Given your past history of abuse its likely you cannot accurately assess the danger you and your child are in. This is completely unacceptable and should be reported.
Yes i did communicate this and he says he's sorry n he'll do better and tells me like once. And then its back to same routine again. He is actually very forgetful about a lot of stuff but when you forget me it just makes me look stupid.
I understand his position that he preferred not to discuss general job applications until he knew more info, but it’s unreasonable if he’s moving without discussing it with you at all. I also think not knowing how long the position will last is very worrisome. To what extent is he considering your opinion in regards to moving?
If she approaches you at work, you tell her you are working and can help with anything work related. If she wants to talk personal stuff, walk away and tell your manager she is harassing you and not there as a customer.
Red flags are a good bit more subjective than that.
I could say to my wife that she needs to delete her social media.
Then you could swoop in and throw a RED FLAG due to controlling behavior.
After which, my wife could thank me for reminding her to delete her own social media as was her decision to do.
How do you explain yourself?
Either my wife and I are both wrong in how we are going about our relationship…
or
You've come in and wrongly tried to apply a relationship standard that neither my wife nor I have chosen to abide by…
or
Red flags aren't the objective end-all be-all that you've claimed them to be. Perhaps red flags are often purely subjective occurrences, and you be best off acknowledging them as such.
In this case, the values difference surrounding the sacredness of sex throws the long-term viability of this new relationship into doubt.
My house was just a little more… With that down payment… Holy shit.
Given your past history of abuse its likely you cannot accurately assess the danger you and your child are in. This is completely unacceptable and should be reported.
Women are different, some have sex at any time of the day and some only once a day or once a week.
This guy is just a cheater, he cheats on his GF ( his Ex? Bullshit) he’s on the apps trying to cheat on you. He’s a walking STD supplier.
The most loving thing you can do is continue to be no contact with him. Starting to take care of him would just be enabling.
I get why you're single at 37 lol
Break up and enjoy single life.
What would you guys do?.
Turn myself into the cops for stalking.
Yes i did communicate this and he says he's sorry n he'll do better and tells me like once. And then its back to same routine again. He is actually very forgetful about a lot of stuff but when you forget me it just makes me look stupid.
It's one based on love, trust and the ability to not cross each other's boundaries. He has his lines in the sand too, I respect his, he respects mine.
I understand his position that he preferred not to discuss general job applications until he knew more info, but it’s unreasonable if he’s moving without discussing it with you at all. I also think not knowing how long the position will last is very worrisome. To what extent is he considering your opinion in regards to moving?
I’ve had some really bad relationships in the past so to me this is the best man I’ve ever dated… now I’m starting to realize that he might not be
Yes, just echoing your point here, perfectly put.
If she approaches you at work, you tell her you are working and can help with anything work related. If she wants to talk personal stuff, walk away and tell your manager she is harassing you and not there as a customer.
Sometimes I wish I could wear a jacket. Air conditioning is cold, y’all.
No….
Red flags are a good bit more subjective than that.
I could say to my wife that she needs to delete her social media.
Then you could swoop in and throw a RED FLAG due to controlling behavior.
After which, my wife could thank me for reminding her to delete her own social media as was her decision to do.
How do you explain yourself?
Either my wife and I are both wrong in how we are going about our relationship…
or
You've come in and wrongly tried to apply a relationship standard that neither my wife nor I have chosen to abide by…
or
Red flags aren't the objective end-all be-all that you've claimed them to be. Perhaps red flags are often purely subjective occurrences, and you be best off acknowledging them as such.
In this case, the values difference surrounding the sacredness of sex throws the long-term viability of this new relationship into doubt.
Sounds like a red flag to me.
Is she a snapewife or something lol?