not knowing what the phrase means.
You're not wrong, in my opinion, though and you should be with someone who you desire physically as well if that's what you need.
You cannot be too upset about this
Op, you need to cut yourself some slack. You are only human and it is natural you feel depressed and anxious.
I am not going to lie. First cut is the deepest. It will hurt for awhile. Right now, you need friends and family.
It is important to have friends even you are in a relationship. Try to contact some of your old friends. Try to divert your attention. Exercise, new hobby, etc.
With time, if you allow yourself, you will get better.
You said you work as well. So you can do that just fine, you split the utilities and either split rent or pay proportion to income.
You have one joined account for shared bills and keep everything else separate.
Just make sure if you consider this route that you discuss with your boyfriend what your intentions are.
Like if you wanted to, tell him that you’re not ready for marriage. But you might be able to consider it if you guys took the time to protect both of you.
There doesn't need to be an initial sexual attraction. Things can TURN into attraction when there's a problem at home and you're going on dates with a “friend” after work. This is why there are boundaries. You do not go out alone with the opposite gender when you are married with kids. Again these situations start out innocent and very quickly turn into cheating.
She's older than he is.
His dad should have but she should have also said something.
think about it: you’re comfortable enough to have sex with someone but not talk to them about an issue of concern. I totally see the concern your friends have with this “relationship” and because until you can have an open conversation, you’re not ready for the online in stage.