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Your relationship is over bro. There’s not a whole lot you can do here but pick up the pieces and move on. You and her grow apart and that is okay. You’re going to be okay. It’s going to hurt and you need to cherish the good times you had and mourn this loss. Visions for life can differ, especially when in relationships at younger ages.
My suggestion is to handle this with grace. It’s unfair how she treated you, but you now have the blessing of being able to put the energy you were giving to her into yourself and propel yourself further in achieving your hopes and dreams. Best wishes bro.
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Yes I agree and you are right she has the right to be offended and upset I wasn’t thinking. I related to it because my ex cheated on me and that’s why I posted it but I wasn’t thinking about her at the time when I posted it. I’m sorry about that but when I’m asking about our current situation and whether we should continue talking or further our relationship and not answering is petty right ?
Before gay men were out a lot I will see if this sometimes around younger, gay men. Where they would think if they were with me one time that you never go back and so they were totally inappropriate. I worked in restaurants and bars when I was young.
. The world doesn’t operate like that anymore. That’s harassment and sexual harassment. It doesn’t make you Sondra excited it’s obnoxious. I would suggest you’re more direct with him where you’re not interested. It doesn’t have to be flirty or try to be nice around it because it’s causing you issues
I would agree with you that she is doing this all for me, and if it weren't for my desire, she likely wouldn't have/be doing PFT.
(Although that is only part of the truth. I left it out of the story, but she also suffered from some medical issues that had her doctor recommend she have and IUD inserted. Not for pregnancy issues, but instead for the hormones to help some sever menstrual cycle issues. Initially she was unable to have the IUD inserted due to her vaginismus. After starting PFT, she was eventually able to have that procedure done.)
I also left out a bit of the timeline (as to not clutter the topic). She did PFT for about 6 months. At that point, we had a big argument that tanked our intimate relationship. We were still together, but our intimacy stopped, and she also stopped PFT.
Shortly after we began couple's counseling. During the talks, we did discuss our intimacy issues, which included the PIV sex and PFT. Eventually I saw how unhappy she was with that pursuit, so about a month ago I told her directly that she no longer needed to worry PIV sex or doing PFT. I told her I was grateful for her trying to fulfill my desire, but that form of intimacy had become of focal point of our relationship and was making us both unhappy. I just wanted to have a close and full intimate relationship with her, and that there were many ways for us to do that without that form of sex.
After that, our intimacy began to pickup again. And we were both happy and things felt like they were 'back on track'. To be honest, PIV sex was the last thing on my mind. I was just happy to have a close and intimate relationship with the person I loved.
But about two weeks ago, we were just cuddling in bed. Then (for what seemed completely random to me), she said to me: “I've been thinking about it, and if you want, I would be okay starting PFT again”. I asked her if that is really what she wants, and she said she wanted to give 'that' (PIV sex) to me and she was okaying trying again.
So we started up PFT again, and that eventually led into the end of the story above.
You can't do the damage and then be angry that she needs time to trust you again. It's easy for you to move on when you had the audacity to cheat in the first place
Firstly, I never implied you are a red flag for not wanting to be kept a secret. It is a red flag that you have decided that his explanation isn’t valid & that you turned up at his house unannounced to try and force an outcome that you want.
He gave you an explanation, which is 100% valid. Not everyone gets along with their family. Not everyone likes their family. If he has given you no reason to mistrust him, then you should accept his reasons. He doesn’t have to tell you any details at all if he doesn’t want to. They might be deeply personal. They might be completely superficial or stupid. But they are his reasons, and he doesn’t have to tell you if he doesn’t want to.
Based on your post, there is nothing in there about him actively hiding you from everyone in his life, and keeping you secret from everyone. Only that he doesn’t want you to meet his family.
I don’t recall any of my friends getting all hard and horny either over it. Other different reactions, however. Lol. I agree, this whole thing is a shit storm, maybe OPs taking away lesson ought to be no more open relationships in the future.
You need to have something called a sober conversation.
This can be done at any loving moment, maybe in bed, or on the couch… but you have to say something on the lines of; I need to talk to you about something, and it's really important to me that you just listen. Then, use this framework: 1. Evidence: lay out what you see. 2: how it's making you feel and 3. What you want to see happen now. Ask him, how that lands with him; but you don't take responsibility for his response. You've created a boundary. You've got this!
Your relationship is over bro. There’s not a whole lot you can do here but pick up the pieces and move on. You and her grow apart and that is okay. You’re going to be okay. It’s going to hurt and you need to cherish the good times you had and mourn this loss. Visions for life can differ, especially when in relationships at younger ages.
My suggestion is to handle this with grace. It’s unfair how she treated you, but you now have the blessing of being able to put the energy you were giving to her into yourself and propel yourself further in achieving your hopes and dreams. Best wishes bro.
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I suspect things aren't as hard for her as you have been led to believe. Anyway, do as you think.you must, and may the blessings of Allah be upon you!
Red flag.
It's only been a month. Time to end it.
You deserve someone who is mature enough to hold health boundaries with exes.
I'm afraid an asshole is an asshole whether drunk or sober.
She’s not a nice gf for you. Find someone whose not comparing dick sizes. 5 is plenty
I've planned on the training for the dog since adoption and maybe I can send my wife to dog training classes on how to properly care doe the dog
OH, and everyone knows what Kelly did and Jane’s role as well. And they all think it’s as evil and wretched as I do!
Yes, because there’s no accountability, no remorse. He’ll do it again and again. And you’ll let him.
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Look girl,
You need to tell your boyfriend either he proves that he isnt cheating or you will dump him.
Why? Is it that you want to be just friends? Or friends with benefits without the relationship? Just tell her how you feel
Yes I agree and you are right she has the right to be offended and upset I wasn’t thinking. I related to it because my ex cheated on me and that’s why I posted it but I wasn’t thinking about her at the time when I posted it. I’m sorry about that but when I’m asking about our current situation and whether we should continue talking or further our relationship and not answering is petty right ?
NEVER do LDRs, just never.
Before gay men were out a lot I will see if this sometimes around younger, gay men. Where they would think if they were with me one time that you never go back and so they were totally inappropriate. I worked in restaurants and bars when I was young.
. The world doesn’t operate like that anymore. That’s harassment and sexual harassment. It doesn’t make you Sondra excited it’s obnoxious. I would suggest you’re more direct with him where you’re not interested. It doesn’t have to be flirty or try to be nice around it because it’s causing you issues
I would agree with you that she is doing this all for me, and if it weren't for my desire, she likely wouldn't have/be doing PFT.
(Although that is only part of the truth. I left it out of the story, but she also suffered from some medical issues that had her doctor recommend she have and IUD inserted. Not for pregnancy issues, but instead for the hormones to help some sever menstrual cycle issues. Initially she was unable to have the IUD inserted due to her vaginismus. After starting PFT, she was eventually able to have that procedure done.)
I also left out a bit of the timeline (as to not clutter the topic). She did PFT for about 6 months. At that point, we had a big argument that tanked our intimate relationship. We were still together, but our intimacy stopped, and she also stopped PFT.
Shortly after we began couple's counseling. During the talks, we did discuss our intimacy issues, which included the PIV sex and PFT. Eventually I saw how unhappy she was with that pursuit, so about a month ago I told her directly that she no longer needed to worry PIV sex or doing PFT. I told her I was grateful for her trying to fulfill my desire, but that form of intimacy had become of focal point of our relationship and was making us both unhappy. I just wanted to have a close and full intimate relationship with her, and that there were many ways for us to do that without that form of sex.
After that, our intimacy began to pickup again. And we were both happy and things felt like they were 'back on track'. To be honest, PIV sex was the last thing on my mind. I was just happy to have a close and intimate relationship with the person I loved.
But about two weeks ago, we were just cuddling in bed. Then (for what seemed completely random to me), she said to me: “I've been thinking about it, and if you want, I would be okay starting PFT again”. I asked her if that is really what she wants, and she said she wanted to give 'that' (PIV sex) to me and she was okaying trying again.
So we started up PFT again, and that eventually led into the end of the story above.
You shit in your bed, now you get to lie in it guy.
You can't do the damage and then be angry that she needs time to trust you again. It's easy for you to move on when you had the audacity to cheat in the first place
Sounds like you haven't grown at all. You are still incredibly selfish.
There is no solution to her not loving you.
But feel free to be a doormat for her until she finds herself someone who she loves, and hope she dumps you before she cheats.
Firstly, I never implied you are a red flag for not wanting to be kept a secret. It is a red flag that you have decided that his explanation isn’t valid & that you turned up at his house unannounced to try and force an outcome that you want.
He gave you an explanation, which is 100% valid. Not everyone gets along with their family. Not everyone likes their family. If he has given you no reason to mistrust him, then you should accept his reasons. He doesn’t have to tell you any details at all if he doesn’t want to. They might be deeply personal. They might be completely superficial or stupid. But they are his reasons, and he doesn’t have to tell you if he doesn’t want to.
Based on your post, there is nothing in there about him actively hiding you from everyone in his life, and keeping you secret from everyone. Only that he doesn’t want you to meet his family.
Unless you can do therapy, not much you can do except give him a safe space.
Does he have ADHD? The way he acts is sounding kinda familliar.
I don’t recall any of my friends getting all hard and horny either over it. Other different reactions, however. Lol. I agree, this whole thing is a shit storm, maybe OPs taking away lesson ought to be no more open relationships in the future.
You need to have something called a sober conversation.
This can be done at any loving moment, maybe in bed, or on the couch… but you have to say something on the lines of; I need to talk to you about something, and it's really important to me that you just listen. Then, use this framework: 1. Evidence: lay out what you see. 2: how it's making you feel and 3. What you want to see happen now. Ask him, how that lands with him; but you don't take responsibility for his response. You've created a boundary. You've got this!
18 and 26? ?